Planning to become a father may mean that the future father will not only make "sacrifices" in his diet and living habits.
It also includes facing a series of changes that may occur in the future. Most importantly, dads may find a completely different woman walking around in front of you with a big belly.
She is even grumpy and unreasonable. In addition, the prospective father himself will have a series of inner changes to bear alone.
(1) Dialogue-The key to understanding your wife is to talk to her more. Get to know her and let her know herself. Share your troubles and feelings and give support and encouragement to each other.
This is an experience you have never had before, and how you spend it will have a profound impact on your husband and wife relationship. You will also see each other in a process that you have never discovered before.
(2) forbearance-a good medicine to comfort his wife. Bad moods are sometimes triggered by people who are more intimate. Because you care, you will be more picky.
Maybe you sometimes find your wife's behavior unbearable. Tell your wife how you feel and show your understanding and tolerance. Tolerance itself is love, support and your contribution to the arrival of the baby.
(3) Help-the adhesive of husband-wife relationship to reduce smoking and avoid wife smoking. Reduce alcohol intake.
Reduce unnecessary social activities and spend more time with your wife. Exercise together.
Help my wife carry her feet and legs. Chatting softly from time to time is the gentlest care.
(4) Action-the best support for his wife. Housework is tedious, and it is done all the time. Pregnant wives need more rest than ever before.
Therefore, be prepared to show your joy at the arrival of the baby with more labor.
2. Should men take care of their wives?
I'm glad to see such a problem, because your wife is similar to me. Many people's answers are quite good. In fact, it's just a matter of personality. They prefer novelty in their hearts. What's more, take these * * * you, look at your reflection, and then look for your concern for her from your nervousness. I think my husband is so happy every time I do this. Besides, maybe your life is too boring and your wife bothers you so much. If she is a person who likes novelty, so are you. ! Some people say that you can use the same method * * * Your wife is the best method. Ah-my husband is as stupid as you. If only he knew. Like me, many times I get angry just to make him play, and he doesn't understand. But it's nothing. I will continue to play mine, although I am a little lost. Change my way, get used to your wife, and learn to give her the happiness she wants. If your wife wants an apricot. ! .
3. What can the elderly do to take care of their daughter-in-law's taste?
As the saying goes, food is the first priority for the people, and food is the first priority.
The family lives together and wants to eat well, but the dishes cooked by her mother-in-law are not used to by her daughter-in-law, and the dishes cooked by her daughter-in-law are not suitable for her mother-in-law. How to properly handle such a thing? Daughter-in-law is a foreigner. Because of the region or eating habits, she is used to the dishes cooked by her mother. As a new comer, it is inevitable that she is not used to the dishes cooked by her mother-in-law. After the daughter-in-law enters the door, the mother-in-law must first declare the eating habits at home, hoping that the daughter-in-law will gradually understand and adapt.
Don't force your daughter-in-law to do it at once. It's unrealistic. At the same time, the elderly should also consider their daughter-in-law's eating habits as much as possible, and match some vegetables she likes, so that she can eat delicious meals every meal, and don't be embarrassed because of different taste requirements for food.
If a daughter-in-law cooks, even if her cooking is average and does not meet her mother-in-law's taste, she should not be picky, let alone criticize her face. You should nod politely and praise, and keep eating your food and chewing it to make it look like you are enjoying delicious food.
When the daughter-in-law feels that her efforts have been affirmed by everyone, she will have a sense of accomplishment and happiness. Although what you said is a lie, it is a kind of respect for others. After all, the daughter-in-law has worked hard, and there is still hard work without credit.
Don't talk about it at the dinner table for the time being. There is plenty of time for private communication after dinner. If the daughter-in-law is not actively encouraged to cook, her enthusiasm will drop sharply, and she may never want to cook in the kitchen again next time, so you have to do it yourself.
Diet itself is an art, and it is difficult for a family to eat satisfactorily, but it can be done. Usually, the mother-in-law should learn to cook with her daughter-in-law, often learn from each other, try to meet the taste requirements of different people, and pay attention to cultivating the food taste of a family.
In this way, the tastes of mother-in-law and even the whole family can gradually become difficult to adjust.
4. How to take care of your wife
1. When introducing new friends to her, please hug her waist instead of standing by and pointing with your fingers.
2. When you meet a beautiful woman in the street, stare at it for no more than 5 seconds and look at the same girl for no more than 5 times. A man who listens to his wife will succeed, so you should listen to her.
She can bully you, but you must never bully her, because although she bullies you, you are the first thing she thinks of every time something good happens! If she cries at you, you should try your best to coax her until she smiles through tears! 6. Post her photo on your wallet, mobile phone ... all the places you often see. 7. Never leave her for more than ten days. 8. In front of her friends, I hope you can show that you love her more and are more nervous about her than usual.
9. Being a big man doesn't mean being overbearing. 10, gentleness does not mean that you have no opinion.
1 1, chic doesn't mean no explanation. 12. Never yell at her in public or leave her alone.
13, it doesn't matter to teach her when she does something wrong, the most important thing is to coax her later. 14, ignore her when she loses her temper and don't give her time to calm down. In fact, she doesn't need time to calm down at all.
15, you can accompany your friends, but you must value color over friends. 16, when she misses you, race against time to date her. 17, looking at her eyes intently.
18, profound tone. 19. If a girl talks to you, you should hold her hand. If she happens not to be around, please keep your distance from them.
20. Hold her hand when crossing the street. 2 1, know how to cherish every minute with her.
No matter how busy you are, don't forget to call every day. 23. Sing her love songs often.
24. Two people have the right to be angry, but not on the same day. If she was angry that day, you can't be angry either. 25. Her life is not satisfactory. You should be persuasive, help analyze and put forward some constructive solutions.
26. Love your wife very much, resolutely support her decision and obey her leadership. Even if people all over the world don't believe her, you should believe her unconditionally.
Because she would do the same to you. 28. Don't smoke.
Fire as soon as you find out. 29. When quarreling with her, each speech shall not exceed 3 minutes (inclusive) and the volume shall not exceed 20 decibels (inclusive).
30, strengthen exercise, strengthen the body, carry her to the fifth floor in one breath 3 1, hug her instead of arguing with her when she loses her temper in a bad mood. 32. The unreasonable wife is spoiled rather than wild.
Let our room be filled with flowers and updated frequently. 34. Go home from work on time and cook food for your wife.
35. Take your wife's hand for a walk after dinner. 36. I will buy my wife anything she likes and dress her up beautifully.
37. Try not to let your wife touch cold water, because it is not good for your wife's health. Don't make your wife angry because she did something wrong.
39. There is a big house with a special study, a spacious balcony, rocking chairs and leisure seats. Grapes can only grow if they are entangled in rocking chairs.
In your spare time, you can sit in a rocking chair and chat. We have a professional stereo at home, because we all like listening to songs.
4 1. Remind my wife to take medicine on time when she is sick. 42. You can't turn a blind eye when your wife wears new clothes, and it must be beautiful and suitable for her.
43. Cook eggs and brown sugar water for my wife every month to cure her pain in those days. 44. Sleep with your wife every night.
45. Warm your wife's cold hands and feet with body temperature in winter. 46. Arrange a trip with your wife every year.
47. Be good at discovering the beauty of your wife. 48. Sincerely say to your wife, "I love you!" .
49. Keep your mobile phone on so that your wife can find herself at any time. 50. Be the first to tell you good news or bad news.
5 1. Every time we meet for the first time after saying goodbye, we should kiss our wife deeply. 52. Go shopping with my wife to buy her favorite skirt.
53. When it rains, hold your wife's shoulder and hold an umbrella. I don't mind shampooing my wife.
55. Squeeze toothpaste for your wife when brushing your teeth together. 56. Learn various ways to make * * * for your wife, especially the soles of your feet.
57. Think of his wife's uncomfortable days and buy his wife's sanitary products. 58. Don't get too close to other women and make your wife suspicious.
59. Let your wife know that she is a responsible person at all times. 60. Respect your wife's privacy, don't restrict her freedom, and trust her.
6 1, take time to watch her favorite TV series with my wife. 62. Don't lie to your wife, just do as you say.
Only the wife is the most beautiful in the world. 64. Sweet talk to your wife at night.
If you make an appointment with your wife, you can't be late. 66. Pay attention and always surprise your wife.
67. Don't be angry with your wife, and don't quarrel. 68. Always hug your wife, even in the street.
When you go out with your wife, you should hold her hand. 69. Hold your wife from behind while watching the scenery with your wife.
70. After supper, I wash dishes and mop the floor. I can't let my wife do this dirty work. 7 1, when quarreling with others, the wife is on her side. If the wife is wrong, tell her privately.
72. I am the wife's support for her to correctly decide important matters. 73. Cover your wife's ears when setting off firecrackers.
74. Listen to your wife carefully. Every time I make a phone call, let my wife hang up first, so as not to let her lose. I also want to hang up my wife's phone.
75. Holding his wife on the bus and secretly kissing his wife. 76. Plan your wife's diet and nurse her body to make her healthier and healthier.
77. Let your wife's friends envy you for having an excellent me to take care of you. 78. When relatives and friends visit, keep the room tidy.
79. Carefully make nutritious soup for your wife and let her drink more. Choose good food for your wife.
8 1, when you go out with your wife, you should pay attention to your image and deserve a beautiful wife. 82. Always remember the day when you met your wife.
83. Send flowers to your wife's workplace occasionally. 84. Always take photos of your wife and leave every happy memory.
85. Remember your wife's casual wishes and realize them quietly. 86. Give your wife mosquito-repellent incense in summer night to prevent her from being bitten by mosquitoes.
87. Give your wife a present.
5. What can a prospective father do to take care of his wife's mood?
After the wife is pregnant, the husband should not only take care of her life, but also put a lot of energy into her mood to keep her in a good mood, which is very beneficial to the baby.
All kinds of hardships during pregnancy, pains during childbirth, and concerns about one's health after childbirth will all lead to the fear of expectant mothers. At this time, the wife needs her husband's care and understanding more. After the wife is pregnant, the husband should pay special attention to her psychological changes, do everything possible to care for her, understand her, reduce bad emotions so that she can overcome her fears, feel the great mission of being a mother, encourage her to summon up courage to cope with the difficulties during pregnancy, and maintain a happy mood and emotional stability, which is more conducive to the future birth of the baby and deepen the relationship between husband and wife.
Accept the wife's sensitive performance. Women are naturally emotional, especially after pregnancy, and they tend to be nervous and excited. At this time, their nerves are more sensitive and their emotions are more volatile.
For food, clothing, housing and transportation, women generally show excessive caution and are careful everywhere. As a husband, you must fully understand your wife's psychological state at this time, accept her over-sensitive performance, and help her relieve her ideological pressure, especially her irritability and picky.
During pregnancy, a husband should be considerate and caring for his wife. Treat each other sincerely in daily life. When there is a contradiction or dispute between the two sides, the husband should take the initiative to compromise, be more easygoing, more restrained, more tolerant and try to accommodate his wife.
Listen to your wife patiently. Many times, expectant mothers need to express their complaints.
Don't ignore all the discomforts she tells-as a man, it's hard to imagine what kind of physical troubles a pregnant woman has to suffer. In fact, many times, it is enough for them to vent their grievances.
So, politely ask what you can do for her, but don't impose your own good methods on her. No woman will refuse to hand over a cup of hot milk or juice at the right time.
Absolutely. The best effect is to add a few sweet words: you have suffered, dear, I love you.