The middle school stage is an important stage of middle school students' physical and mental maturity. At this time, middle school students are different from adults, and they are not naive urchins in the past. A series of "qualitative" changes have taken place in their body shape and psychology. During this period, students' adaptation to society is a process of constant collision and constant debugging, and their psychology is easily troubled by various factors, which breeds various psychological problems. The common psychological problems of middle school students mainly include inferiority complex, rebellious psychology, loneliness, jealousy, self-interest and weariness of learning. With the intensification of social competition, the mental health problems of teenagers are becoming increasingly prominent. For these, we need a correct understanding and face.
The first is inferiority complex. This is a common phenomenon among teenagers. It is embodied in "my grades are not as good as XXX", "my ability is not as good as XXX", "my family is not as good as XXX", "I look really bad" and so on. This has also caused young people to dare not show their talents and real strength. Its harm is obvious. In this regard, we need to know ourselves correctly. Everyone is not perfect. We should not only see our own shortcomings, but also our own bright spots and strengths. Only in this way can you make a comprehensive and three-dimensional judgment on yourself, and you can steadily improve and develop. Only by blindly feeling inferior can you go downhill.
Then there is loneliness. Children of this age are in such good condition that they have plenty of time to fabricate their own endless loneliness. We should see the loneliness of ragged workers in society, the loneliness of children in orphanages without parents behind their smiles, and the loneliness of elderly people who are unattended when picking up garbage. When we realize this, we will find that our loneliness is nothing at all. We can open our hearts to friends, teachers and family members and resolve unnecessary loneliness with contentment.
Then there is jealousy, which often appears in girls. It's about other people's clothes are better than their own, others are more popular than themselves, others are liked by boys, and others are well-off. We should treat this normal psychology with a normal heart. You know, good conditions are not created by parents, not by nature, but by yourself. Jealousy is to push yourself into the fire pit and see the development side instead of jealous of others where they are better than themselves and where they are better than themselves.
Egocentric psychology appears in getting along with family members. I think my family's contribution is right. I am an emperor or a princess, and I am very arrogant. I must meet all the requirements and be better than others. People must listen to me. This kind of psychology needs to know more about others' feelings and put yourself in others' shoes, so as to solve the morbid psychology of egoism.
People who are tired of learning often have no foresight. They are eager to play for a while, get drunk tonight, and have no consideration for their lives in the next few decades. We need others to enlighten them to get out of the ivory tower and realize that our efforts now are for future happiness. We need to see that in a few decades, we will be independent from our parents. We can rush into this society with profound knowledge and plan our beautiful life through study, so as to get rid of our short-sighted weariness of learning.
The psychological problems of teenagers are various. Here are some examples. I hope everyone can reflect on themselves, learn something to improve and change themselves, and go through the flower season of our lives smoothly, and don't regret these trivial psychological activities in the future!
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