Children's growth is inseparable from their parents and family ties. Affection is the most natural regulator, nutrient and reassurance. Infants and young children can avoid fear by being around their familiar mothers for a long time, thus avoiding emotional obstacles such as crying easily. From birth, children are constantly influenced and stimulated by the external environment, forming conditioned reflex, which marks the germination and development of their psychological activities. Mothers should give their children more necessary caress and emotional support, which is of great help to their psychological development.
From the mother's belly, the child's psychology began to develop. Many parents think that infants under one year old don't know anything, as long as they feed him well and sleep well. Before the age of one, it is a glorious period and a fragile period for children to grow up. If psychological maintenance is improper, children are prone to personality and psychological problems in the future. In order to cultivate good psychological quality of infants and young children, parents should ask Doby children to talk and sing children's songs during breastfeeding to convey their relaxed and happy mood, which can not only improve their hearing, but also cultivate their optimism.
Parents should urge their children to gradually adapt to the environment and external stimuli, and the family atmosphere will have some influence on their psychological growth. Some child psychologists believe that when children are born, they have the same nest-loving psychology as adults when they leave home. Therefore, it is necessary to continue the environment and habits of the uterus for a certain period of time. For example, when holding a child, put your head on your mother's heart and let him hear her familiar heartbeat. In order to train your child's ability to resist external stimuli, you can also help him to do some gentle exercises to relieve muscle tension, such as raising his head, turning over, standing and stretching his limbs. Of course, these trainings should be strengthened step by step, not as a "surprise".
In addition, parents should develop their babies' early intelligence in time. A mother said that when her child was about 6 months old, she regularly read colorful children's books every day. When she told the contents of the book, the child listened attentively. Once, she paused for a while, and the child showed irritability, crying and other emotions. The child didn't quiet down until she started browsing again. As a result, children not only love reading when they grow up, but also study consciously. This shows that children's childhood habits have a great influence on their future learning methods.
Children's psychological growth is a long process. Parents should not be blindly optimistic. The success of psychological maintenance does not mean that they can rest easy from now on. Babies with proper psychological care generally don't recognize strangers, and they don't like to cry for no reason. They can quickly adapt to strange environments and behave lively and well-behaved. However, parents should not spoil their children too much for fear of negative psychological impact, because doting is often an important reason for the emergence of "problem children".
Motherly love can promote the healthy growth of infants and tell stories to children, which has certain educational significance. Parents should not think that "infants are not sensible" and ignore the psychological maintenance of infants and young children. The huge project of "expecting success" should break ground at the moment when "Dragon" was born. In order to avoid children's psychological discomfort caused by sudden environmental changes, parents had better stay with their children and work, and it is best to make up for their work in different places.