Nowadays, most students have unhealthy mentality: spending money like water, playing games online all day, gambling online, borrowing online, not knowing their parents' hard work and thanking their parents, teachers and people who help them; Only know pleasure, don't want to suffer; Food depends on cooking; Forgetting righteousness, selfish and heartless; Or seclusion, depression, mania, indifference, gloom, pessimism and extreme money worship ... all these have caused too much pain and trouble to families and society, and caused great harm to parents and relatives.
They lack the character of hard-working, frugality, respect and understanding of parents' sincerity, mutual tolerance, mutual help, solidarity and friendship, perseverance, sense of justice and fearless spirit, warm sunshine, lively and cheerful personality and so on.
A healthy mind is a person's soul! Without the support of a healthy mentality, a person has mastered more knowledge and superb skills, and has not brought much benefit to his family, country and society. On the contrary, it has brought a lot of harm. For example, some students killed their parents in a rage because they were poor; Some students ignore the cultivation of the motherland and go abroad to work for other countries for their own interests; Some students sell their youth and bodies for vanity and pleasure; Some students go to online loans and online gambling for vanity and pleasure; Some students lack correct outlook on life and values, and at the same time, they are manipulated by foreign forces for their own selfish interests and do things that endanger the country and the people. The chaotic students in Hong Kong are the most typical example.
Therefore, it is very important and necessary to cultivate students in education and make them form a healthy mentality. It can be said that the current situation has reached the point where they can't wait!
Then, how to make students form a healthy mentality and normal personality in education? In this regard, I can provide my own views and opinions: First, resolutely put an end to students' bullying at school. Don't underestimate this kind of school bullying, especially in primary school, which will make children have two extremes, either timidity or hatred. The bullied will often form a timid, timid, withdrawn and even gloomy and hateful character in the future; Bullies become overbearing, barbaric, reckless and so on, which will bring harm to families, countries and society in the future. Second, educators should not insult or retaliate against students, let alone be biased against them. Educators should be tolerant and patient. On this point, it is not an easy thing for educators, and it needs educators to cultivate, practice and adapt. After all, among so many students, there are students with any characteristics. In this respect, educators can only learn to adapt, restrain, endure, seduce, communicate with each other and try to influence, otherwise it will only be counterproductive, planting seeds of hatred or timidity, inferiority, loneliness and unconfidence in students' young minds, thus distorting students' mentality. On this point, it can be said that it is the most important link in the whole education and teaching process, and it is also the most critical test of educators' character.
Third, strengthen moral education. In the process of education and teaching, we should pay attention to moral education and give students more positive education on the importance of friendship, thrift, kindness, filial piety and unity, both in the arrangement of teaching materials and in the example of educators. We should carry out unremitting, patient, multi-angle, multi-logical and fresh education on these core values, such as loving the motherland, the people and the party, so that students will not fall into the same old and boring confusion.
Of course, there are many ways and means to help students form a healthy mentality and a normal personality in education and teaching, and the above points are more obvious and effective.