Family refers to a social life unit composed of relatives based on marriage, consanguinity or adoption. Family is a happy existence. Family can be divided into broad sense and narrow sense. In a narrow sense, it refers to the social unit composed of monogamy, and in a broad sense, it refers to various family interest groups at different stages of human evolution, that is, families.
Characteristics of healthy family relations
1, with stable structure;
2. Clear hierarchy;
3. Mom and Dad have complementary functions;
4. There are boundaries between them.
Family relations
Family relationship is a group with husband-wife relationship as the core, and then all members of blood relationship live together. There is no one who doesn't want his family life to be happy and harmonious. All kinds of joys and sorrows in everyone's life affect everyone in the family.
In the family, the relationship between husband and wife is dominant, and the relationship between husband and wife is the first; Secondly, the relationship between children and parents is called ternary relationship; Then there is the relationship between the child and the mother, and the relationship between the child and the father. This is the relationship between the two. Only by maintaining this order in a family can children feel safe, valued and supported.
Normal family relations should be husband and wife holding hands and children standing in front of middle parents. This is the most normal family relationship. Children feel safe because they must get the care and support of their parents. Mother is the representative of emotion, and father is the representative of reason. A child nourishes his inner life with emotion and develops his outer world with reason. The two must be synchronized.
By seeing the relationship between parents, children learn the relationship between themselves and others in the future. Parental relationship is a "relationship reference" observed and heard by children 18 years. However, most husband-wife relationships and family relationships are problematic, which is caused by the disorder of family relationships. Family disorder. This confusion led to the exclusion of one spouse from the family. This will bring family instability, tangled relationships, external relations problems, and also cause problems in children's future marriage.
Children need to grow up, need to grow up in complete care, he doesn't need a burden, he must put all his life energy on self-growth and self-construction. Now you know what sense of responsibility means, right? A sense of responsibility means that you are responsible for the weakest person in this family. Because children have no strength and ability, they are sensitive to the objective relationship in the family and are easily influenced by unbalanced family relations, which leads to problems.