So, how to keep yourself away from jealousy and have a healthy attitude?
1. Establish a correct outlook on life
Be generous, and be generous to others. Like ourselves, everyone has a desire for success. When we succeed, we must also respect the achievements and talents of others.
2. Correct evaluation of success
With the correct values about success, we can affirm others' achievements when they have achievements, learn with an open mind, catch up and be proud of our own success.
3. Evaluate others' achievements correctly
Jealousy is often caused by misunderstanding, that is, when people have achieved something, they mistakenly think it is a denial of themselves. In fact, a person's success has paid a lot of hardships and huge costs. People give him praise and honor, which doesn't hurt you or hinder your success.
4. Correct evaluation of competition
Nowadays, competition is everywhere in society. When you see others surpass you in some ways, don't stare at others' achievements and resent them, but actively look for the reasons for others' success, so as to make yourself progress faster.
5. Improve mental health.
Being able to evaluate yourself objectively and find true happiness are all ways to stay away from jealousy.
Vent oneself
When there is temporary psychological imbalance and jealousy, it is best to correct your mentality through correct self-understanding and objective evaluation. If you can't solve it, you can also vent it appropriately. You can find a close friend and relative, and say enough to vent.
Tips
Sometimes, others' success is based on their own characteristics or strengths. And maybe we are not good at this. At this time, we should learn to appreciate the advantages of others, instead of having to be like him.