But a video broke out on the Internet. The 9-month-old baby was beaten with red, swollen and blue cheeks, covered with blood stains. Others are scared and sad.
What is even more incredible is that the "murderer" of child abuse is not others, but the child's biological father!
Such cruel injury makes others feel distressed. I really can't imagine what kind of father is willing to be so cruel to his baby!
We often say that parents are children's umbrellas.
However, toxic parents can not only give their children care, but also become a "sharp blade" to stab their children.
In a residential area in Suzhou, a little boy was found wandering alone in the aisle wearing an anklet.
The child's leg was covered with many scars, and the heavy anklet made him stumble, which was sad.
It is not others who can personally lock the anklet for the child, but the parents of the child!
Neighbors reported that the boy was beaten like this for two years.
Children will ask outsiders for help at first, but after many unsuccessful alarms, they may be afraid of the threat of their parents, or they may have been desperate in their hearts. He became more and more silent and afraid to talk to others.
I dare not think about how the children spent these years and what kind of torture they suffered every day.
Such abuse is beyond the tolerance of ordinary people. What kind of cold-blooded parents turn a blind eye to their children's pain, treat them as their own "prisoners" and release "torture" on them.
Some people, obviously dressed as parents, are doing the devil's business.
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"I was wrong, can you stop hitting me?"
There is a 5-year-old boy in Singapore who has been living in a nightmare since he was born.
Because the cookie jar was knocked over, the boy was beaten by his parents with a broom, which caused the kneecap to be damaged and displaced;
Suspecting that he stole his sister's milk powder, his mother burned the boy's hand with a red-hot iron spoon;
Put him in a cat cage, clamp his hips with pliers, and the cat at home can walk freely. ...
What's even more frightening is that just because the child didn't cooperate with the bath, the father spilled more than 90 degrees of boiling water on the boy many times, causing more than 75% of the whole body burn area, and finally the child was burned alive!
The 8-year-old girl in Baoan, Shenzhen, obviously didn't do anything wrong, but she lived as a "sandbag" for her parents.
Sitting quietly doing homework, my mother suddenly rushed over and slapped her, grabbed her by the neck and knocked her to the ground;
Not enough, the mother even whipped her with a broom, and even grabbed the girl's hair and dragged it to the ground to beat her;
And the girl's father never gave up, slapping one by one, making the children stand unsteadily.
Children may never understand why they should be the most protective angel in the world, but they become the biggest devil in the world.
What is even more frightening is that in reality, such cases abound. Just search and you will see a "tragedy" on earth.
In July 2020, a boy aged 12 in Jiangxi was beaten to death by his parents.
Tong Tong, a 6-year-old girl from Liaoning, was abused by her biological mother, her teeth were pulled out, and her legs were stabbed by the fire head of a steel needle and lighter, causing secondary disability. ...
According to the data of Investigation Report on Domestic Violence of Minors, 84.79% of the 697 cases were caused by parents, of which 74.75% were caused by biological parents, and 10.04% were caused by stepparents or adoptive parents.
These facts and data tell us that parents can be the hardest protection or the sharpest sword.
The cost of becoming a "parent" is really too low, which has created countless parents who have no children.
Some people, because of the title of "parents", abuse their powers, trample on children's bodies and play with their lives at will.
We have to face the cruel reality. Sometimes, parents hurt their children the most.
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"I gave birth to him. What happened to him?"
Tiger poison doesn't eat children, and animals know how to lick calves, but why do some parents want to be "people" without a bottom line when facing their children, which is more cruel than animals?
The mother told us the answer.
After divorcing her husband, a mother in Dongguan would beat her 4-year-old son to vent her anger whenever she was in a bad mood.
The child's eyes are black and swollen, and he is black and blue all over. He can't find a good piece of meat on his delicate body.
Because of long-term abuse, the child is 4 years old and can't speak. His body is identified as a first-class disability.
Neighbors really can't see the past, send their children to the hospital for treatment, but they are denounced by their mothers:
"It is a matter of course for me to hit children, and no one can control it!"
"I almost died during childbirth when I gave birth to him. I know he is disobedient. It was better to strangle him at that time. If he doesn't listen, he should fight! "
In this mother's view, there is nothing wrong with child abuse, just because she is a "parent" and gave her life, so she should have the right to dominate her children.
Moreover, under the influence of "stick education" culture, society tends to classify child abuse as "housework", and parents also regard child abuse as a natural "discipline".
This makes many "toxic" parents more fearless when they abuse their children. It makes sense to shout "What's wrong with my own child". "What's the matter with our family? Outsiders mind their own business. "
For these parents, children are not "people" but their "private things", which can be used as "tools" or even "props" to vent their desires.
After quarreling with his wife, a father in Huai 'an City even put his baby in cold water to take a bath, stepped on the child's arm with his foot, and even put a plastic bag on the child's head, watching the child suffocate.
A father in Sichuan strangled and beat his/kloc-0-year-old son to force his runaway wife to go home.
These atrocities really fulfilled Kotaro Isaka's sentence: "It is terrible to think that parents don't need exams."
Although parents give children life, children are independent individuals, independent lives, not "playthings". They have blood and tears, know how to suffer and know how to suffer.
Every life should be respected, not trampled and brutally abused. If parents can't love selflessly, they should at least have the bottom line of not hurting.
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"If you can't raise me, don't give birth to me."
Someone once said that having children is the most selfish thing in the world.
There has never been a reciprocal relationship between parents and children. Parents can choose to be born or not, but children can't decide their own birth or choose their own parents.
If you are lucky, you can grow up healthily with a good parents' home;
Unfortunately, just like the child we saw earlier, he was "dead" from the moment he was born, not only without the love of his parents, but also without help and upbringing, and even suffered cruel abuse.
In the movie How to Go Home, Zan once said something that made countless people cry when he sued his parents:
"I hope those who can't take care of children don't have children. What else will you remember when you grow up? Is it violence, abuse, beating or abuse? Chain it, water it with a hose, and pull it with a belt? I live in hell every day, and I am miserable. Why does fate torment me? "
Children come into this world with innocence and goodwill, never thinking that their favorite parents will hurt them the most.
If there is a choice, which child doesn't want the care and love of his parents? Who wants to be tortured and abused from birth?
However, there are always some selfish and cold-blooded parents who let their children go from hope to disappointment to despair, and finally can only use their lives to heal the pain of childhood.
Someone in Zhihu asked, what happened to the abused and beaten children?
Each of the following answers is worrying.
Some people have been beaten by their parents since childhood, but they still can't get rid of the shadows when they grow up, and they have serious psychological problems, becoming more and more silent and gloomy, even indifferent and resentful;
Some people, after being abused and beaten by their fathers all the year round, choose self-mutilation to resist, hit their heads against the wall, cut themselves with glass, and become "enemies" with their fathers;
Others, after having the ability, choose to draw a clear line with their parents and repay their parents' abuse with "indifference" ...
It is said that having children is like buying lottery tickets, but isn't it right for children to choose their parents?
Some unfortunate children who "gave birth to the wrong child" died halfway, and even if they were lucky enough to grow up, their hearts were already riddled with holes, such as rotten wood.
What's more frightening is that the pain is contagious. A heartbroken child will probably continue the tragedy of family of origin when he grows up, and let more people fall into a painful cycle.
Although fertility is everyone's freedom, if there is no love, then creating life is actually creating tragedy.
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I once heard a saying: "I don't have a child to become a parent, but I have raised a child to become a parent."
How many parents thought before giving birth: Why do you want to have children?
Everyone has the right to have children, but the healthy growth of a life requires more than a mouthful of rice and a bowl of soup.
The greatness of "parents" lies not only in creating life, but also in the responsibility of teaching and nurturing.
Before giving birth to a child, I hope everyone can understand that giving birth to a child is to let life last and love pass, not to create pain and trauma.
Behind every child's "parents" are heavy responsibilities and love.
As parents, it takes countless blood and tears to shoulder the burden of a life.
If you decide to bring your children into this world, please be responsible to the end, raise this innocent life with love and companionship, be responsible for yourself, life and society.
If you can't do it, not having children in disorder is a person's best accomplishment.
May every child be born with "love" as the background and grow up healthily and happily;
May every parent be kind to their children and let them have a home and a place to rely on in this world.
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