First of all, when the person who belongs to the ox is with you, he doesn't respond, and after you reminded him many times, he didn't tell you something clearly, and he didn't respond. So from this situation, you can know that the person who belongs to the ox doesn't like you, because if he likes you, he will pay attention to your words and deeds and your expression changes.
One more thing, going out shopping with you, if he doesn't want to pay for you, invite you to dinner, or share something for you, even if you mention something, even if the fruit is heavy, he won't share it for you, which can show that he doesn't like you either. Because the person who likes you won't make you so tired, he hopes you can live a little easier.
At the same time, when going out to play together, if he doesn't consider your health, your travel and your safety, then it can also show that he doesn't really have you in his heart and he won't like you. Because people who like you will pay special attention to your words and deeds and whether you are happy or not, we can learn from them.