What women value, everyone will have something that they think is important, and everyone cares about something different, so everyone lives a different life. The following is some information I have compiled for you about what women value. Let's have a look!
What do women value? 1 Some people say that family should be given priority. After all, China's idea that men are superior to women has existed for thousands of years. Many men still keep the traditional idea that women should take care of housework at home, educate their children, and let men work hard without worrying about housework.
It is also said that women should focus on their careers. There are too many temptations to men in society now. In the face of her husband's betrayal, she will have nothing without a career. Housewives who don't go to work for a long time will be divorced from society and can't set a good example for their children.
So should a woman put her career first or her family first? I think it should be balanced according to the specific situation of my family. If there are elderly people at home who can help with the children, then the woman can take care of her family and career, and of course she can't give the children to the elderly completely. Educating children well is both a family responsibility and a social responsibility.
If there is no old man to take care of the children and the husband has a good income, then the woman can also give priority to taking care of the family. After all, the family is a whole, and everyone has different responsibilities and division of labor. Whether it is working to earn money or doing housework at home, it is paying for this family, and at the same time, it also allows her husband to struggle outside without worries. Children can also choose a relatively suitable job that can take care of their families after school.
When I first worked and rented a house outside, I met a neighbor's elder sister. When I married her husband, my family was firmly opposed. In order to be with her husband, I never saw her family again. I gave birth to two sons. Because there is no old man to take care of the children at home, I have to take care of the housework myself. At that time, her husband was on a business trip a lot, and I didn't see anything unusual. This family is quite harmonious. A few years later, I once met my neighbor's elder sister and talked to her about her two children. I was particularly surprised at that time. She actually said that she was divorced, and both children were awarded to her husband, because she was unable to support her, specifically because her husband cheated. After the divorce, she didn't have a good life either. She didn't go to work for many years and had to do odd jobs in the supermarket, but her husband gave her the house in his hometown.
Another friend also takes care of the children at home, cooking and housework are very good, and the children are also very educated. At the same time, she has always maintained the habit of studying, and she insists on studying after her children take a nap or sleep at night. She went to work after her children went to kindergarten. Although it will be tiring to take care of the family, every time I see her, she looks very positive and optimistic, and she has a good relationship with her husband.
No matter whether you focus on your career or your family, you should be able to balance your career and family according to your family situation. You can't just focus on your career and ignore your family, and you can't just be confined to your family and be out of touch with society. You must maintain the ability to live independently.
What do women value? At different stages, women's emphasis will be different, and the focus of life will be adjusted at any time. Generally speaking, the "importance" in women's minds has three meanings: first, women will feel important for things that are difficult to solve and urgently need to be solved; Second, if a woman works hard, she will feel very important; Third, for women, expectations are very important. This expectation stems from disappointment with reality. In other words, if a thing can't be solved even if she tries hard, the natural way for a woman to find a way to balance herself is to downplay it and make it a less important thing in life. It's best to find another important thing to fill it, otherwise life will have no direction.
I met a woman who was particularly frustrated in life. Her married life is not happy, and she is not the mainstay at work. She can live with or without her. When children are young, she thinks children are the most important. Suddenly one day the child grew up and didn't need her so much. From that day on, she felt that nothing was important, only her health was the most important. There are two reasons. One is the positive factor. Health is the foundation of marriage and children's love. Only when you are in good health can you care about your family, take care of your career and accompany your children. The other is the negative factor. Some women who have experienced life or broken hearts will think: career, family and love, including children, may be lost. Only my body is my own, and my life is my own.
Nowadays, putting health first is almost like a female motto, and people talk about it from time to time. I want to ask myself, if, if one day there is no health, life will be lost at any time. I think health is the most important thing. Looking at all the surveys on women in recent years, health always ranks first on the question of "what is the most important". Why do most women think health is important? I think the most important thing here is. Now let me try to answer this question. If one day my life comes to an end, it will become very important whether I am a good employee, whether I have devoted myself to my work, whether I have a love that I will never regret, whether I have a family that I will never regret, and whether I will educate my children in a socially responsible manner. If all this is done, I will have no regrets in my life.
When your health is threatened and your life comes to an end, you may also think, have you ever worked hard for your life? This is the most important thing. So, when a woman says to me, "What do you think is the most important thing in life at present?" I hope this answer is not the tired tone of doing another thing because of some things, nor the anxiety when you have worked hard for results and returns. Better have an answer. The most important thing is that we haven't overcome it yet. We must find ways to change it.