A person's way of thinking will determine his success. If action is a ship, then the way of thinking will be the direction of the ship. Once the direction is wrong, no matter how hard you try, you can't reach the other side.
In the process of children's growth, the difference between excellent children and ordinary children is not their crazy brushing and reciting, but more their way of thinking.
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What is thinking ability?
thinking powers
Refers to the ability to think and solve problems correctly and reasonably; To put it bluntly, it is to infer unknown conclusions from various thinking abilities such as observation, comparison, abstraction, generalization and judgment in life.
What are the main aspects of children's poor logical thinking?
1: The ability to understand space, order and order is weak.
2. The brain processes information very slowly.
3. The cognitive and operational ability of symbols is weak.
4. Slow understanding of abstract symbols
5. Incomplete understanding of the nature of things and low ability to summarize.
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How to cultivate children's thinking ability
How to cultivate thinking ability
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Guide children to do more "situational assumptions"
As we all know, a child who lacks thinking sometimes describes his head as a "stone", but for a child whose brain is wide open, playing a symphony of thinking really means thinking about the flexibility of a "spring".
In life, I believe many people have had such a case:
What if we are late?
What should you do if your toy is robbed?
I don't know if you have found that when we often emphasize one thing, it will cause children's rebellious psychology. This kind of preaching will only backfire.
At this time, our communication with children should pay more attention to the effect, rather than one-way control. For example, communication through some small games may get twice the result with half the effort
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Give children flexible choices.
When we assume various scenes in children's lives, we are actually communicating with children and then giving them more choices. Every option is discussed, communicated, exchanged and recorded, which is a small brainstorming in the invisible process of getting along.
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Cultivate children's flexible thinking
Only by finding the starting point of thinking through subtle observation in life can we know "what is the child thinking?"
As parents, what we need to do in this link is to ask more questions and encourage more.
What we have to do is to affirm the children's questions, seriously answer every question of the children, communicate with the children after answering, understand their thoughts, and continue to encourage questions.
On the premise of encouraging more questions, we should have a deep understanding of each question; The premise of in-depth understanding is that we need to have a lot of knowledge accumulation, and when we have a lot of knowledge accumulation, we can think deeply.
Only when children think actively can they avoid the rigidity and paranoia of thinking. When children know how to look at the problem from another angle, they can really cultivate their own thinking flexibility.
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How to stimulate children's internal drive
How to stimulate children's internal drive
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Give children the right to make their own choices.
Parents can only give their children the choice and tell them that they are responsible for themselves and that learning is their own business.
Only by letting children master their own life rights can children have real internal drive.
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Actively encourage children.
Spencer once said, "One applause for a child is worth a hundred reprimands". Children's greatest self-confidence comes from the encouragement of their families. Parents should actively encourage their children and enhance their self-confidence. The more encouragement children receive, the healthier their behavior and personality will become.
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Cultivate children's sense of responsibility
The sense of responsibility is not something that comes into being when you grow up, but it should be cultivated from an early age. First of all, parents should lead by example, be responsible for themselves, their families and the society, let their children grow up in a responsible environment and cultivate their sense of responsibility imperceptibly.
Cultivating children's thinking ability requires parents' attention, guidance and encouragement. Although children's talents are different, later education is equally important. To truly emancipate the mind and release the pressure, parents don't need to be brilliant, but they must be high-quality parents and wise parents. The way to teach children is to study hard and grow up with them.