For me, a child is better. For others, I don't know.
For children, it may be that when they were young, they were carefree and had fixed close playmates. However, when they are no longer children and no longer need playmates, they may feel that it is better to have children alone!
For me, having a good boy gives me some time to myself, so I can do what I want. If you have two children, it should be difficult to go to bed at nine o'clock every day ... this is still mom's house at night.
The second child is good. Although the parenting process is hard, the grateful child is really reassuring. If conditions permit, I suggest you have a second child.
For children, I think a child is good.
Everything has two sides, and the road to raising a baby is both bitter and sweet! Some colleagues around me like children very much. After releasing the second child, even if you are in your forties, you will have a second child. Some colleagues about my age, in order to let their children have a companion, the second child is one year old and two years old, and even the younger brother who is four years younger than me has already had a second child. . The reason why I didn't have a second child is that my husband and I have seriously considered it.
First, for me now, I think I am willing to have a second child, but I am unable to do so. After a busy day in the company, I have to help my children with their homework after work. Simply doing homework is easier said than done. The key is to reprimand loudly every time you can't control your emotions. Anyway, there are very few times when you are not angry. The husband said: "When there is homework, it is chicken flying and dogs jumping. When there is no homework, it is really the kindness and filial piety of the mother! " "My son is in the third grade. Every night, he puts off doing his homework. Either buckle your fingers, draw blindly, drink water or go to the toilet ... if he doesn't dawdle until eight or nine every night, it's still early. I have always wanted my children to exercise downstairs at night, such as skipping rope, running or strolling, but when they grow up, they can't stay up too late. I usually urge my children to go to bed before 9: 30, so my plan to go downstairs for exercise at night has failed again and again. In fact, it is not easy for children to do their homework honestly after a day's class, but isn't this the way students learn?
Second, it is said that the second child is to leave a companion for the child in the future. In case parents are unwell and hospitalized, they can take turns to accompany and share. This idea is indeed correct. Some family members around me encouraged me to have a second child, while others did not. The reason why you don't support me is that raising a child is too tiring. My son saw a little brother in his good friend's house and told me several times when he would have a little brother. I have always been ambivalent. It takes a lot of energy to train children from childhood to adulthood, and our own time becomes very little. After the children get married, we will retire at this age, so we have to help them look after the children. If the family has money, we can hire a nanny. If we have no money, we can only do it ourselves. And now society, family education is very important. I have bought books on how to educate children and attended lectures organized by famous teachers in schools ..... I think children are like a sapling. If you want to grow into a towering tree, you have to be accompanied and fertilized from an early age. If they grow crooked, they must be trimmed at once. The road to education has a long way to go. In short, I want to pour all my love into him and spend more time with him. His childhood is only once, and I want him to grow up healthily, safely and happily. My husband and I discussed that when we get old, we will go to the nursing home hand in hand, so as not to increase the burden on our children. Isn't this a good idea?
I think we can have a second child if conditions permit. Otherwise, it is better not to be born.
Everything has two sides, you have to weigh it yourself.
If the older one is a boy and has two sisters, the younger one will be loved by his brother, and his brother can learn to be responsible, trust each other and grow up together. It should be beautiful. All right!
Originally, I wanted to have a second child and find a partner for the older one, but now I feel guilty about both of them. You accompany the big one, ignore the small one and ignore the small one.
How to make two people feel full of maternal love is still very difficult. First of all, always be full of energy and fill each child's cup.
It's better to have a baby, so that I can spend more time with my children.