Married for six years, pregnant four times, all failed. Now I don't know what to do. ...
1 time just got married and got pregnant. Three-dimensional malformation of the heart was found after 25 weeks. After induced labor, it was confirmed that it was a variety of malformations. The baby's gene was tested, and so were our two adults. No problem. In retrospect, first, because I was pregnant when I got married, I drank a little red wine and my husband drank a lot of wine. I wonder if it has anything to do with this. Second, I just found out that I was pregnant with a little bleeding and took progesterone.
In order to prepare for the next pregnancy, we went to do other tests for women and children, such as antibodies and viral infections. , nothing. Six or seven months pregnant, the second pregnancy. Everything was normal before, and there was a little bleeding at three months. Later, the doctor checked the B-ultrasound and said that the placenta was put on the bed, but I suddenly had abdominal pain and miscarried after lying for a few days. ...
Then I found another doctor to draw blood again for various tests. Pregnancy for the third time immediately after follicular test. The doctor asked me to take heparin, and after more than 5 weeks, the bleeding suddenly disappeared. ...
The fourth time, I went to do various tests and prepared for pregnancy for more than half a year. My husband almost gave up, but I didn't expect to get pregnant in the end. Then I took all kinds of medicines and injections to protect my baby. After nt, it passed the non-invasive, thinking that as long as it passed the big row, it would be safe. Who knows that I have some bleeding for more than 22 weeks and went to the obstetric emergency. The doctor said there was nothing serious, and there was nothing serious with the B-ultrasound.
Now I am still in the empty moon ... I have never drunk or smoked since I was a child, and my life is very simple. Every time I get pregnant, I pay great attention to my diet and always treat others well. I don't know why these things happen to me. What makes me even more depressed is that I talked to an obstetrician about my experience, my working environment and genetic factors. The doctor said to me a little helplessly: Maybe our domestic technology is not advanced enough. ...
Now I'm 34 years old and I don't know what to do next. Do I have the courage and health to continue on the road of pregnancy? I still consider adopting a child, and I don't have to toss about it, but sometimes I am unwilling. Why is it so difficult for me to have a child of my own?
Who can tell me?
I have the most say in this. Married for a year, my husband is not very good in that respect. The basic life of husband and wife is only the time of ovulation, just to have children. In this way, it lasted for a year, during which there were many quarrels. Even I felt that my marriage was a failure, and I even had the idea of artificial insemination and IVF. In the year of pregnancy, my husband also took a lot of medicine and spent a lot of money, which has not had much effect. I am exhausted at the thought of my husband's incompetence. I don't know how many tears a person has secretly shed. My husband also knows that he can't satisfy me and always obeys me, which makes me embarrassed to be angry with him. During the National Day, the ovulation period came again. After watching the movie, he had a little desire, and being together twice ended in a few seconds. I didn't care too much afterwards. It's not the first time I've been so lame anyway. I'm used to it. During the National Day, I slept at home for many days. I really had a good rest and I was sad, so I didn't want to go out.
After the National Day, when it was my official holiday, I didn't come for a week, once for a week. I tested it with a test paper, but I didn't give up. I suspect it's the test paper. I plan to go to the hospital for a blood test the next day. Who knows that my aunt reported for duty on time the next morning. Therefore, under repeated blows, I don't have much hope for the extension of this holiday. On the sixth day of the postponement, on Saturday morning, I hurried to clean up. I felt particularly uncomfortable after cleaning, so I took a test paper and measured it. Actually, I don't have any hope. As a result, . I really won.
So during pregnancy, the mood must be relaxed. When the children should come, they will come naturally. Now that medicine is so developed, artificial insemination is a big deal, and IVF is the worst. So the most important thing is to relax. Everything you want will come secretly when you least expect it!
I hope everyone who is pregnant has a good pregnancy!
I started living with my husband last year 1 month, so I have no plans to have children so early. At first, I made up my mind to use contraception. Later, I paid attention to it during ovulation for some reasons, but I didn't come in March after coming to menstruation twice, and I measured two columns with test paper. The accident came too soon. My husband is afraid that I won't tell my parents about my pregnancy. I was engaged at that time, and originally planned to get married in 10 or next year. Then we discussed advancing the wedding date to July. I also accepted that I was pregnant, but when the baby was examined for more than eleven weeks, the fetus stopped and I couldn't have an abortion. This time, I made an agreement with my husband to wait for six months to have another baby, because I always thought that the abortion might be because we were pregnant unexpectedly. My husband and I drank wine, and he kept smoking. I took cold medicine and allergy medicine. After the abortion, I came to my aunt about five days in advance. Then I carefully used contraception with my husband. As a result, a month later, I found myself pregnant unexpectedly again. I started to get a little red after 40 days of pregnancy, and I will get married in a few days. Then everything arranged by my husband is very simple. I took progesterone for more than half a month and went to the hospital for examination every ten days. I spanked both sides and then ate four or five boxes of progesterone tablets. I was still pregnant and threw up. For the first three months, I was either lying or sitting. I'm afraid of walking too much. Standing for a long time, I'm tired. I'm always on tenterhooks every time I check. It took me twelve weeks to get well. Now the baby is about seventeen weeks old. I hope everything will go well in the future and the baby will be born healthy and full-term [pray] [send my heart].
I have a deep understanding of infertility and have experienced it before. That kind of feeling is very helpless and makes people collapse. People who haven't experienced it can't feel that kind of pain. Although I have two children now, I can't forget those days when I think of them.
I get married neither early nor late. I grow up healthily and have no bad hobbies. I never thought about getting pregnant. It's too difficult for me. I didn't want to have children too early when I first got married, but with the same time around me, all married people already had children. We haven't had children for over two years. From calmly facing other people's inquiries, I began to deliberately avoid such topics, because I didn't want to face outsiders, all kinds of guesses, and I cared whether it was true or not. I don't want to face all the questions about children.
At first, my husband's family was obviously not born, and the implication was to question my physical problems. My attitude at first was to let nature take its course. As I grow older, I am worried that I will become an older woman, and my husband's family is beginning to put pressure on me. Whatever I did, it was wrong. It seems that if I am not pregnant, I am inferior. At first, I was not allowed to attend the party at home. Worried that he could not have children, he began to divorce his stressed husband. I'm glad we withstood the pressure.
The vast majority of infertility has a reason, and my reason lies in the inflammation of fallopian tube and pelvic cavity. I know the result through filming, and I have done numerous water treatments, but the effect is still not satisfactory. Pelvic inflammatory disease has been treated, but the fallopian tube is always meaningful but not smooth. Later, the doctor came to the conclusion that I couldn't get pregnant naturally, and the only way was IVF. Let me despair, feel hopeless in life, face all kinds of gossip, physically and mentally exhausted.
Some infertility can be found out, and some can't. Some couples are in good health but have no children. In the face of outsiders' doubts, they are speechless, but they don't know what to do. Like my classmate, husband and wife have been married for many years and have been examined countless times. No problem, but they are not pregnant. Later, the husband and wife could only divorce. Later, both sides got married and had children. I don't know if it's true fate. Think before they really suffer physically and mentally.
My experience of infertility has been written, and the pain and suffering can be written into a book. Fortunately, I have got what I want now.
Husband and wife face infertility, according to the following methods:
First, first of all, we should have a physical examination, and they should actively face the treatment.
Normal couples who have not been pregnant for more than one year without contraception should pay attention to the fact that both sides should go to the hospital for treatment. I used to think that my husband had a problem, but later I found that he had a physical problem, and the same treatment also had an effect. The process of treatment is long, and both sides should face it positively and prepare money and time.
Second, learn not to care about other people's opinions.
At first, I couldn't face it normally. I don't want to go out when people ask me. I'm also afraid to hear the news of having children around me, and I don't like to go out. I always felt that others were talking about me, but later I figured it out that everyone has their own troubles. I just have to do my best with a clear conscience. Nobody said anything behind my back. Don't care about other people's opinions, which is good for physical and mental health. To bear the pressure from all sides.
Third, husband and wife support each other and relax.
In the face of infertility, nothing is more gratifying than your partner's concern. I think when I faced the rejection of my in-laws, my husband had wavered in his will, but he still couldn't give up his feelings for many years. Only when husband and wife face it together can we achieve today's results. We also arranged time to travel and relax, and the baby came unexpectedly. So you can't be nervous, it will affect pregnancy.
The arrival of children is fate. Face your physical condition, actively treat and relax. Maybe the baby is already on the way. The more nervous and unstable, it will affect endocrine disorders. In this way, menstrual period and ovulation period are not allowed, so we should adjust our mentality first, and don't let the birth of a child affect our life and work, because pessimism is useless. I wish you all a good pregnancy at an early date.
I ate folic acid when I was pregnant, which led to menstrual disorder. Three months later, people around me have begun to ask me why I am not pregnant.
Well, I really can't stand these caring greetings around me. After two or three months, I found a Chinese medicine conditioner and prescribed Chinese medicine regularly every week. After eating Chinese medicine for three months, I finally got pregnant!
However, if you are pregnant, you should double it. You have drawn blood many times. The doctor concluded: Leave the child! Take progesterone and continue to take Chinese medicine! In this way, it lasted for another three months.
After that, every check-up was very nerve-racking, so I won't talk about the process. Anyway, every time there is a near miss!
Ok, now the baby is 2 years old and is going to have another child next year. It's really scary to think about it!
The biggest problem now is that my period has not come for more than 2 months. I have tried both B-ultrasound and pregnancy test to make sure I am not pregnant. Don't know why! Well, let's see the doctor another day.
Woman, hard luck!
Yes, I like children very much, but the baby doesn't seem to want to come to our house. They have been married for a long time and have no children. Let me talk about my feelings.
1, pregnancy really depends on fate. Some people can have children of their own soon, but I am very thirsty for water, and my wife cries for it every day. Later, I simply told her that I didn't like children and told her not to be under pressure. Now we don't have children, but we have a good life.
2, the pressure of the life circle, as long as you are married and have no children for one year, friends and relatives are all kinds of problems, when to have children, why not get pregnant, when, etc., it is really scary.
Don't worry, I wish you all an early birth.
My husband and I were first introduced by our family on May 25th, 2006. We have known each other for more than a month, and we feel good. We got engaged on the Dragon Boat Festival and got married in the twelfth month of the same year.
/kloc-in July of 0/6, I came to the hospital with my period 10 without stopping for more than a few days. There was a chocolate cyst on the right ovary. It was only 1 p.m. The doctor said he might have disappeared. He asked me to have a check-up in a month. I thought it would be okay, so I didn't think much. The second inspection was at 2 o'clock. The doctor said, "You.
I am always in a bad mood when I take myself out of this smart bag. I lost ten kilograms at that time. I can't eat, and I feel particularly insecure. I always thought that I had no fate with him, or that he would dislike me. Until about ten days before I got married, I worked very hard and had a big fight with him. He still brought his family to my house and told me to be happy. We got married after all.
I didn't get pregnant after marriage, so I searched online for how to get pregnant more urgently. Some people say that they put pillows in the same room, and some people say that they bought ovulation test paper to measure ovulation. When yang is weak, it means ovulation, and the probability of pregnancy in the same room will be higher.
It's 19 years. After three years of delayed menstruation, I want to know if I am pregnant. If I wasn't pregnant, I would cry and want to die. I think I did something wrong. Thankfully, my husband has been comforting me, saying that it is no problem to have children. We can wait for you to be a test-tube baby or adopt a child in two years. He said that he likes girls and he wants to adopt a girl.
It's 2009 1 1 month, and my menstruation has been delayed for five days because there are early pregnancy test papers at home. On the afternoon of the fifth day, I took the test with the idea that I might get pregnant at first. I just put the early pregnancy test paper in the urine cup for less than a minute, and there are two deep bars. I told my husband that I might be pregnant. My husband smiled and said, "You don't have this thing." Don't come to me when you cry. "I know he didn't want me to hold out too much hope, crying and being afraid of landing there. Because I was on the night shift that day, I bought a pregnancy test stick for urine test on my way to work the next morning, so I could sleep at night, so I ran to the toilet early the next morning for a test, showing two deep bars, and immediately took photos and sent them to my husband who was also on the night shift, so he gave them to me.
After getting married, I check my smart bag once a year. It seems that I have raised it for the next two years, and it has reached the scope of surgery. If I don't do this, my smart bag will burst and I may die. The doctor asked me to have an operation, but I disagreed. After all, I want to give it a try, so I have been trying to get pregnant. At the same time, I am also betting on whether I can win (I don't do this operation because it will cause tubal adhesion, and although I have reached the age of surgery, I usually have no discomfort and no pain during menstruation. Menstruation usually comes seven days earlier or later.
So don't lose heart. Children depend on fate. There is a couple in my sister-in-law's family, who have been married for more than ten years and only got pregnant this year. If you have physical problems, take good care of your health. Don't be like me. If you don't take care of your body like me, you will lose too much if you are not careful, and then you really need to find the right ovulation date when you are pregnant. Otherwise, sharing a room is useless. We are kind people, and God will be kind to us. [praying]
Figure 1 shows my morning urine on the 22nd of this month, and Figure 2 shows my blood drawn from the hospital after work that day.
My husband and I were together before we got married. At that time, we didn't have much contraception, but we weren't pregnant either. Later, we got engaged and we were still not pregnant after a year together. Her mother thought I was taking medicine. I was scared at that time, too. What if I was infertile? I got married at the end of that year. It hasn't moved for almost half a year. I'm also anxious, mainly because it's okay not to get married. As soon as I get married, many people will stare at your stomach. Especially in rural areas. And then I was really worried. I secretly went to the hospital for a check-up, and everything was fine. Then I asked my husband to have a checkup. It turned out that it was his problem and he needed surgery. Surgery was performed in June, and the recovery period was 3 months to 6 months. I went to work in August and didn't think so much at that time. In June, my menstruation was delayed for about half a month, and I didn't consider pregnancy at that time, so I got off work at night. I'm so happy! My husband was asleep at that time. Wake him up. He thought he was dreaming, and they were happy to stay up all night. The next day I went to the hospital to make sure. Now the baby is more than 2 years old and gave birth to a second child unexpectedly, 16 weeks. Next year, baby mouse.
Hey, this is just a bitter tear! /kloc-I got married in 0/6, and I didn't plan to have it at that time. I want to live alone first! /kloc-I plan to have a baby in the middle of 0/7. I was pregnant for four months with test paper and found nothing. Go to the hospital for examination and find out polycystic. /kloc-treatment started at the end of 0/7. First, western medicine, Daying 35 took it for half a year, when the hormones were normal. Pregnant for half a year without results! Later, the menstrual cycle was disordered and the color was black! /kloc-changed to Chinese medicine in 0/9 years, took Chinese medicine for conditioning, detected follicles by B-ultrasound, ovulated, and was not pregnant for two months. Later, I took medicine and let it go. Because of the older age, the doctor suggested checking the fallopian tubes, and there was no problem after the examination! But still not pregnant!
Why is it so difficult!
Compared with you, I am lucky. It took me two years to get pregnant successfully. However, it's really hard to think of the endless waiting, being afraid of going to the hospital and being afraid of others talking behind your back. Fortunately, I finally got pregnant.
But one of my classmates failed to prepare for pregnancy for three years, but her in-laws couldn't wait to get out of the house.
In fact, my classmate got pregnant one year after marriage, and later found out that it was an ectopic pregnancy, but she had no choice but to have a miscarriage and hurt her body. I have been pregnant for half a year, and I haven't heard from you. She received all kinds of drugs and tests. Chinese medicine, western medicine, ovulation test and salpingography were all done, and nothing happened. Her husband became lukewarm to her, and gradually she seldom went home, and even many tests were done by herself.
Later, this classmate thought of talking to her husband. I didn't expect her husband to hold back for a long time, and finally said directly: Let's divorce, my mother can't wait. Then, without saying a word, the students fully realized that her marriage was over. A month later, the day after the classmate found a house and moved out, he went to get a divorce certificate.
That classmate wants nothing, and we all say she is stupid. Why not fight for some property for yourself? She said it was unnecessary, and she didn't want anything to do with their family. She has a job to support herself.