Family ties, especially the special feelings between relatives, should love each other no matter what, whether they are poor or rich, whether they are healthy or sick, or even whether they are good or evil. It has two characteristics: first, mutual, not unilateral, maternal love is affection, loving mother is affection; Second, it is three-dimensional, not referring to the relationship between mother and daughter, nor to the relationship between father and son, such as the relationship between father and son, the relationship between mother and child, the relationship between brothers and sisters, the relationship between grandchildren, and even the friendship between friends, all of which can be family ties. "Love" focuses on the word "love". You can have affection without relatives; Blood relationship does not necessarily represent family relationship. Relatives refer to people who are related by blood and marriage.
Under normal circumstances, relatives can show affection, help each other and reciprocate, but there are also "snobs" like you who say you can help her, but when you are in trouble, especially when you are "poor" and want something from her, "they turn their backs on each other" and refuse to lend you a helping hand, thus desecrating the affection and casting a shadow over each other's feelings. This kind of thing is an example for you, but it is also a common social phenomenon.
Misfortune tests the sincerity of friends. In order to maintain their dignity, the old people think that the best way is to stay away from them and stop contacting them. You are unkind and unfair. You are separated from them and live your own life. One day, you will turn your back on others and make them want to leave!