Facts have proved that people's tolerance for love is far from enough, such as the love between a very rich woman and a poor boy in an ordinary family.
This kind of love is not out of the category of love, but out of our secular recognized love.
This kind of love is not in our general cognition, and this kind of disapproval is not the disapproval of this kind of love itself.
People have a bad habit of always speculating about other people's love. Especially about this seemingly unequal love; We often look at people we don't know, and we have a psychological state of bad expectations and bad expectations.
Often in the face of such love, most people will not blindly want to find the reasons behind it.
People will start to guess; There must be an ambiguous money transaction between two people; The young man just wants to fly to the branches and become a phoenix or something.
Of course, speculation is not the most terrible thing. What is even more terrible is that it may be slammed under the cover of the Internet.
This reminds me of a news story many years ago.
A famous actor married a rich woman, which was also a hot topic at that time; Perhaps many netizens will begin to question when actors need to be attached to rich people. I want to clarify here that this was news a long time ago. At that time, actors didn't earn that much, but they really performed for the sake of interpretation.
Actors, at that time, can only be regarded as small achievements, but definitely not very well-known actors; The female rich have long been famous in the business world and become real estate giants; The essence of loving your wife, no matter how much money you have or how old you are. Only when two people really like each other can love appear.
At that time, the internet was not as developed as it is now, but the influence of newspapers and gossip was also very great.
Many people are exerting a kind of violence in disguise. The actor is at a loss, and the rich woman comes from the heart. "Our story has spread in the theater. Some people say that I have money, and some people say that I eat soft rice, which is terrible. "
Often, many people are like this. In the face of others' love, everyone thinks what they say is true or false. However, rumors about hurting others are completely ignorant.
The rich woman was very uncomfortable when she heard the voice of the actor. In the face of these rumors, she always meditates and tries some methods, but with little effect. In the end, the rich woman offered the marriage. She thinks that only by canceling the marriage can those rumors be broken. As a result, the two really got married soon and became a legal couple with legal significance.
In fact, this is the key to a problem; Eating soft rice is just an adjective invented by people today, which contains the narrowness and ignorance of human nature.
Whether two people really love each other or are really rich is not something we should be able to evaluate at will.
Everyone has the right to choose who his other half is and the marriage he needs. In the face of other people's happiness, it is better to send a sincere blessing than to speculate on the reasons why others are together.
In fact, love is like this. Love is a process in which two people get to know each other, know each other, fall in love, love each other and live together. In love, each of us is looking at my other half wholeheartedly; The appearance of love is often full of hope for love.
Love may appear in a heartbeat, or it may appear after a long time, but no matter which of these two kinds of love, it does not include money or years.
Looking back at the time when we followed my other half, wasn't our starting point because of love?
At that time, we pursued our own happiness, and our minds were full of each other's likes. We all want to devote ourselves wholeheartedly to each other. The process we pursue is not to look at each other's age, nor to look at each other's economy, but more from the love in our hearts.
There is nothing wrong with choosing the person you like. "Eating soft rice has strong evil thoughts, but finding a woman you like after losing wisdom is worthy of envy by many people." It's even more enviable to find a woman who likes her very much and has a well-off family, so gossip is just that they are unreasonable.
If you love someone, you must pursue it bravely. The process of pursuing and loving is the most valuable thing in love.
As long as two people have true feelings, the rumor will be broken, just like a rich woman asking for marriage. It is because I like the other half that I can't tolerate gossip, so I bravely proved myself to everyone.
I think it is really tasteless to judge the love chosen by others at will.