Children's ability to withstand pressure is poor, how should parents cultivate them?

Recently, I saw two incidents in which students committed suicide by jumping off a building on the Internet. One is that a college student was confiscated by the teacher because of cheating in the examination room, and he was embarrassed to jump off the building. A pupil committed suicide by jumping off a building after plagiarism was pointed out by the teacher. These two things will undoubtedly not make people feel heartache. Two vivid lives, just because of some small things, disappeared from the world. It can also be seen that modern children's ability to withstand pressure is very poor. I think in this case, parents should pay close attention to their children's mental health and give them psychological counseling regularly.

First, the child's ability to withstand pressure is poor. The recent incident in which a primary school student jumped to his death has aroused widespread concern in society. The name of the pupil in the incident is Kexin. According to the report, it can be seen that Kexin wrote a composition full of negative energy, and the teacher marked many red comments on the composition. And write a sentence to spread positive energy. On the surface, there is no causal relationship between teachers and students, which leads students to jump off a building after commenting on their compositions, which makes people question the teachers' teaching methods. We don't judge who is right or wrong here. Just looking at the fact that students jump off a building can show that teenagers are extremely resistant to stress.

Second, how parents can cultivate their children's ability to resist stress. The reason why students jump off a building is because their emotions have reached the breaking point instantly and there is no channel to release them, so they have the idea of suicide, which is actually a manifestation of poor pressure resistance. Parents are the children's first 1 teacher, and they are both relatives and friends. Therefore, parents should pay more attention to their children's mental health development and realize that although they are only children, they also have self-esteem. Therefore, we should pay attention to maintaining their self-esteem in daily life and don't criticize them too much. And do psychological counseling with your child regularly, convey your love to your child and make him believe that the world is beautiful.

Third, pay attention to children's mental health. Paying attention to children's mental health is not only the responsibility of parents, but also the general public. With the rapid development of society, it is not only adults who are under pressure. Even children are prone to regrettable results because of their weak consciousness and poor ability to resist pressure.