Last year, I took an examination of a class teacher in a vocational high school. Being a class teacher is really hard, but I often say that I am bitter, painful and full. Most of the children in vocational high schools are naughty, what's more, our students study art, so they are more lax and free in their behavior and study habits. In the process of communicating with parents, I found that many children could not understand the strictness of their parents, especially their fathers. Some children haven't even communicated with their fathers for a long time, and their fathers have worked in other places for a long time. Some children don't even talk to their father on the phone for a long time, or even call their father. I am very worried about the relationship between father and son, father and daughter, so I have been planning to melt the iceberg of emotional communication between father and son through a theme class meeting, hoping that all children can understand their father and all people. Learn to be grateful.
I. Activity Design
1. Activity purpose
It is their duty to let students experience family ties in equal dialogue, understand the hardships their parents have paid for themselves, and know how to appreciate and repay their parents' parenting.
② Let students know the specific connotation of filial piety to their parents, carry forward the traditional virtues of the nation, learn how to love their parents, and then raise this love to the collective and the motherland, so that students can have a kind of fraternity.
2. Activity preparation
(1) Collect information about family experiences.
② video and music preparation
③ Prepare pens and paper.
3. Activity steps
The host raised some questions about the topic of parents, and asked the students to answer them.
② Watch a video called "Father" to arouse students' feelings.
Make a hard choice and write down five things you like best, including people, including yourself and your parents. Then delete three of these five things. Let students feel the pain of losing something they like. So as to learn to cherish possession.
Students tell stories about themselves and their fathers, or talk about their feelings for their fathers. I hope that through this process, the touching story between my classmate and my father can infect other classmates to achieve an emotional voice.
⑤ Make a love card for dad. I hope that the shock of the soul can be put into action. In order to make this shock lasting, use a father wall to witness the inner vibration of children.
6. In the summary of the host, we should not only thank our father, but also learn to thank all those who have helped us, so as to achieve the sublimation of a theme.
⑦ Please ask the leader to speak.
Two. activation record
(Play "Dry Wine If Not for Sale" before class)
Female: Father loves mountains.
M: Motherly love is like the sea.
W: If there is eternity in this world, it must be parents' love for their children.
M: If there is infinity in this world, it must be children's gratitude to their parents.
Woman: On the occasion of Father's Day, Dad, we have something to tell you.
Qi: My father loves me like a mountain, and my true feelings are confessed. The theme class meeting officially started!
M: Let's proceed to the first agenda: answer the questions first (the first student who raises his hand correctly will get a sign language card).
Woman: Since ancient times, human beings have known how to be grateful. Many festivals of mankind express gratitude. The first topic is: Please listen carefully.
(1) When is Mother's Day? The second Sunday in May.
M: Please listen to the question:
When is Father's Day? The third Sunday in June
W: Please listen to the question.
(3) Which country did Thanksgiving originally come from? Originated in the United States
M: Please listen to the question:
When is your parents' birthday? (omitted)
Woman: Please listen to the question:
(5) When is the Double Ninth Festival in China? The ninth day of the ninth lunar month.
M: Today is Father's Day. We sing "Father" to our beloved father. Please enjoy it together: (Play video)
W: Students, can you understand this kind of love from your parents? Especially in the face of painful choices, how will you behave? Let's play a game together.
M: Please get ready for each of our classmates. Please listen to the question:
(1) Take out a blank sheet of paper. After careful consideration, please write down five things that you think are most precious, two of which must be yourself and your "parents".
(2) After thinking 1 minute, please cross out three of them.
Woman: (talking aside) Please note that although your right hand was slightly scratched, you must think that once scratched, things in your life will really disappear. If you cross out your friends, you will never have friends or care about them? If you cross out something else, it will disappear in your later life!
(pay attention to the language must be sensational, so that students can feel the pain of loss. )
Please cross out another item. What did you feel or associate with it in the process of crossing it out? Please talk to your classmates or parents. (Ask two or three students to talk about their feelings)
Health: This is a very painful choice. In fact, parents and teachers are indispensable. Finally, we should give up ourselves and keep our parents.
Woman: Mom, what a nice sentence.
Man: Dad, what a sincere name.
W: They care about and take care of us in life.
They urge and guide us to study.
W: They not only teach us to do things.
They often teach us how to be a man.
W: Let's listen to their true stories together. (Play piano music such as "To Alice" and "Mysterious Garden" as background music)
Living in Zhu Wei: My father is in heaven.
Dad! Did you have a good time in heaven? Daughter misses you! Are you lonely there? Do you feel cold? Daughter will light a fire for you, make you feel warm and let you find light in the dark! Dad, my girl likes to talk back to you sometimes, but she will always love you! Dad! I love you! Happy Father's Day! My girl is a good girl. Daughter 17 years old, has grown up. You take care of me and love me all my life. It's time for me to respect you, but my heartless illness brought you to heaven. Dad, you said you would love me forever! I believe. Dad, how are you doing in heaven? Don't worry, I will take good care of my mother. Dad, the girl wants you to be happy!
Gu Chunlin: Silent Love
I really don't know what words to use to express this love.
Seventeen years ago, I entered his world, loving, caring, caring and teaching. ...
He gave me all his love.
Dad, my daughter really wants to say to you: I love you!
If you are sick, you help me decoct medicine;
You accompany me to review after the exam;
When I fail, you comfort me and encourage me;
You praised my success and taught me not to be proud.
Remember that we make kites together and fly kites together;
Remember to wash dishes and wipe chopsticks together. ...
Dad, my daughter is really happy.
I am really happy every day with you.
The first time I learned to ride a bike, you picked me up and let you go without saying anything.
But you quietly let go of your hand, and I fell down and cried.
You said that failure is not terrible, but the pause after failure. ...
I believe.
You also told me that a family without love can't be a family, just as a body without soul can't be a person, as long as there is love in its heart.
I know you love me, your mother and this family.
For me, you taught me carefully, and for home, you ran around.
Seeing the silver hair crawling out of dad's head, I have an impulse to cry.
I know my father is old,
You said that the daughter's gift to her father was that her daughter was happy.
Dad, don't worry, because my daughter has love in her heart, so I will be very happy.
Dad, I also want to say to you, happy holidays, my daughter loves you! Forever! !
Happy holidays to all dads in the world! !
Xu Ying's I'm Proud of You
Yesterday, I couldn't close the window of my room. Afraid of catching cold at night, dad came to help me turn it off. He accidentally broke the cup and put it in his finger. My father didn't say it hurt. He turned off the light for me and told me to go to bed early.
I can't sleep for a long time, thinking that my father's hand will deal with water tomorrow. What if the wound doesn't close if it is inflamed?
When I was a child, my father loved me very much. Although he is sometimes strict with me, my childhood is also rich and colorful because of him. I made a mistake. My father always slaps me mercilessly. Sometimes I hate him, I hate him to death, and I hate how he got it. . . .
When I was in junior high school, I lived on campus and had less communication with my father. Although he comes to see me at school every week and brings me delicious food every time, he will let me take good care of myself. Sometimes I tell him that the exam is not ideal, and he won't scold me, so I feel very upset. Let me work hard and study hard. My future is in my own hands. Sometimes when I feel homesick, I will hide in bed and cry, afraid to tell my father, for fear that he will worry about me.
"Without me, he will be very happy and will reduce a lot of burdens." This is what dad said when he was angry. I asked him, "Then why did you give birth to me? It is enough to have a sister. " Father said, "Because I thought you were a little life, I couldn't bear to hurt you." I was very moved after listening to it. In those days, it was not easy for two children to go to school at the same time. I see.
Father's love is a towering mountain, a vast grassland, a burning sun, a rushing river, a heavy touch, an affectionate gaze, a book and a glass of wine.
Yesterday, I couldn't close the window of my room. Afraid of catching cold at night, dad came to help me turn it off. He accidentally broke the cup and put it in his finger. My father didn't say it hurt. He turned off the light for me and told me to go to bed early.
I can't sleep for a long time, thinking that my father's hand will deal with water tomorrow. What if the wound doesn't close if it is inflamed?
When I was a child, my father loved me very much. Although he is sometimes strict with me, my childhood is also rich and colorful because of him. I made a mistake. My father always slaps me mercilessly. Sometimes I hate him, I hate him to death, and I hate how he got it. . . .
When I was in junior high school, I lived on campus and had less communication with my father. Although he comes to see me at school every week and brings me delicious food every time, he will let me take good care of myself. Sometimes I tell him that the exam is not ideal, and he won't scold me, so I feel very upset. Let me work hard and study hard. My future is in my own hands. Sometimes when I feel homesick, I will hide in bed and cry, afraid to tell my father, for fear that he will worry about me.
"Without me, he will be very happy and will reduce a lot of burdens." This is what dad said when he was angry. I asked him, "Then why did you give birth to me? It is enough to have a sister. " Father said, "Because I thought you were a little life, I couldn't bear to hurt you." I was very moved after listening to it. In those days, it was not easy for two children to go to school at the same time. I see.
Father's love is a towering mountain, a vast grassland, a burning sun, a rushing river, a heavy touch, an affectionate gaze, a book and a glass of wine.
The whole classroom was silent, and all the children and teachers present were moved by these simple words. Both girls and boys bowed their heads silently, and tears could not help but stay.
W: Students, a greeting and a cup of hot tea.
M: A smile and a little progress are all silent expressions of love for parents.
Female: Students, please pick up the pens in our hands and write down our most sincere wishes to our father, so that this father wall can witness our love.
(Play "Dedication of Love", students stick their carefully made love cards on their father's wall, and colleagues and the whole class sing "Dedication of Love")
The following are some true confessions written to my father on the student greeting card:
Gu Jianing: Our family is very ordinary. My father and I have nothing to do. My father only comes back once a year. I have little communication with him, but my father is very strict with me. My father and I talk on the phone most of the time. My father will give me anything I want. I have been afraid of my father since I was a child, and sometimes I deliberately avoid him. But now, I don't know why, I talk to my father like a friend. I know when I grow up, I can understand his feelings and understand him. Father's Day is coming, I want to say to my father, "Dad, I love you!" " "
Xu Yi: Actually, I still like my father very much. Although he occasionally beats me and scolds me, he is really good to me and my mother. He is good at taking care of this family. . . . He will clean the house when he has time. He said he was uncomfortable looking at the mess at home. Ha ha! What a neat old man. My father doesn't smoke or drink, but drinks beer occasionally. There are always drinks and snacks at home, so I always like to stay at home on weekends. Because I like snacks. I like to eat the dishes cooked by my father. Asked. It's good. My father is really a housewife. I am proud to have such a father.
Speaking of dad, I should thank him very much. He usually takes care of me and always lives with my father. He has done a lot for me, too. I don't know where to thank him. I only silently wish him good health and hope that he can be happy all his life. You won't be worried and tired in the future. I was not sensible before, but now I know I am wrong. I will be obedient in the future.
Ding Lin: Dad, I want to say to you:
Dad, don't smoke, okay? Smoking is harmful to your health. Cigarettes contain nicotine, carbon monoxide and carbon dioxide. . . . And the smell of time will hurt the people you love.
Dad, I know your habit of smoking is equivalent to my habit of eating snacks, and I can't change it. Cigarettes contain a lot of toxic gases, which are not only bad for your health, but also affect others, making your lungs overwhelmed. We will also smoke second-hand smoke, which is more toxic than yourself. Maybe you don't know this. But I wrote this for your own good. It may be difficult for you to quit smoking at once, but you can smoke less every day. You used to smoke a few cigarettes a day, but now you smoke one less every day. Hang in there. I believe you will give up smoking completely and do other things to forget the horror of smoking, but you should also think about your health, Dad. Dad, daughter, please, smoke less. Do you know that?/You know what? Do you know that?/You know what? Because you smoke, all relatives of grandparents and mothers are worried about you, grandpa's advice, mom's urging, my hooligan. Dad, listen to mom and smoke less! !
I remember a few nights when I saw you arguing about smoking. Dad, you know what? How sad your daughter was when she saw it. I cried secretly, hiding in the quilt and comforting myself with a doll. Maybe you don't know how heartbroken I am and how much I hope to have a happy family. No quarrel, only joy, yes, only joy! !
Dad, because you smoke, I got what I didn't want-your quarrel with mom. Dad, you know what? I feel uneasy because you smoke. . . . . .
Dad, my dear good dad, don't smoke any more.
Love your daughter forever: Ding Lin.
Jiang Yan: Growing up, there were not many things between my father and me. When I was a child, my father was serious in my heart. He doesn't like laughing, but he loves me very much. Someone once said that I was my father's pet, because every time my father went on a business trip, I followed him. Dad will also take me to play. Now I think my father is a tree that will never fall, and I will always be protected by him.
But now, although I am old, sometimes I am still disobedient and sometimes I have contradictions with my father. Once it was really serious. My father was in a bad mood because of some things that day, and there was a conflict. It took a whole week to make it up. In fact, I was as angry as my dad. I didn't get angry for more than three minutes, but no one wanted to bow their heads first. Now every time I think about it, I feel guilty. I knew that I had made a mistake. Aren't my parents working hard every day? I made you angry, and I have grown a lot in this matter. I believe I won't do such impulsive things again.
Seeing this earthquake, there is too much selfless love. I want to cherish this love. In fact, isn't the most important thing in this world family? Family members will comfort us when we are hurt and encourage us when we encounter setbacks. . . .
Cao: Dad, you are the pillar of the family. You work hard to support this family. You never say you are tired. You are willing to pay for this family and our sisters.
Father, I have always been proud of you because you are strong. I remember one night, because I was very disobedient, my mother said a few words to me, and I was unbalanced, so I replied a few words. My mother said sadly, "You are still so disobedient. Your father is ill, and he can't bear to see a doctor for both of you. " When I heard this, I don't know why tears came down from my eyes. Cry very sadly. I glanced at my mother inadvertently and found that she was crying, too. I felt unspeakable sadness. I couldn't sleep that night. A few days later, when I came home from school, I saw my father lying in bed so haggard, curled up in a ball and covering his hat with his hand. I knew he was in pain, but when he saw me, he smiled and said, "You're back." Dad, you don't have to hide it from me. Do you know that?/You know what? Do you know that?/You know what? After all, I am your daughter 17 years. I can at least understand how you feel. A simple sentence contains too much love for you. Turn my back, I cried again.
Dad, there are some words I can't express to you in words, because there is a lack of communication between us. Let me pray for you silently in my heart every day. Dad wishes you health and happiness! Dad, I love you and always will!
Wei Dinghua: I had a serious illness when I was a child. It was my father's love for me that pulled me back from death. I still remember that when I fainted from time to time, my father had no choice but to stay by my side often, just in time for the New Year's Eve, so that my father could not have a good year. I remember another time, I fainted for a long time. My father was so anxious that he hugged me, held the car in one hand and rode to the hospital quickly. In the hospital, my father has been sitting by my bed waiting for me to wake up. I stayed in the hospital for a year. My father's love for me is meticulous, but I don't know how to love my father and make him angry all day. Father's Day is coming, and my son wants to say to you, "Dad, my son loves you!" " "
Without sunshine, there would be no warm days. Without rain and dew, there would be no bumper harvest; Without water, there is no life; Without parents, there would be no ourselves; Without affection, friendship and love, the world would be lonely and dark. These are simple truths that no one will understand, but we often lack a grateful heart and psychology.
Woman: Cherish the people around you. The reason why you didn't feel that grateful heart is because you didn't really feel it. You won't realize it until the people around you leave you, but it's really too late. Life is too short. Don't leave regrets.
M: Be grateful to those who gave birth to you, because they let you experience life;
W: Be grateful to the people who raised you, because they make you grow.
M: Be grateful to those who helped you, because they helped you through the difficulties.
Woman: Be grateful to those who care about you, because they give you warmth.
M: Be grateful to those who encourage you, because they give you strength.
Woman: Be grateful to those who educate you, because they educate your ignorance.
M: Be grateful to the person who hurt you, because he honed your mind;
Woman: Be grateful to the person who tripped you, because he strengthened your legs;
M: Be grateful to the person who cheated you, because he enhanced your wisdom;
Woman: Be grateful to those who despise you, because they awaken your self-esteem;
M: Be grateful to the person who abandoned you, because he taught you independence.
Woman: I appreciate everything. Learn to be grateful.
M: Thank everyone who makes you grow up!
Wang: Let's welcome President Gao's speech with warm applause.
Student:
You held a good theme class meeting, and the teachers present seemed to see that the students had grown a lot in their feelings. Not long ago, I wrote an article entitled "I am really not a person" on my blog, saying that I am often moved to tears by some things. Today, I am really moved by your deep affection for my father again. Thank you!
Students, father is one of the most important people in our life. They are the sky at home and the mountains in children's hearts. Their love may not be warm, but it is deep and heavy. Fatherly love is a silent force, because it is such a force that lifts us up in the blue sky bit by bit and pushes us to spread our wings and fly. Fatherly love is a silent force. It is precisely because of this silence that they are often the people who silently bless us behind our backs.
The sunshine in May is like a mother's tenderness; In the scorching sun in June, my father was strict. The same is love, but love is colorful-maternal love is like water, father love is like a mountain, and teacher love is seamless. We are immersed in the ocean of love and we live in a happy society. Just now, you made an unanswerable choice. For us, there are many important and indispensable people and things in life, such as silly children, motherland, parents, brothers, teachers and friends-none of us are indispensable.
Students, we are young eagles, one day we will leave our mother's warm arms, one day we will leave our father's mountain backbone, and one day we will hold up our blue sky. But today, what do we give to those who love us?
Good children of parents, good students of teachers, good children of the party, study hard and serve the motherland-this is the resounding answer we deserve! This is a topic, a subject. We should use the practice of our lives to answer.
Children, thank you for giving me a chance to speak.
Wang: I suggest that you thank President Gao for his wonderful speech with warm applause again.
M: My father loves me like a mountain, and the theme class meeting of true confession is over here.
Qi: Thank you for coming. Happy Father's Day to all fathers in the world!
Three. Teaching reflection
Through this class meeting, I touched my classmates and all the teachers and leaders present, which had a good influence on the children. Children begin to learn to be grateful and understand their parents, teachers and classmates. People get along with each other with more tolerance and understanding. After the activity, the children dried their tears and started a new life. Everything is changing quietly, without anyone's warning. Those who used to love labor or those who didn't love labor later took the initiative to clean the classroom and clean up the venue, and everything seemed so harmonious. The next day's weeding activity, I can't forget that scene, it was so touching. It rained heavily that day, and there were many weeds in the area we contracted. Originally, the school asked for weeding yesterday afternoon, but everyone was busy preparing for this special class meeting, so it was postponed to today, but it was raining heavily outside. What should I do? In the afternoon, we will go back to our holiday. Girls volunteered to open umbrellas, and boys even rushed into the rain. I'm worried that the children will catch a cold, so let them wait until the rain subsides before continuing weeding! Do you know what some students say? They said, we should experience the hard work of mom and dad in the rain! Everyone seems to be more conscious in study and work and rest than before. There are no more quarrels and fights between classmates, but more understanding and tolerance. There are few people who contradict teachers and parents in class.
1, successful
Through this activity, students re-recognize their father's love for themselves and feel the greatness of their father's dear. I began to learn to understand and care about my father.
Children begin to learn to be grateful and understand their parents, teachers and classmates. People get along with each other with more tolerance and understanding.
Step 2 fail
Lack of follow-up motivation, some naughty students began to be unable to persist after being moved for a good period of time and began to give up.
3. Improvement measures
In order to ensure that the students' touch can last longer, let the shock of the mind spur the children's behavior for a long time. For example, after a while, we can hold another class meeting with the theme of "Dad smiled", so that Dad can always watch our growth and change, and let a grateful heart live in my heart forever.