I remember it was inadvertently transferred in, and I was attracted by the sound. It's a very magnetic voice, and I especially like his voice with a magnetic smile that is not suitable for his age. Because he will receive a lot of messages, he can't read one by one and reply one by one, so he often listens to this sentence. Listening to radio programs will help you learn to listen quietly. At that time, I was impetuous at the beginning of college, and I accompanied him for some days in his magnetic voice. Weibo has been paying attention to him. Think about it, I still miss it.
From an inferiority complex, only in front of his family will he pretend to be confident, thick-skinned and talkative, and now he will still feel inferior, thin-skinned and talkative, but he is no longer confined to his family. I suddenly want to get rid of this role. I hope I feel inferior occasionally, be cheeky in time, and be good at listening quietly.
"Some people know a lot of things, but they have never lived a good life." Well, for people like me who are entangled, I think everyone has a truth. I often fall into contradictions and can't extricate myself. Listening to other people's stories will find some answers I want during that time, and I have already started thinking about life at a young age, hum!
? What I have heard most recently is the story of Xiao Xie, a classmate next to the workstation. She said that I was almost like her best friend, but she was a person with clear love and hate. As long as she thinks what is right is right, she thinks it is good, so she and her best friend are just complementary. I said that this character is quite good, but some things are not as simple as they seem, and it is easy to fall into a kind of paranoia, that is, walking into a dead end and making mistakes. She said, in my opinion, it is easy to struggle, self-denial, cowardice and self-doubt, but this is not good. I smiled. Sometimes it's good to discuss these things.
? At the end of last month, Xie submitted his resignation to the leader because of the pressure of working overtime and four clean-ups. The leader wanted me to persuade him. I just listened to her recent situation. She told me that my stomach has been upset recently, and it's getting worse and worse recently, because I work overtime and occasionally get punished. She said: "I was not happy before, but now I am not happy when I earn money." I don't want to lose my health because of work, so it's not worth the candle. " What she said is not wrong. Actually, I will, too, because I have been under great pressure at work recently and my body has been lighting up one after another. First, my inflamed gums were swollen and painful, and then I began to lack vitamins. Then I had a stomachache and a cold, and my sleep quality was not good, so I began to have a migraine. Even taking several ibuprofen has no effect. I often wander around at this time because of my health and work, but I don't have the courage after all.
I remember when my roommate proposed to leave last year, there was such a conversation: "I envy your departure!" " "
? The roommate said, "What is there to envy? You'd better not do this, or your supervisor will think that I told you something that made you unable to work. "
? Me: "No, I really envy you. You see, I've wanted to leave my job countless times, but I've never really dared to mention it. You are so brave. "
? My roommate was silent for a few seconds and answered me, "Indeed, it really takes courage to resign at our age. But I really have been sitting like this for physical reasons. I can't let my stone grow up. I have to go to the hospital, so I'd better leave. My health is the most important thing. "
? I understand that health is the most important thing, and their words are actually reasonable, but Xie is not married, and he lives and eats at home, with his parents in charge, and basically has no living expenses. Roommates got the license, and they were entangled in whether to buy a suite in Chengdu or a house in Beijing, and I ... couldn't compare with them at all, so I had this idea countless times, but I never had the courage to realize it.
? Sometimes, listening to others talk about yourself and comparing yourself can make you know yourself better and be more pragmatic. Sometimes, it is said that you can "open the clouds and discover the new continent."
Always think of others, which I learned from my grandparents, but it also made me a little depressed at school for a while, and then I slowly needed medication. Fortunately, it's not very heavy, but I know I'm actually kind. Talking to the master about his recent work that day, the master said, "Such people are paranoid and have a small pattern. They are unwilling to let go of the past for a long time. To put it bluntly, they seem to do good things for others, but after all, they are not for themselves." Look at that X. She's depressed, but ... . (Don't speak ill of others here (? -ω-`), the so-called crazy and talented, she is very smart, but look at her, she is too obsessed with what happened in the past and loves to get to the bottom of it, just thinking that she is right. It seems that she is doing good for the people around her, but has she actually expressed the words of doing good for her family? Still depressed, or cut your wrist? I need to be embarrassed every day, and she is not depressed. "Some angry words. In fact, I heard her talk about her past. Although I can't fully feel it, I can understand why she is depressed and can't get out, but this is the first time to accept another view, that is, the pattern is small and selfish. I began to think back to my previous time, which was equally puzzling, but then I forced myself to follow my college classmates and slowly try to change myself. After I accepted some ideas, I gradually improved. Now I sometimes feel that I have returned to that state because of some factors, but I will adjust immediately and have begun to learn to reconcile with myself. I suddenly seem to understand the ambitious book I once read. Genius is on the left and madman is on the right.
In fact, it is ok to listen to others' good and bad, broaden your knowledge, accept some new ideas and reflect on yourself. . . But there will also be contradictions and impetuousness, or fluctuations and deterioration of psychological emotions. Every coin has its two sides. Looking at things and people, I began to struggle again.
When I first listened to the broadcast of the Tang Dynasty, some people might share the happy events with him, some people told him about the recent troubles, some people spoke freely, some people wanted to ask for help ... But I can always find some answers from his words or contributors. Sometimes I feel that I can have my own email address or official WeChat account, and I can gain something, listen to some words, help others, and get some answers to my own questions. But after all, I am afraid that I am unprofessional and inexperienced and can't help others. I am also afraid that my inappropriate words will hurt others. Even if I deceive myself sometimes, I tell myself, "Although I didn't help others, the person who said it will relax a lot and make him feel that it is different to be accompanied." But I still don't think so. . . I'm really disappointed in myself. At present, I can only listen to stories and find answers from second and third parties.
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