First, how to cultivate children's healthy mentality
Psychologists believe that long-term negative and bad psychological hints will make the mood fluctuate, which will inevitably affect the cognitive thinking process of individuals, make people form bad psychological reactions and behavior patterns, and even seriously affect their health. For children who lack discrimination, bad psychological reactions are more likely to form and precipitate, and even seriously affect their life development.
Psychological research shows that everyone will always accept psychological hints of one kind or another in life, some of which are positive and some are negative. Some sensitive, fragile and dependent people, such as women and children, are more likely to accept hints.
Therefore, as parents and teachers, they play an important role in the normal development of children, especially what parents say and do will promote or restrict the healthy development of children's thinking ability and psychology. In any case, children should be given as much positive and healthy psychological influence as possible, as well as practical help and guidance.
In addition, it is more conducive for children to form a correct self-concept and proper self-cognition after adulthood and find a correct position in society.
Second, how do parents pay attention to their children's mental health
1, parents pay attention to their children's mental health and learn to see through their children's minds. Children with psychological problems generally have the following manifestations:
2, easy to be nervous, uneasy, anxious, afraid to associate with people, timid, afraid, timid, always insecure inside.
3. Sensitive, suspicious, overly restrained, thinking too much, indecisive, attention to detail, perfect work, obsessive-compulsive disorder.
4. Some children are nervous and anxious, but what they tell their parents or doctors are somatization symptoms such as headache, insomnia, gastrointestinal discomfort and listlessness.
Some children's psychological problems are hidden and difficult to find. The concrete manifestations are: things to be done are delayed, problems are always delayed, and some even go drinking, throwing problems out of consciousness and not solving them.
6. vent when encountering setbacks and problems that cannot be resolved, and vent with acts such as smashing things.
7. A normal life of escapism. For example, sleeping during the day and surfing the internet all night at night; Tired of learning, wandering the streets all day or running away from home. Introverted, silent and pessimistic thoughts and behaviors.
8. To pay attention to children's mental health, we must first understand children, understand children, know their psychological needs, and know their feelings. Parents usually need to do the following when educating their children:
9. Don't get too close to children. Children should be encouraged to live, study and play with people of the same age, so as to learn how to get along with others and master interpersonal skills.
10, don't care too much about children, it's easy for children to be too self-centered and think that everyone should respect him, and as a result, they become arrogant people.