What is a person's best living condition? I think I have something to do first.
Life can't be too idle, too idle, and you will feel desperate if you work hard. People always have something to do, just right, unhurried and satisfied.
Too busy, easy to fatigue; Too idle, easy to fantasize. Don't waste all the wonderful time. You have to understand that there is no regret medicine for what you have done. Those who want to leave you can't stay, and those who pretend to sleep will never wake up.
Of course, I also hope that some people understand that they are not afraid of hard work, and they are afraid that no one will understand the sweat behind them: they are not afraid of loneliness, and they are afraid that no one will be reliable when they are sad.
Because being understood, sadness can be told and pain can be alleviated; Because you are understood, you will be accompanied when you are lonely and supported when you are helpless.
People always experience sadness and loss, and the saddest thing is that when they look back, it doesn't help. In fact, we don't want much, but we can talk to each other, have two or three confidants, and have the only lover.
After the storm, a warm comfort and an understanding are enough to melt the iceberg in my heart.
Then, have a rhythm. Try not to let anyone or anything disturb the pace of your life. Life is your own, and others will not be responsible for you.
Some people earned their first bucket of gold at the age of 18, and some people became late bloomers at the age of 60; Some people enter the marriage hall at the age of 23 and live a happy life. Some people walk around at the age of 45 before meeting the right person.
Some people 10 didn't know they wanted to be a doctor until they were 40, and some people realized that spending time with their families was their lifelong pursuit ... Everyone has a different rhythm and doesn't have to follow others' footsteps to arrange their own lives.
If someone says that you must get married at the age of 25, you can tell him that there is no age for marriage in this world, and only those who love enough can get married.
There is no fixed and arranged life track. It is also an achievement for some people to earn a little money and live comfortably and happily.
Some people are too busy. When they reach a certain age, they find themselves alienated from their relatives and friends and regret it.
Some people have a successful career, a happy marriage and filial children, which is his blessing; Some people choose not to get married, but struggle for life. He is full and not lonely.
Be kind to yourself when you are alone; Two people should be kind to each other when they are together. You have to believe that everything is the best arrangement.
The best state of life is also love. Many people have seen the movie "The Devil Wearing Prada", and there is a stinging sentence: "The person who can answer the phone at any time is the one you really care about.
Actually, you don't need to answer the phone at any time. You don't need to talk to me when you are busy. Please reply to me when you are free. This is the best care.
It's good that someone loves you and the right person. Whether it's affection, friendship or love, I hope someone can be in your heart, which is worth it. I also hope that you are sincere in others' hearts.
The meaning of feelings is companionship, and all the efforts are mutual. The best love words are always: don't be afraid, I'm here.
Finally, I hope everyone can look forward to reading such a warm sentence:
"I hope you don't get lost, I hope you make good friends, I hope you don't be bullied, I hope you are happy, I hope you can be strong alone.
Don't blame others, don't feel sorry for yourself, if you have a good attitude, life will not be so tired.
It is good to have small goals in life, people who can talk to you, work harder, have some money, and occasionally have unrealistic dreams and waste a little time.
Don't be disappointed in human nature because of an emotional failure, don't deny your ability because of a setback, and don't be passive and ignore because you have no direction to work for the time being.
If life has hope, it will be strong enough. Life is to work hard, be happy, be plain and true, and have expectations.
This is a person's best state of life: something to do, something to be lovely, someone to understand, a rhythmic life and an eternal longing for the future.