My childhood left me the deepest impression and the happiest thing, that is, the spring, summer, autumn and winter I spent with my elder sister. In spring, my sister took me to dig wild vegetables, chase butterflies and fly kites. In summer, my eldest sister takes me to mow the grass and herd sheep during the day, and sometimes I touch cicadas and watch open-air movies at night. In autumn, my elder sister took me to the fields to plant sweet potatoes and pick cotton. In winter, my sister and I have snowball fights, play with ice and make a snowman.
As long as I can remember, my mother always got up before dawn, fed pigs and sheep, boiled water for cooking, and worked in the fields with other villagers after dinner. At that time, my father worked in other places and seldom went home. My mother has to take care of her grandmother and our five brothers and sisters at home. The burden of the whole family's life is on my mother's shoulders, and the family's life is maintained by my father's meager salary and the work points earned by my mother.
My mother is a filial daughter-in-law, daughter, wife and mother at home, and a hardworking and conscientious rural cadre outside. My mother used to be the director of village women, the director of brigade women and the director of commune women. She worked hard for decades and was praised by leaders and villagers. She was repeatedly rated as an advanced individual and model worker in counties and communes until her mother was old.
When my sister was in primary school and middle school, my mother was still the director of the village women's Federation, and sometimes she would go to towns for meetings and inspections. In addition, my mother often rides a bicycle to sell vegetables in towns and villages dozens of miles away from home. At that time, the job of cooking at home fell on my sister. At noon, my sister came home from school to cook and feed pigs and sheep. After a good meal, she hurried to school.
My sister is not only good at school, but also the monitor of the class, and she is good at sports. Sprinting is my sister's strong point. My sister got a good ranking in the school sports meeting 100 meters and 200 meters. Brother/kloc-joined the army when he was 0/8 years old. My sister looks at her mother so hard. In order to reduce the burden, she dropped out of school after finishing the third grade.
If my sister hadn't dropped out of school for our family and my brother, my sister would have been admitted to the university according to her grades at that time, and the fate of her life would have changed long ago.
When my sister was a teenager, she went to the fields to do farm work with her mother. Besides doing farm work, she also sold vegetables, not only in cities close to home, but also in distant towns and villages.
In order to supplement the family, during the winter slack season, my sister and several neighbors and partners went to work in the winery, working 8 hours a day. At that time, one hour was 0. 15 yuan, one day was 1.2 yuan money, and one month was 36 yuan money. There is no rest day.
What impressed me deeply was that it was very cold in winter. I lay in bed after supper. My sister came home from work and saw her hands rubbing with cold. My mother handed her a bowl of hot water to warm her hands. Sometimes when the eldest sister gets paid, she will buy a big bag of white flour steamed bread from the street and go home. I was very greedy when I saw white steamed bread. As soon as my sister entered the room, I couldn't wait to take out a steamed bun from my bag and eat it.
Sometimes I pull weeds in vegetable fields with my mother and sisters, and it happens that my neighbors are also working in the fields. My mother talks with her neighbors about family affairs while working. Sometimes I go to the fields to collect vegetables and bundle them. My sister presses water with a well, and I wash vegetables on a scooter. Sometimes early in the morning, the elder sister will pull a scooter to the vegetable market to sell vegetables. I am looking forward to my sister coming home early after selling vegetables, because she often buys me some delicious things after selling vegetables, such as watermelons, grapes, apples and pears.
Sometimes my sister and I go to vegetable fields to pick cucumbers. When I see which one looks delicious, I take it off, poke it with my hand and chew it. The crisp and sweet taste of cucumber is really memorable.
As I grow up, I know that life is not easy. I know my parents and sister have done a lot for this family. In the years of junior high school and high school, there were no classes on Saturday and Sunday. During the winter and summer vacations, I took the initiative to help my family do housework, brush pots and bowls, feed pigs and sheep, mow grass and graze sheep, and grow vegetables and pick vegetables.
Sometimes my elder sister and I pull a scooter to the vegetable market, and my elder sister teaches me to recognize scales and collect money. My sister taught me like my mother: "Sister, we should be honest when selling things, and we can't cheat people. It doesn't matter if we give more food to others. " At that time, my mother and sister's teaching always accompanied me to grow up. To this day, I am still a kind, honest and trustworthy person. I think this is inseparable from the teaching of my mother and sister.
Sometimes, before dawn, I pull a scooter to the vegetable market to sell vegetables. When no one buys food, I will take out my books to study. Never miss the scale, often give more to customers. When teachers and classmates buy food, I always give it to them.
In order to build a house for my brother, my parents and sisters and I went to the field to pull the soil with a scooter to cushion the pit. When the house was built, my brother got married and returned to the army. A few years later, my sister was in her twenties. Introduced by relatives, she married in a village near my home. My brother-in-law's house is also a vegetable garden. Their family has more vegetable fields and more vegetable greenhouses than mine.
In the past, after my sister got married, she was not rich and busy all day, especially in the cold winter. My sister often picks celery and sticks celery. There is fog in the greenhouse on celery. I want to clean up the soil that celery keeps up with. My sister's hands are red and swollen with cold, and sometimes they crack. It pains me to see her hands frozen like that.
Every winter vacation and summer vacation, I always take time to do holiday homework. My mother and I are busy with farm work at home, and often go to my sister's house to help, such as digging, picking vegetables, binding vegetables and washing vegetables. In particular, wholesalers come to the village to collect vegetables, such as peppers in summer and celery in autumn and winter. Sometimes they are too busy to cook.
The elder sister got married for one year, the eldest son was born, and the younger son was born two years later. The birth of children has added a lot of joy to this family, but the burden has also increased. My sister's brother-in-law is busier and harder. When the children were very young, my sister would take two children and let them play by the vegetable fields. Sometimes the eldest sister takes the children to my parents' house and asks my grandmother for help. My grandmother was eighty years old, but she was in good health.
To my sister and brother-in-law's relief, the two children are physically and mentally healthy, study consciously and actively, and work hard. His brothers have good grades and never let my sister and brother-in-law worry.
At that time, rural people basically depended on the weather to eat, and drought and flood ensured the harvest. In my hometown, it often rains heavily in summer, and the land of my eldest sister's family is a depression. Sometimes hard-planted vegetables are drowned before they grow.
Seeing this situation, in order to make a living, my sister and brother-in-law were introduced by relatives to work on the construction site and help others cook in the canteen. Sometimes I go to the construction site where my sister and brother-in-law work on weekends and see that they are all busy, picking vegetables and washing vegetables and helping workers cook. I feel very sorry for them, but I can't help them, I can only help them pick up vegetables. At that time, my sister often said to me, "Sister, you must study hard, and knowledge will change your destiny.". You will find a good job after you are admitted to the university, so you won't work as hard as we do. "
I remember what my sister said, and I secretly made up my mind to study hard. I study hard and train hard. 1992. On August 2nd, I jumped with joy when I received the acceptance notice from Huazhong Normal University. Father was very happy, and mother and sister were in tears. Before school started, my sister and her mother went to the mall to buy me a quilt.
When I returned to my hometown in the summer vacation of my sophomore year, my elder sister worked in a cannery. I heard from my elder sister that she was digging peach stones and recording her salary by weight. In order to help my sister get more salary, I went to the cannery with her to dig walnuts and move peaches. It was very hard. I washed and dug all night. My hand was accidentally cut and bleeding. My sister has been working for three days. She is more tired, her hands and feet are white, peeling and blistering, and her waist is too tired to stand. I advised her to resign. Big sister worked for four days, but the factory didn't pay a penny, saying it was a one-week probation period, and she didn't get paid until she finished one week. Every time I think about it, I feel very sad and think that the factory is too black-hearted.
I have been in college for four years. Before the winter vacation and summer vacation, I always buy new clothes for my eldest sister and two sons. At home, I try my best to do some work for my elder sister's family. Later, in addition to planting greenhouse vegetables, the elder sister and brother-in-law rented a venue to do car painting business. Although it is difficult to paint cars, their income is still guaranteed and their family living standards have improved.
Time flies. I graduated from college and was assigned to work in Guangzhou. Married after becoming a full member, and the child was born the next year. My mother took care of my children for a year, and then I went back to my hometown to take care of my brother's children, so I hired a nanny. I didn't expect the nanny to be wicked, not only stealing money but also abusing children. I feel miserable and sorry for myself. I feel very sorry for my children and I don't care about them. I also regret why I was so kind to the nanny and why she stole so much money. I didn't call the police or leave any money. That is my salary for several months. I feel like a fool, cheated by a girl of 18 years old.
My eldest sister, who is far away from home, knows me and my situation, and she is very distressed by my children. Her two sons are in primary school, and she went to Guangzhou to help me with my children. My sister took care of my children for half a year before they went to preschool. My sister takes care of them carefully and patiently, and sometimes teaches them to write and recite Tang poems. My sister sometimes helps me buy food and cook, which helps me a lot. During that time, my child was never sick or injured, and I am very grateful to her.
Time goes by like a song, and the days are very busy. In a blink of an eye, the elder sister's two sons have grown up. When they were in high school, their grades were among the best and they were admitted to an ideal university. My sister's eldest son was admitted to the military academy, and my youngest son was admitted to a key engineering university in Guangzhou.
Parents are old, but they can't be idle. Sometimes they grow their own food and wheat. My sister and brother-in-law always take time to help their parents do housework and harvest wheat when they are very busy.
In 2004, great changes took place in my family, and my children and I lived alone. Sister saw my situation and felt sorry for me and my children. I saw that my sister had a hard time brushing the car at home and didn't earn much money. I advised my sister's brother-in-law that she might as well come to Guangzhou to work, so that she can often see their little son.
After the Spring Festival in 2006, my sister and brother-in-law decided to work in Guangzhou. At first, their salary was not high, but their income was higher than their hometown. My sister and brother-in-law live with me, so I am not so lonely. We take care of each other. At that time, my children were still young. When I am busy, my sister and brother-in-law also help me with my children.
20 13 13, my parents came to Guangzhou for the New Year. My sister and I took my father to the hospital for a physical examination. My father is fine except mild hypertension, and my sister takes good care of him.
During those months in Guangzhou, my parents went out to buy food and cook together, and my sister and I sometimes cooked together. The family eats together and talks about everything. It's too noisy. There was hot rice and soup after work, and I was very happy at that time.
My parents sometimes play in the community, and sometimes go to the park near their home by bus. My father sometimes goes shopping by bike. Sometimes, I go to the zoo, south china botanical garden and parks with my parents on weekends. I took many photos of my parents. When my sister is not busy at work, she also goes shopping with her parents. Our family talked and laughed and had a good time. I really didn't expect that just three months later, my father left my sister and me forever because of a little problem, leaving the home he was very attached to.
The unexpected death of my father left endless sadness for my sister and me. They often cried bitterly. One day in 20 14, when I learned that my mother was ill, my sister said to me earnestly, "Sister, our father left and my mother was ill. We should take good care of my mother. You can't take a long vacation at work. I resigned and should concentrate on taking care of my mother. " My elder sister quit her job and took care of her mother wholeheartedly in the hospital and at home, which deeply moved me.
Unexpectedly, two years after my father died, my mother left us tragically because of the doctor's misdiagnosis and over-treatment. My father left us for more than five years, and my mother left us for more than two years. Over the years, my sister and I have missed our parents every day and often fell into the grief of losing our parents. My sister and I suffered from severe insomnia because of excessive sadness. My sister and I are much older and our hair is gray.
God gave me five brothers and sisters. When my parents were around, we grew up in groups like garlic cloves. When our parents are gone, we will go our separate ways and take our families and children with us. Although we are connected by blood, we have different temperaments. Fortunately, my sister and I have the most similar personality and the closest relationship.
In the decades or even hundreds of years of my life, there is always a time that I want to keep, but time will not go back, and the days are moving forward. My sister and I comforted and encouraged each other. The joys and sorrows of life cannot be changed. We can only face it calmly and cherish every day now.
Each of us will get some rewards from life more or less. My sister suffered a lot, and suffered a lot. Now, my sister has gone through a lot of difficulties. Both her sons are married. Her two sons and daughter-in-law are very filial. They often buy many delicious things and clothes for her sister and brother-in-law, as well as for me and my children. My reward is: I realized my wish to be a teacher when I was a child, and now my children are growing up healthily and happily, and I am admitted to the university.
Now the elder sister is helping to buy food and cook at the younger son's house. Sometimes I buy something for my sister and them. Sometimes my sister buys things for me, and sometimes she cooks some hometown food for us. My sister and I often take a walk near their home. Although we don't live together, we still have deep feelings. Seeing the harmonious and happy life of my sister's family, I am sincerely happy for my sister and sincerely wish her family happiness forever!