But his parents' educational concept and his behavior may be very different, but it is difficult for them to grasp this. So they tend to be strict with their children, but more tolerant of themselves.
In this case, the child will be at a loss, because he thinks it is right to learn from his parents' various behaviors, but his parents say it is wrong and even punish himself, which will make the child fall into a state of self-doubt.
In this environment for a long time, children will become insecure, even sensitive and cowardly, do not know how to grasp their own lives, and dare not take the first step in life.
Parents can guide their children to the right track and make themselves better. Therefore, when educating children, parents should set an example for their children. The power of example is infinite, and he can guide children to the right track. We should lead by example. When educating children, we should not simply do these things, but do them in all directions. At all times, we should grasp our identity and attitude towards children in detail.
This is actually a process of mutual encouragement and learning. For children, he has learned a lot from us, and we can also make ourselves a better and more perfect parent in the process of educating our children.
On the whole, setting an example can not only help children learn relevant knowledge quickly, but also enhance their self-confidence and let them know that they are on the same side as their parents. Parents don't blame themselves for doing all kinds of things, because everything they do is learned from their parents. In this environment, children will become physically and mentally healthy, can grow up independently, and will not fall into the quagmire of self-doubt and self-denial.