People say that Helen came into this world with a studious and confident temperament. Although fate was so unfair to young Helen, with the help of her first teacher, Anne Sullivan, tenacious Helen learned to write and speak. Little Helen once confidently declared: "One day, I want to go to college! I'm going to Harvard University! " This day has finally arrived. Radcliffe Women's College of Harvard University arranged her entrance examination in a special way. I saw that she skillfully touched the raised braille with her hand and then answered the question with a typewriter. After 9 hours, I passed all the subjects and got excellent grades in English and German. Four years later, Helen graduated with honors from Radcliffe College with a parchment certificate in her hand. Helen loves life. She devoted her life to the welfare and education of the blind and deaf, and won the praise of world public opinion. She has completed my life's work.
Things and other 14 works have had a worldwide impact. Her self-esteem, self-confidence and indomitable spirit of struggle are known as the eternal pride of mankind.
1 0 Helen, who is blind, deaf and dumb at the age of half, could not have grown into a scholar praised by the world without strong courage and confidence to challenge her fate. Life will face one challenge after another. How do we face the challenge? If the ego does not shrink back, knows the difficulties and finally wins, then the ego will be more perfect and mature. In the face of challenges, we must first affirm ourselves, which means our strength and confidence; Self-confidence can make people constantly strive for self-improvement, overcome difficulties and explore their inner self-potential. Helen is a powerful example. Helen once said, "Faith is the master of fate". It is important to cultivate a confident temperament. But self-confidence is not innate, it is gradually formed and developed in personal life and practice. Seriously sum up your strengths and successful experiences, let self-confidence give us the strength to meet the challenges of life and learn from Helen.
Your mentality determines whether you succeed or not.
Why are some people more successful than others, earn more money, have good jobs, good interpersonal relationships and good health, and live a happy life with high quality all day? It seems that their life is better than others. And many people are busy with work but can only make a living. In fact, there is not much difference between people. But why can many people succeed, overcome all difficulties and make contributions, while some people can't?
Many psychologists have found that this secret is the "mentality" of people. A philosopher said, "Your mentality is your real master." A great man once said, "Either you control life, or life controls you." Your mentality determines who is the mount and who is the jockey. "
About 40 years ago, two brothers lived in a poor village in Fujian. Unable to stand the harsh environment, they decided to leave their hometown and seek development overseas. The eldest brother seems to be lucky, being sold to the rich San Francisco as a slave, and the younger brother being sold to the Philippines, which is poorer than China.
Forty years later, the two brothers were lucky to get together again. They are not who they used to be. The eldest brother became an overseas Chinese leader in San Francisco, with two restaurants, two laundries and a grocery store. His descendants were full, some inherited the mantle, and some became outstanding engineers or computer engineers and other scientific and technological talents.
Where's the younger brother? In fact, he has become a world-famous banker, with a considerable number of forests, rubber plantations and banks in Southeast Asia. After decades of hard work, they all succeeded. But why are there such differences in the career achievements of the two brothers?
When two brothers get together, they can't help talking about what happened after they separated. My brother said that since we China people have no special talents in white society, we can only cook and wash clothes for white people with one pair of hands. In a word, we China people have all taken on jobs that white people refuse to do, and there is no problem in life, but we dare not expect our own careers. For example, my children and grandchildren, although they have read a lot of books, dare not dream. They can only make a living by doing some intermediate technical work with peace of mind. As for entering the upper white society, I believe it is very difficult.
Seeing his brother's success, a brother can't help but envy his happiness. The younger brother said there was no luck. When I first came to the Philippines, I did some rough work, but I found that some locals were stupid and lazy, so I gave up my career, gradually acquired and expanded, and my business gradually expanded.
The above is a true story, reflecting the struggle history of overseas Chinese. It tells us that it is not only the environment that affects our lives, but also the mentality that controls our actions and thoughts. At the same time, mentality also determines a person's vision, career and achievements.
There are two 70-year-old ladies. One thought that this age could be regarded as the end of life, so she began to take care of the aftermath. There is also an idea that what a person can do is not his age, but his idea. So, at the age of 70, she began to learn to climb mountains, several of which are world-famous. Just recently, he climbed Mount Fuji in Japan at the age of 95, breaking the record of the oldest person to climb this mountain. She is the famous old lady Huda Cruz.
It's a miracle that I didn't learn to climb mountains until I was 70 years old. But miracles are created by people. The first sign of a successful person is his way of thinking. If a person is a positive thinker, practices positive thinking and likes to accept challenges and deal with troubles, then he is half successful. The feat of the old lady Huda Cruz just proves this point.
Whether a person can succeed depends on his attitude! The difference between winners and losers is that winners always dominate and control their lives with the most positive thinking, the most optimistic spirit and the most brilliant experience. The loser is guided and dominated by all kinds of failures and doubts in the past.
Some people always like to say that their present situation is caused by others. These people often say that their ideas cannot be changed. However, our situation is not caused by the surrounding environment. In the final analysis, how to look at life and how to grasp it depends on ourselves.
The hardest thing to be a man is to grasp a degree, no matter what you do.
As long as you can freely control the degree of doing things, then you have reached the highest level of life, or at least you can be regarded as a successful person.
Self-confidence is the driving force to overcome difficulties.
Self-confidence is an indispensable motivation in life. Without confidence, success is far away; With self-confidence, you are half successful.
I used to feel inferior, I didn't have self-confidence, and I always felt inferior, so I was only accompanied by that lonely heart.
You see, there is a beautiful girl opposite, wearing a pink dress, with fresh and elegant hair and beautiful white. Because my classmates say that I am black and come from Africa, I am so sad, so sad and envious of others, but I feel inferior.
Whenever I see my classmates holding neat test papers and showing off bright red scores, I look at my own test papers again, so jealous but self-abased. ......
When can I get rid of the devil in my heart-inferiority complex, and when can I become a butterfly like a pupa?
Look at the grass after the rain, bleak, but still tall and straight; Look at the poplars in the vast desert, attacked by strong winds, but still standing in the vast sand sea; Look at the top of the mountain. It's deserted here, but the pine trees still stand on the top of the mountain. ......
Really, I tried, and I succeeded. I'm not there anymore, and now I'm sunny. I learned to smile and face. But long black hasn't changed.
Smiling is a sign of confidence. Who says it has no tears? It just decorated the tears into poems. The long life is bound by the mood, the unrestrained life, the skylight of life is opened, and there is no rainy day in life.
Believe in yourself and believe that "I was born to be useful." Don't let the beautiful years be wasted, and don't let life have regrets.
Leave inferiority to yesterday, and let self-confidence light up the future!
The ancients said, "People who are not confident will believe." If you have confidence in your heart, you will have the motivation to succeed. As Shakespeare said, "Self-confidence is the first step to success."
Self-confidence, in overcoming difficulties, shows bold courage and belief in winning. Liu Xiang, the gold medal winner of men's 1 10 meter hurdles in Athens Olympic Games. The more intense the congestion, the more powerful the competitors, the better their psychological quality and the better their performance. Isn't this the full expression of personal confidence? Archimedes once said, "Give me a fulcrum and I can move the earth." You see, this is an example sentence. What a bold and confident language. Self-confidence can awaken the sleeping potential.
Only those who are confident can bear the psychology of failure, and they can achieve "winning without arrogance and losing with grace." In order to see that "failure is the mother of success." Only in this way can we always have confidence in ourselves in the face of difficulties and setbacks. If you lose self-confidence and inferiority, will you succeed?
Some people often feel inferior for their looks and figure, but isn't Napoleon in France getting uglier and uglier? Did former Japanese Prime Minister tanaka kakuei stutter when he was young? Isn't Zhang Haidi physically comforted?
Therefore, inferiority is ok, but if your life is full of inferiority, then you will never succeed.
Of course, if you are overconfident, you will become conceited. There are many examples of failure because of conceit in history: the overlord of Chu was defeated because of conceit; Guan Yunchang lost Jingzhou because of conceit; Napoleon defeated Waterloo because of conceit ... so conceit will make people taste the pain of failure, and conceit is a terrible obstacle to success.
A composition with self-confidence;
2. Full of confidence
Self-confidence means "believing in yourself" and believing in yourself. A confident person can treat himself correctly, treat life with a positive attitude, firmly believe that he can succeed and feel the sweetness of "confidence".
Self-recommendation, showing confidence in continuous improvement. When he walked out of the crowd and stood in front of Ping Yuanjun, he needed firm and eternal self-confidence.
"Do you know Li Qingzhao? Do you know that?/You know what? In addition to careful observation, the light ballad of "green manure and red thinness" is also smeared with a hint of casual self-confidence of "Dongli drunk after dusk".
Su Shi's blessing of "wishing people a long life and a thousand miles * * * *" was followed by the passionate self-confidence of "talking about teenagers in the old days"
After Lu You's loyalty of "Julian Waghann concentrates on the original sky in the north, and family sacrifices are remembered", he has the simple self-confidence of "If you swim on the moon from now on, you will lock the door with vines all night".
Liu Yong's sad lyrics of "sentimental parting since ancient times, leaving Tomb-Sweeping Day cold even more" hide the chic confidence of "where to wake up after drinking tonight, the breeze in Yang Liuan is fading".
Guan Hanqing's accusation that "the sun and the moon are hanging in the sky, and ghosts and gods hold the right to life and death" contains the extraordinary confidence that "I am a copper pea that cannot be steamed, boiled, fried or broken".
The poet's self-confidence has the spirit of never back down, the perseverance to overcome difficulties and the courage to overcome setbacks ... However, in the West, this ancient term "self-confidence" has also been interpreted in various colors.
Alexander II's calmness comes from his calm self-confidence when facing a fierce horse that even the trainer can't do.
When Einstein faced all difficulties, he always adhered to the principle that self-confidence is the first step to success.
When Madame Curie wore a simple long skirt, the black long skirt set off her shining self-confidence.
When Socrates faced the trumped-up crime of "betraying philosophy", he confidently and firmly said "No!"
When Bruno faced the evil fire burning his body, he confidently shouted: "The truth lasts forever."
I close my eyes and enjoy the good feeling of "confidence" with them. Confident. Let me feel "poor, gas does not change; Da, will not change "generosity; Let me feel the freshness of "the rain wakes up drunk and the flowers bloom and fall"; Let me feel the joy of "sitting without wine is intoxicating"; Let me feel the happiness and sweetness of "water can make love and flowers can melt sadness"
3. Believe in yourself, you are the best (narrative)
Tears welled up in my eyes again in disappointment. The more I think about it, the angrier I get. The more I think about it, the worse it gets. Why do I always get eliminated? Is there really nothing I can do?
In the afternoon, I was selected by the dance teacher to practice dancing in the dance studio. The teacher said that he would choose a group of people from among us to participate in the official performance of Children's Day on June 1st. I thought to myself, I will definitely be chosen. Everyone says I have a good figure, and I participated in dance training in the Children's Palace when I was a child! However, to my surprise, I was eliminated because I was too tall. My mind went blank and my face was soaked with tears. Why does this always happen to me? This is not the first time. I remembered what happened last time. ...
On that day, the teacher announced in the class that our school would hold an oral English contest soon, and encouraged everyone to register actively. I also got up the courage to sign up. After signing up, I sang, read and recited to VCD from left to right at home until I understood everything. During the selection, my heart was almost noisy. I said "talent show" and "self-introduction" fluently, but I was brutally eliminated because of my poor answer to "free dialogue"
I went home and told my mother about it and said angrily, "I won't take part in any activities in the future!" " "My mother said to me earnestly," There are many setbacks on the road of life, but we have to find a way to face them. "This is just a small setback, tripping over you. How can we face greater setbacks in the future? Anyway, I believe my daughter is the best! " Looking at my mother's expectant eyes, I suddenly felt a force in my heart and I nodded.
Yes, everyone should be confident. You can't lose heart because of a small setback. Remember this sentence: believe in yourself, you are the best!
4, from the letter (narrative)
Zhang Juan, the deskmate who had been an official for eight years, resigned. Where's a big official, monitor? The reason is also simple. First, I am afraid that the third grade will affect my grades. Second, I am afraid that I can't bear so many "responsibilities".
I took her place, an ugly duckling During my inaugural speech, I blushed and caused bursts of laughter. But I didn't laugh, showing pride I had never had before. I finally made that speech, tossed my head and went back to my seat.
Zheng, sitting under her, seems to think that I have more things than her.
On the first day of the new official's appointment, I looked very nervous, with a low voice and no dignity. Students are "arrogant" and talk and fight. ...
"Who didn't pour the garbage, wipe the blackboard and get the milk ..." The class teacher stood at the door angrily. "Why doesn't the monitor supervise?"
I just stood up, and my deskmate gently snorted, "Hey, hey, the fun is yet to come!" " Stretch your neck and look at poor me. I looked down and blushed, but I didn't cry.
In the following days, I began to lose my temper. Someone spoke in the self-study class, and I stopped without hesitation: "Shut up and do your homework!" " I am very confident.
Once the school was cleaned, there was a dirty "dead corner" in my class, and no one wanted to clean it. I frowned and asked, "Why don't you sweep?" "The squad leader takes the lead and the students come on!" A naughty boy said. The whole class laughed into a ball. Without saying anything, I rolled up my sleeves and dipped my new leather shoes in stinking water to sweep them hard. No one in the class laughed, just looked at me. It was not until I straightened up that everyone rushed to help. I glanced with confident eyes. I don't know why, but my deskmate bowed his head.
That time, our class got a little red flag, which was the first time.
The class atmosphere is much better, and I have a share of the credit here. But in the mid-term exam, my score dropped from the second to the ninth. The teacher looked at me disappointedly, but I nodded confidently.
"Hey, sorry, don't be a pawn, it will affect your grades!" Zhang Juan began to speak loudly.
"No, I didn't do well myself. I will behave well next time. " I said "must" seriously.
From now on, our class will get a small red flag every week. The final exam results have been announced. I am the winner of the "gold medal". Run to congratulate him: "Shu, you have succeeded!" Tell me, where is the secret? "
"Secret?" I stretched out two fingers and made a V-shape: "Self-confidence is the first secret of success!" "
5. Self-confidence can light the fire of life (argumentative)
Self-confidence is an indispensable motivation in life. Without confidence, success is far away; With self-confidence, you are half successful.
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I used to feel inferior, I didn't have self-confidence, and I always felt inferior, so I was only accompanied by that lonely heart.
The closed heart is cold, the heart is occupied by inferiority, the sun can't shine in, and spring can't moisten it.
Look, there is a beautiful girl opposite, wearing a pink dress and combing her fresh and elegant hair. It's beautiful. Look at your outdated coat, patched pants and unkempt hair. A strange smell came to my mind, envious but inferior.
Whenever I see someone holding bread and savoring it, I look at the steamed bread in my hand again, and that inexplicable taste comes to my mind, so eager but inferior.
Whenever I see my classmates holding neat test papers and showing off bright red scores, I look at my own test papers again, so jealous but self-abased.
When can I get rid of the devil in my heart-inferiority complex, and when can I become a butterfly like a pupa?
Look at Tao Yuanming, he is poor, but he is still optimistic; Seeing that Li Shimin followed his father to conquer the world, despite the difficulties, he remained persistent; Seeing that Zhu Yuanzhang changed from a beggar to a monarch, he still didn't give up despite all kinds of hardships. ......
Look at the grass after the rain, bleak, but still tall and straight; Look at the poplars in the vast desert, attacked by strong winds, but still standing in the vast sand sea; Look at the top of the mountain. It's deserted here, but the pine trees still stand on the top of the mountain. ......
I am luckier than Helen Keller and happier than Sang Lan. Why am I surrounded by inferiority?
I want to be confident!
Really, I tried, and I succeeded. I'm not there anymore, and now I'm sunny. I learned to smile and face.
Smiling is a sign of confidence. Who says it has no tears? It just decorated the tears into poems. The long life is bound by the mood, the unrestrained life, the skylight of life is opened, and there is no rainy day in life.
Please raise your confident sail, don't sigh because the mountain is high and the road is long, and don't lose heart, because that is the embodiment of weakness; Don't give up, because that is the embodiment of failure; Learn to be confident, because this is the key to success.
Believe in yourself and believe that "I was born to be useful." Don't let the beautiful years be wasted, and don't let life have regrets.
Leave inferiority to yesterday, and let self-confidence light up the future!
Confidence can light the fire of life.
6. Self-confidence stems from inferiority.
Bing Xin once wrote a poem: the flower of success is admired only for its present glory, but the initial bud is full of tears of struggle and blood rain of sacrifice.
But I want to say: the sail of self-confidence only surprises the world, and the original helmsman was reborn from inferiority complex. Without hard training, how can he have today's self-confidence?
Plum blossom fragrance comes from bitter cold, and the sword edge comes from sharpening. The flower of self-confidence is saturated with the bitter water of challenging inferiority, and the sword of self-confidence that pierces the sky is saturated with the blood and tears of the struggle to overcome inferiority.
Stockholm, an ancient speaker, always talks in public, talking about the past and the present, and is very chic and confident. But few people know how confident and self-reliant this flower used to be, because at first he stuttered and couldn't even say a complete sentence clearly. Clear-headed, he felt the pain of stuttering and made up his mind to overcome this fatal weakness. So he took out the courage of self-confidence, relied on strong beliefs and hard training, and finally ushered in the self-confidence and chic on the podium.
If you are not familiar with Stockholm, I believe you must be familiar with Li Yang, a strong man who finds confidence from inferiority.
Today, Li Yang speaks fluent Crazy English. He traveled to famous schools and countries to explain the main points of Crazy English to tens of thousands of people. It's really horseshoe disease. Similarly, his self-confidence is not innate, but inspired by inferiority, and he dares to overcome and face difficulties. I believe everyone is familiar with the story of Li Yang's English students trying to become confident and chic speakers, so I won't go into details.
People's confidence here is born from inferiority complex. They are inferior in nature. Why do they become confident people? Because it is my weakness that makes me feel inferior, deeply painful, and finally unable to bear the pain, I made up my mind to break through the weakness, break through the cocoon of inferiority and fly to the sky of self-confidence. Self-confidence stems from inferiority complex.
People with the lowest self-esteem often become the most confident people, which seems counterintuitive, but it is a universal law, just as people who fail the most often become the most successful people, and the two are essentially the same. In fact, this clearly reminds us that people with low self-esteem must not give up on themselves, but must firmly believe that they can become the most confident people. Because inferiority can stimulate greater fighting capacity and enthusiasm for struggle. So smart, why bother? Why not use this power to become the most confident person?
Confidence is a flying butterfly. Under the sunshine, its wings shine with dazzling brilliance, but strangely, its home is called "inferiority complex".