In the adult world, it is very important to inform in advance when getting along with others. This rule also applies to parenting.
Don't think that children are too young to understand. In fact, their understanding ability is beyond your imagination. A few months old baby can already feel it.
So, what are the things suitable for infants to inform in advance?
Almost all children are afraid of vaccination. In the injection room, children often cry, and adults feel distressed, so they should give him an injection.
We can try to inform this method in advance.
You can tell your baby one day in advance and reason with him: "Baby, we are going to get a vaccine tomorrow, which may hurt a little." Why are you vaccinated? Vaccination can make us less sick and not sick, and less injections and no injections in the future. Our baby is the best, and we are not afraid of being targeted, are we? My parents were still with me when I was vaccinated. The baby is not afraid, is it? "
Get up the next day to remind me: "Baby, we are going to get vaccinated later. The agreement is good, the baby is not afraid! " Now have a good meal. "
Before leaving, remind me again: "Baby, we are going to the hospital for vaccination now, and we will arrive soon." The baby is not afraid, the baby is great! "
After vaccination, no matter whether the baby cries or not, it is necessary to calm down: "The baby just did a good job and stopped crying after the injection! Doesn't the injection hurt at all? Come on, mom, hug and kiss, let's go home! "
The next injection can tell the last performance and improve the baby's self-confidence.
My baby started using this method when he was half a year old. He is very good and cooperative, and seldom cries when he has an injection.
Infants and young children, like adults, like familiar surroundings and resist going out of the city.
Before leaving, tell the baby one or even a few days in advance: "Baby, we are going to a far, far place tomorrow. At that time, we could meet many people. Are relatives of mom and dad. They like you, too. They will hug you, kiss you and tease you. Don't be afraid, baby. Mom and Dad will always be by your side! "
"Baby, we may see many plants, animals and many things we have never seen before. It will be fun! "
When you get home, please review what you saw and heard that day, and tell ta that no matter where you go in the future, mom and dad will accompany ta, so don't be afraid.
Doing so can improve children's ability to adapt to the new environment and reduce their anxiety and insecurity.
In life, we can see that some children spend a lot of money to buy new toys, and adults are helpless; Some children have a great time, which makes adults shout.
We can use pre-agreed methods to avoid unreasonable or willful behavior of children.
For example, if you want to take your baby to buy toys, make an appointment before you leave: buy only one toy at a time. Leave with the child's consent. Let ta carefully choose one when purchasing.
Also tell ta: "mom and dad will abide by the agreement to take you to play and buy you toys, and you should also abide by the agreement!" " "
Next, I want to make a reply: "Today, the baby performed very well and was able to keep the agreement. I only bought a toy, unlike some babies. As a reward for keeping the agreement, I will take you to play and buy toys next time, ok? "
The baby was very clever and soon learned the benefits of abiding by the agreement. This practice is more effective than yelling and beating.
My baby likes to eat butter biscuits and chocolate mushroom biscuits. We promised to buy it for him and agreed that we could only eat one a day. I also told him why I made this agreement: because these cookies are not good for the baby's teeth.
He keeps his promise, only eats one a day, and sometimes even forgets to eat.
For example, if the baby plays outside, he will forget the time.
We can make an agreement like this: "Baby, I know you like playing with children very much, but we have to eat on time and come home at 5: 30, okay?" Shall I remind you? "With the consent of the baby, let ta be happy, remind him ten minutes in advance and five minutes in advance, and go home with you when the baby arrives.
4. Reading, eating, dressing, etc.
In fact, everything can be told in advance, such as the baby eating, dressing, attending classes, reading and so on. , can be extended to all aspects of life.
As long as you do it with your heart and educate your children with your heart, you can always find a solution to the problem.
Informing in advance is an effective educational method, and it has many advantages to stick to it for a long time.
1. Children will feel that ta is equal to adults, and ta is respected, not that parents are superior and forcibly oppress others.
2. Children will feel that they can control time, control the progress of things, control their own desires, and then develop a self-disciplined character.
3. Children will feel that observing the agreement is the basic principle of being a person. Adults keep their promises, children keep their promises, and the world is beautiful.
Sheng Amethyst said: "At the beginning of life, human nature is good, human nature is similar, and learning is far away. If you don't teach, you will move. "
Every child is an angel. If children want to grow up healthily, adults must keep learning, change themselves, abandon outdated educational methods and learn scientific parenting methods.
I am Tianya, a grandmother who loves learning and sharing. Welcome to leave a message, let's work together.