"We advocate that boys and girls have sex education classes together, but separation creates mystery. The first thing that sex education needs to remove is mystery and shame. " Only when you need to share personal private experiences can you avoid them, such as girls sharing menstrual experiences. "The boy's edition and the girl's edition are mirror images of each other. What should a boy do when he sees "I don't like football and I'm laughed at, but I'm not a boy?" "; Boys and girls will also face the confusion of "how to fall in love with teachers" and "how to get out of the shadow of lovelorn". On the whole, there is no difference between boys and girls in answering the same type of questions. Considering the stereotype of gender in society, boys and girls may have different constructions. For example, will only girls be sexually harassed? This is something that sex education should deeply reflect on.
It is undeniable that sex education is becoming more and more popular, but Fang Gang found in his decades of educational career that children also have their own puzzles about sex itself, and the common problem lies in the conflict between children and their parents. As children get more and more rich and varied sexual information through the Internet and other channels, the conflict between them and their parents is getting bigger and bigger.
When parents and teachers are used to telling their children what to do and what not to do, it may be based on the original intention of "protection", but it also deprives children of the opportunity of independent choice and self-growth. "Without choice, there is no thinking; Without thinking, there is no growth. " "What we have to do is to help children gain the ability to choose."