Mutual respect refers to mutual respect and attention between people. Respecting others is equal to respecting yourself; Only by respecting others can we get their respect.
What can I do to respect my classmates? Respect for classmates should first respect his personality. Every student has a sense of self-esteem and honor. When his personality is not respected by others, it is often very sad and painful. Some of our students pay little attention to this. They often laugh at other people's shortcomings, talk to others regardless of size, quarrel with each other to expose their shortcomings, make too many jokes, insult people and even play tricks on people with physical defects. These are all manifestations of disrespect for the personality of others, which is very inappropriate. In addition, mutual respect between students must also pay attention to starting from "I". Everyone wants to be respected by others. If everyone always emphasizes that others should respect themselves and that they are the only one, it is unrealistic. Only when everyone starts from me and emphasizes that I must respect others first can we create an atmosphere of mutual respect. In school, we should respect older classmates, cherish younger classmates and respect female classmates, and never make fun of them, give them nicknames or talk about them behind their backs. Students should greet each other when they meet for the first time every day and say goodbye to each other after school. This is a sincere and polite expression and a necessary form of respecting others.
Respect classmates, their personalities, their wishes, feelings, hobbies and national customs. Mutual respect is a sign of politeness and a civilized behavior that everyone should have. 2. Care for each other.
Lei Feng cared and cared for his classmates very much when he was a child. One of Lei Feng's classmates can't come to school for a few days because of illness. Lei Feng comes to this classmate's home every day after school to comfort his classmates and patiently help them with their lessons. With the enthusiastic help of Lei Feng, this classmate didn't miss class because of illness. We should follow Lei Feng's example. In the collective life of the school, students should care for each other, take care of each other and love each other. Students have difficulties in learning, so we should help them study and solve their problems, and think of their classmates at any time and place. When a classmate has difficulties in life, help him enthusiastically and actively; When students get good grades, we should learn from them modestly and encourage each other.
As long as students have others in mind and always think of others, you can take the initiative to help others and do good things for others. If you do this for a long time, you will get the care, love and trust of others. 3. Treat people sincerely.
Faith is the basis of communication. When communicating with classmates, you must do what you say, do what you say, do what you promise others, and don't easily promise what others can't do.
Get along with your classmates sincerely, and don't be proud. Don't use other people's things without permission. You must tell your classmates when you borrow something from others. When reading classmates' books and newspapers, don't dirty, tear them up, and don't take them away without permission. 4. Steady, generous and gentle.
When talking to others, don't slap them in the face or point your finger at them first. Don't whisper to others in front of a classmate, and don't listen when others are talking alone. Be careful not to get too close when you speak, especially not to spit. Don't step on other people's shoulders. Don't make jokes in front of classmates, especially female classmates, and don't play pranks.
Politeness is a bridge of communication. If you are impolite, you can't get along well with others, and you will lose friends. Students should learn to communicate in a civilized way and make friends. 5. Learn to tolerate and understand others.
Forgiving others is actually forgiving yourself. When there is a contradiction between classmates, the other party is responsible. We should think more about our responsibilities, learn to understand and tolerate each other's temporary actions, and look at this issue with a high mentality to resolve contradictions. 6, between classmates, especially when there are contradictions between classmates, don't let out a lot of words.
Don't say anything when you get along. For example, "Do you want to be beaten?" "I'm going to kill you" and "wait for you", etc. These words will cause the other party's anger and easily escalate the contradiction, so don't say these rude words when students communicate.
Friendly reminder: the golden rule of getting along with others
Treat others as you want them to treat you.
Clearly understand that no one is perfect, don't compare your own advantages with others' shortcomings, it will be better to put yourself in others' shoes.
How can I learn Zhihu?
Love to fight will win. As long as you don't tie yourself to your inner cage.
How to live in harmony is inseparable from society. A person's happiness, troubles, happiness, sadness, love and hate in his life are also inseparable from interaction with others. Without communication with others, there would be no joys and sorrows of life, and there would be no literature, art and science. In other words, without communication with others, there will be nothing else. It is for these reasons that Marx put forward that the essential attribute of human beings is sociality and human beings are social animals. Therefore, communication with people is not only a basic part of everyone's life, but also the basis of building human civilization.
People can't live without society, and people's life can't live without people's communication, which is certain. However, what kind of interpersonal relationship a person has is related to whether his life is happy or not. If a person has a harmonious interpersonal atmosphere, he is undoubtedly happy. On the contrary, if a person lives in a tense interpersonal relationship, then loneliness, loneliness, inferiority and doubt will inevitably accompany him. Entering the middle school stage, good interpersonal relationship has become an important factor affecting the healthy growth of middle school students. If a person can live in a warm collective environment and establish a harmonious relationship with classmates and teachers around him, he will eliminate loneliness, feel safe and keep his mood calm and stable. Otherwise, we will feel lonely and depressed, which will affect our study and life and the mental health of our middle school students.
Interpersonal relationship is one of the problems that middle school students reflect the most and worry the most, which mainly includes
1. Relationship with classmates. I mainly make friends, and I am worried about not handling the relationship between friends well. A student said that one of his good friends always distrusts him, doubts his friendship with his friends and thinks that he has not paid enough for his friends, which makes him very upset. He doesn't know what to do to dispel the doubts of his friends. There is also a girl who is caught in the middle because of the contradiction between two good friends. She was afraid that B and A would be unhappy if they contacted, and that A and B would not understand if they contacted. In the end, the two friends simply stopped dating, but she was very lonely inside and didn't know what to do if she wanted to restore the relationship with her friends. In addition, some students suspect that from junior high school to senior high school, there are fewer and fewer friends, no real friendship, no real friends, and then they want to die and live in seclusion.
2. Relationship with teachers. The main reason is that teachers don't understand students. Too much interference with students' spare time life and normal communication, resulting in drowsiness and trouble. A middle school student said that once he asked a girl in the same class about her homework, she was severely criticized by the teacher after seeing it, and she took it in her hand as a pigtail and easily found it out for everyone to see. "Do you think I don't know you?" This seriously hurt his self-esteem and led to his dislike and opposition to the teacher. The teacher pointed out that he was biased towards the west, but his heart was contradictory, which even affected his interest in learning. Some student cadres said that it is really difficult to be a class cadre now. You don't care about things at both ends. The teacher criticizes you for being irresponsible and in charge, and it is inevitable that you will have an argument with some classmates. If there is a quarrel, the teacher will criticize the class cadres first, so he feels very wronged. Angry with the teacher, dare not contradict; If you want to quit, you are afraid of losing the trust of the teacher. The dilemma is contradictory. I don't know what to do. In addition, there are some other ideas, such as: those who think teachers are "too poor to love rich people", those who think teachers are "unfair", those who think teachers "look down on themselves", and so on. Both reflect the problem of the relationship between teachers and students in the school.
3. Relationship with parents. It is mainly due to the lack of mutual understanding and communication between parents and children, or the mental damage caused by family relations to students.
Among these three aspects, the first two aspects are very important for our junior and senior high school students, because we junior and senior high school students spend most of our time in school. Therefore, it is particularly important for middle school students to deal with the relationship between these two aspects, which is not only related to students' study and life, but more importantly, harmonious interpersonal relationships can promote physical and mental development and lead a happy study life.
For middle school students, good interpersonal relationship has become an important factor affecting their personal healthy growth. If a person can live in a warm collective environment and establish a harmonious relationship with his classmates and teachers around him, he will study and live happily, but good interpersonal relationship does not mean that he is close to everyone around him. Especially the middle school students who have entered adolescence, their self-awareness and independence have been greatly improved. Everyone has begun to have their own views on people, things, life and life, hoping to arrange their own study and life independently without too much interference from others. This is the difference between middle school students and primary school students. Therefore, we middle school students should pay more attention to the exchange of ideas, understanding and life experience with others, the necessary care and help in life, and the exchange of information, rather than the inseparable and intimate form. The following five aspects are what students should pay attention to and learn from when establishing good interpersonal relationships.
First, enthusiastic communication. Interpersonal relationships are interactive. Don't always passively wait for others to take the initiative to care about yourself, but actively communicate with classmates around you. Being open to yourself is contagious. You are open to others, and others will be open to you. When the other person walks out of the dead circle, you will not only have a deeper understanding of the other person, but more importantly, you will also have a new understanding and experience of yourself.
Second, we must understand respect. Everyone has their own temperament and personality characteristics, different growth backgrounds and living habits, so if we can understand and respect each other in the process of interacting with our classmates, our relationship will be easy to be harmonious and reduce unnecessary friction.
Third, be honest with each other. The most important thing in interpersonal communication is sincerity and goodwill, which is also the fundamental principle of being a man. It is difficult for a hypocritical and arrogant person to have friends.
Fourth, tolerance and understanding. As the saying goes: "No one is perfect, and gold is not enough." The students around us (including ourselves) are still in the growth stage, and there are often many inappropriate places to deal with problems. On many issues, students will have different views, which requires us to put ourselves in each other's shoes and understand each other, so as not to lead to hostility.
Fifth, eliminate the sense of dependence. There is also an unhealthy mentality in interpersonal communication, that is, people with a strong sense of dependence always want others to care about themselves like their parents, brothers and sisters, and they have to make their own decisions in everything, which is a sign of lack of independence. Excessive dependence will also develop into a desire for control. They force others to study with themselves, review their lessons together, inform them of their action plans, and even restrict others from interacting with other students. This is a character defect, which should be corrected in time.
Of course, these five aspects are universal and suitable for popularization. The so-called key opens a lock, which requires us middle school students to proceed from our own reality, specifically handle the relationship with the people around us, and strive to make ourselves in a harmonious interpersonal environment, so as to better study and live.
Urgently ask the students to live in harmony with ppt! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! It's really forbearing to live in harmony between classmates.
How to draw a printed newspaper (let students live in harmony)? There are classmates and teachers in our class, just like a warm family. We are always surrounded by classmates' friendship. Friendship is two bright eyes on a desk, and two people under an umbrella are the best feelings between people.
Today is the day when students waited for a long time to publish a magazine, and everyone was in high spirits. But soon after the magazine was published, Li, who was sitting in front of me, was unhappy. I asked him doubtfully, "What's wrong with you? Are you in any trouble? " He said to me sadly, "My magazine is missing." "The magazine is gone? Didn't the teacher just send out a magazine? How can it be gone? " He shook his head and looked even sadder. I patted him on the shoulder and said kindly, "Never mind, I'll help you find it." The students all went to the corridor to play, and I wanted to go, but I recalled Li's anxious appearance and decided to continue to help him find magazines. So, I asked my classmates if they had seen Li's magazine, and they all saidno. I bent down and rummaged through everyone's seats, and finally found Li's magazine, which was originally read. I handed the magazine to Li, and he said excitedly, "Thank you!" " "I smiled and said," never mind. "At that moment, I felt a special happiness in my heart, just like a flower of love full of friendship blooming in our hearts. ...
Sincere friendship, in the hearts of our dear classmates, there will always be clusters of lush new green; It will always be a flower that becomes more and more delicate in the warm sunshine; It is always a long, warm and affectionate song.
How to live in harmony with female classmates? Girls born after 90 should not be mature enough. Many girls of this age are selfish and self-centered. I don't want to face my own shortcomings.
I just want to say that you should be yourself, and don't be as learned as this kind of person, otherwise you can't live in harmony. Just like a magnet, with the South Pole and the North Pole, the two poles must be different, and they must complement each other to attract each other. If they are the same, they will definitely repel each other.
Therefore, you, not just you, all of us, must first be yourself and tolerate others, because you have only been together for three or four years, maybe even shorter. After you change places after graduation, you will basically move away gradually. So when they look back on the past, they will know that you are a very gentle and generous person, not just caring about these things, and they will admire you deeply. This is also the best exercise for you! In the face of selfish people in the future, you can be yourself with an open mind, without being angry or caring. When they figure it out, they will not only respect you, but also feel ashamed! And they can never do this, which is the least good for them, and will only hit a wall everywhere in the future! It's hard to get along with others!
In fact, if you are angry, you are really angry with yourself. If you really don't care, you really won't be angry.
As long as you don't hurt others in principle, then you will certainly be respected.
Students should live in harmony. After listening, they loved, hurt and cried. How easy is it to be friends after breaking up? Looking at your former lover, kissing me and being happy with others, you will definitely be unhappy, jealous and even hate. Why play by yourself? Since I chose to break up, why should I deliberately maintain a relationship similar to friendship? It is better to keep it in your heart, miss it or throw it away, and welcome a new life. . . . We broke up. Why should we be friends again? Why else would you break up? . I can only be the most familiar stranger. I wish you happiness.
Students live in harmony and learn to communicate normally. The harmonious beauty of the famous aphorism "urgency" is not only pleasing to the eye, but also fascinating because of its strong attraction to people. Marx
Goodwill brings happiness, and civilization brings harmony. Hugo
Happiness always exists in the restless pursuit of human beings, not in harmony and stability. -Lu Xun
A gentleman is harmonious but different, and a villain is not harmonious.
A gentleman who is harmonious but different will not blindly agree, while a villain just blindly agrees and will not be harmonious but different.
Friendship is harmony and equality. Pythagoras
Each has its own beauty, beauty, beauty and * * *, and the world is a family. —— Fei Xiaotong
Hegel: "What exists is reasonable."
Friendship doubles happiness and halves pain. -(British) Bacon
Rare friends, dare to criticize in person. -Chen Yi
Afraid that friends are better than strict teachers-(Qing) Shen Hanguang
When it comes to subtle words, celebrities are romantic-scholars.
When people know each other, you know each other's hearts-Li Ling (Western Han Dynasty)
He who knows others is wise, and he who knows himself is wise-Laozi
In society, it is undoubtedly an understanding heart to communicate the feelings between people. Even trivial things, as long as there is mutual understanding, are clear springs in the desert. -(Japanese) Kōnosuke Matsushita
To be a good person, you must find a good friend-Ming (played by Lu Desheng)
Life is about knowing each other, so why use gold and money? -Li Bai
People should not be arrogant, but not arrogant-Xu Beihong
How do former classmates get along in harmony? Although we can't say that a person with good character must have good popularity, what is certain is that a person with low moral quality and poor character will never have good popularity. As the saying goes, birds of a feather flock together. A normal person, who wants to associate with people with low character? Therefore, personality is the decisive factor in determining popularity, and of course you should also master some communication arts.
First of all, we must establish an idea: harmony is more important.
In China's philosophy of life, the golden mean is regarded as a classic, and its essence is to attach importance to harmony. As your work partners, classmates will inevitably have conflicts of interest or other aspects. When dealing with these contradictions, the first solution you think of should be reconciliation. After all, under the same roof, if you look up but don't look down, if you let anyone ruin your mood, you may suffer in the future, not others. Get along well with your classmates. In the eyes of the boss, your weight will go up a step, because the harmonious handling of interpersonal relationships is not only the need of survival, but also the need of work and life.
It is easy to get along with classmates. Harmonious classmate relationship makes your work and life with classmates around you simpler and more efficient.
If you want to have a harmonious relationship with your classmates, you must also remember one sentence: "A friendship between gentlemen is as light as water".
Everyone works in the same company, and personal friendship is definitely very different. There is a natural relationship between distance and closeness. The key to the problem is how to deal with this "far and near" relationship.
We can recall who we tend to have an opinion about. In fact, we have no objection to who is closely related to whom and who is alienated from whom, because for ourselves, there are also close people and relatively ordinary people. We didn't even complain about making excuses for our friends among our classmates, because few good brothers and sisters came out to cover up when something happened. However, when we found that this relationship between distance and distance began to expand because of the same interests, and even there was intrigue and rivalry, we began to frown.
This situation is a taboo within an excellent team, and it can even be said that it is the beginning of the disintegration and differentiation of a team, and the result is the paralysis of the whole team.
In order to avoid such a thing, what we have to do is to control the close relationship with our classmates. We should think that no matter whether your relationship with a classmate is close or not, it is a personal relationship between you, and this relationship goes beyond work and should not have any influence on your work.
Although the reason is simple, the feelings between people are not as easy to control as described in the text. Although you know clearly in your heart, "I can never bring personal relationships to work." But more often, many behaviors are natural expressions of personal likes and dislikes, and you don't even feel it yourself. So, what should we do in this case? Is to control the degree of closeness, the best way is "a friendship between gentlemen is as light as water".
The formation and maintenance of good friends require conditions. To be more specific, it is very important to be good friends, but there is another point, that is, there can be no obvious conflict of interest between two people. It is difficult for two people with obvious conflict of interests and obvious or hidden competition of interests to become good friends. Even two people who have become good friends, in the face of obvious conflicts of interest and competition, often make their feelings deadlocked. Because human nature is selfish, no one can escape.
Because of this, in the company, it is best to have a friendship between gentlemen as light as water. Because the company is an occasion full of obvious competition and conflicts of interest, there are too many factors that affect and interfere with the relationship between people. Contradictions and cracks are too easy to appear between good friends, and these contradictions and cracks are basically inevitable, even if people have the best subjective hope.
Secondly, we must learn to respect our classmates.
In interpersonal communication, your attitude towards others often determines the attitude of others towards yourself. Therefore, if you want to gain the goodwill and respect of others, you must first respect others.
Research shows that everyone has a strong desire for friendship and respect. Therefore, saving face is really a big * * * of people. At work, if you are not careful, you may inadvertently say something embarrassing to your classmates. On the surface, he may just feel guilty on the surface, but his heart may have been seriously bruised. In the future, the other person may refuse to associate with you because he feels that his self-esteem has been hurt.
A philosopher once asked the question: Who is putting on airs, the general or the gatekeeper? The answer is the doorman. Because the general has abundant capital, he doesn't need shelf support. The same is true in real life. People with advantages are often generous, with enough self-esteem and face, and there is no need for others to add them.
People who are in your class or even worse than you in some aspects are likely to show strong self-esteem because of their inferiority complex. His little face needs your careful care. If you can communicate with people in an equal manner, they will feel respected and have a good impression on you. So, remember, there is no friendship without respect.
To respect your classmates, you should consciously keep their secrets.
We learned the secret about our classmates through two channels. One is that this man told us himself, and the other is that he tried his best to tell us himself.
If others tell us themselves, we can really "commit suicide". People trust us so much, how can they spread other people's privacy casually?
So, what if we learned the news through other channels?
Then let the news jam in our place! Let the news be with us.