A few days ago, a friend of mine came to me to complain. It turns out that the child is addicted to playing games. Before the summer vacation, Xiaole did well in school, and her final grade gave Gao Xiao great face. This is not a summer vacation. Gao Xiao and his wife are busy with work and have no time to take care of Xiaole. In order to facilitate contact, they bought Xiaole a mobile phone.
After a long time, Gao Xiao found that Xiaole spent most of her time playing mobile games at home. Xiaole has been talking about eating chicken games. Now Gao Xiao wants to take his mobile phone, not give it to Xiaole. Is also threw a face at Gao Xiao.
Mobile phones do great harm to children, especially in the developmental stage. Mobile phones have certain radiation, which will affect children's health. What is serious is that children are addicted to mobile phones and will hold them for a long time. As a result, the child has no time to go out and always maintains a posture. The child's cervical vertebrae will have problems, and the child's resistance will deteriorate, affecting the child's development.
The common disease is vision problem, especially the children's vision problem is becoming more and more serious. Now many primary school students wear glasses. This is the child watching the mobile phone screen for a long time, and the retina has no time to rest. Watching the mobile phone for so long, the retinal pressure is too high, causing vision problems. As a result, many children now have vision problems. If they are not corrected, they will still see as before and their vision will become blind.
People who often play mobile phones also have anxiety symptoms, and children are addicted to mobile phones. As long as the mobile phone leaves the child for a while, the child will be impatient. In particular, children's minds are attracted by mobile games and don't care about other things. After a long time, children will play alone, and children will stay away from their friends and become withdrawn and inferior.
The most common is the decline in children's grades. Many parents didn't notice their children's addiction to mobile phones until they saw their children's grades decline. We know that learning depends on children's concentration and thinking. The children are addicted to mobile games, and the two children are not interested in learning. They are often absent-minded in class and don't do their homework seriously. If you don't pay attention to learning, your child's grades will naturally decline.
First, make an agreement with your child when you can play.
It is unrealistic for children not to play mobile phones, and parents can slowly reduce the time their children play games. For example, parents can discuss with their children, and mobile phones can be played for you, but you should also study hard. For example, children can play mobile phones for an hour after finishing their homework every day. Parents can insist on doing homework. If they find that their children are coping with their parents or the quality of their homework is poor, they are forbidden to play mobile phones for one day, which will gradually reduce the time for children to play mobile phones and do much less harm to children.
Secondly, the reward and punishment system.
Parents can also make rules for their children. For example, if their children do well in exams or are praised by teachers, they can play mobile phones for an extra hour. If the child can't complete the learning goal and is criticized by the teacher, he can be nervous about the mobile phone time for one day. By making rules and regulations in this way, children can only play mobile phones if they implement them. Doing so can control children's play time, stimulate children to be positive and restrain their wrong behavior.
The third method: mobile phone content should be safe.
When children play mobile phones, parents can delete bad content and games on mobile phones, and what remains is beneficial to children's study. In this way, parents can rest assured that their children cannot accept any negative energy, and parents can also do a good job of supervision. In this way, after a long time, children will not be so obsessed with mobile phones and will gradually stop playing with them.
Summary: Mobile phone is an indispensable means of transportation in modern life. It has many functions in life, and it will be very convenient for people to use it. But with children's understanding and love of mobile phones. Parents should take the lead in becoming addicted to mobile phones, and don't play mobile phones at home. Parents can do more interaction or games with their children at home, so that their children will be happy and satisfied with the company, and naturally they will have no time to play mobile phones.