0 1. The ins and outs of the incident 20 17, daughter-in-law Hu and son Yue took her elderly mother-in-law Wang to live at home. I thought old people could live like this, but I didn't expect this to be just the beginning of a nightmare.
From 18, the daughter-in-law began to beat and scold her mother-in-law and refused to eat. My son is not often at home because he has gone out to work. Until 19, my son went back to his hometown for treatment due to illness. I thought that the life of the elderly might be better, but the arrival of my son made the situation of the elderly even more difficult, because my son not only had no opinion about the abuse of the elderly, but added fuel to the fire. Under pressure, the old man chose to move to the cowshed, during which he could only eat some raw corn and raw pumpkins.
Others want to send meals to the elderly, but the son said: whoever sends meals will raise them. During the period, the staff tried to dissuade them, but the effect was of no help. Until 19, 1 1, the old man was found unconscious on the ground and then entered the hospital. The daughter-in-law said that she would not take care of her mother-in-law, and then she was taken home and died the next day.
02. The identity of daughter-in-law and mother-in-law is unclear. I think the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is very important because the mother-in-law of daughter-in-law doesn't know her identity. At least the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has two sides, and one of them should have such a problem.
For example, some mother-in-law will be very hostile to the daughter-in-law who comes in, because on the one hand, she feels that her son has been taken away by another woman, and her heart is unfair. On the other hand, she thinks that this daughter-in-law who has spent money on herself may have many things that her mother-in-law can't stand, but such a mother-in-law completely forgets that a daughter-in-law is a family when she marries alone. She only marries her son, not her whole family.
Some daughter-in-law will think that her mother-in-law is not her own mother, but because of her husband, they have some connections and there is no need to give full respect. This idea is all wet. When a woman marries a man, she should be in love. The person who gives this man to you is a mother-in-law and should be grateful. Besides, my mother-in-law is an elder anyway.
For example, in this incident, the daughter-in-law thought that her mother-in-law did not raise her, so she had no obligation to support her, but she gave birth to your husband anyway. Nominally, she is your mother, your elder, and has the obligation to support her, and this daughter-in-law's practice is really outrageous.
03. Whether the son's coordinating role is appropriate is another important point of the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. The man between these two women is the son. This man plays an extremely important role, but many people may not realize it.
When some men are in the middle, they often choose a neutral and inaction attitude, because maybe he thinks that both sides are lovers and can't handle it. Some people choose to be obviously biased towards their wives or mother-in-law, which is not conducive to getting along with each other.
In this incident, if the son stood up to honor his mother, even if his daughter-in-law didn't want to support him, his behavior would never be so excessive and he would definitely be restrained. However, this son stood up and embellished it, which is really not worthy of other children. But in the end, the son was sentenced to a year for desertion, which was a certain punishment.