1. Take the initiative to express gratitude in time to show sincerity.
2. Be honest and trustworthy, and never compromise on promises.
3, according to different objects, choose the appropriate way and method.
4, to grasp the degree of gratitude, and strive to be reasonable and appropriate.
5. Chinese New Year: I wish my elders, relatives and friends a happy New Year.
6. When mom and dad went out, they said, I wish mom and dad a safe journey and a smooth work.
7. Mom and Dad went out and said, "Mom and Dad are back. It's hard work.
8. When I say goodbye to my family: Don't worry, I will take good care of myself. If you are away from home for a long time, you should write or call to greet your family.
9. Greet your parents and elders when you go home.
Table manners
(1) At home:
1, please sit down first.
2. After the elder takes the bowl chopsticks first, he takes the bowl chopsticks himself.
3. When drinking soup, swallow your mouth, shut up and chew, chew slowly and try not to make a sound.
When eating, hold chopsticks in one hand and bowl in the other.
5, do not knock on the bowl, do not pee, do not pick vegetables.
6. When others add food to themselves, they should say "thank you". Say "thank you, I really don't need it" when you don't need it.
7. Take the initiative to add dishes to the elders.
8. Eat first and then "eat slowly".
9. After eating, help parents clean up the dishes and scrub the dining table.
2. Pupils' knowledge of civilization and etiquette
Pupils' etiquette, etiquette, poetry and nursery rhymes, prepare songs before class, hurry into the classroom, put books and pencil boxes on the table, stand up, sit up straight, don't sway, don't make small moves, attend classes, raise your hand first, answer loudly, learn to be disciplined, and be a good student-get used to the "three-character song". Pupils should be filial to their parents and use it when meeting foreign guests. Return things to their owners, don't pick and eat, cherish food, save electricity and water, love cleanliness, often take a bath and brush your teeth, be polite to teachers, and form a good habit of everyone praising me for raising the national flag. Play the national anthem and raise the national flag on the playground. Everyone will pay attention to the Young Pioneers' parade. Children should look at the national flag with serious eyes Stand up straight and don't shake. Sing the national anthem loudly. When they grow up, they will build a more beautiful motherland. Children should know that myopia is not convenient to do things. It is not difficult to prevent myopia. They should sit up straight when reading carefully. When writing, they should do it consciously. Don't read in the sun, don't read in the car, don't sleep in bed, remember not to read, remember that myopia prevention will be successful in your heart, and everyone praises learning and working, civilized etiquette songs. As we all know, polite expressions should be remembered.
Treat elders with "you", say "good morning" when you meet in the morning, and ask each other "good" at ordinary times. Don't forget to say goodbye. If you ask for help, please say "please" first. Finally, don't forget to say "thank you" to influence others. Please say "it doesn't matter" when you answer.
Be a civilized boy, and everyone will praise you first. Although it is important to learn first, it is better to be polite.
Observe the school rules and be polite when meeting the teacher. Students should get along well with each other, and friendship is held tightly by small hands.
Take care of public property, rest assured, and establish a new style. I will do it. Folk song 3: civilized riding song Students, remember to line up when getting on and off.
Get in the car, don't run around, and get some change for the ticket. In the carriage, don't make any noise, be quiet and orderly.
Don't grab a seat if you have one. Old people and children will take care of it. When you get off the bus, you won't be crowded, and you will easily fall down if you delay time.
Be civilized, be polite, and go to school happily. Folk song 4: Everyone praised the little white rabbit for being polite. He crossed the small bridge and went to see it. Alas, grandpa goat came and waddled across the bridge
White rabbit, run back and stand by the bridge and wave. "Grandfather, please go first, step by step.
"The river smiled, and the fish jumped up and down, praising the little white rabbit for being polite. Ballad 5: The beautiful teaching building on campus is really lively.
Willow is green and flowers are beautiful. Students, jump and jump.
Be polite. Say hello to the teacher.
Say hello to your classmates. Take care of the environment and make new moves.
If there is rubbish, someone will deal with it. When you see waste paper, bend down and pick it up.
Protecting the environment is everyone's responsibility. The campus is beautiful, full of laughter, songs of civilization and etiquette, 60 cents, a drop of sweat, earned by parents.
Students, cherish and use every penny. Good morning, good noon, say goodbye after school in the afternoon, say hello when you meet, don't ignore it, and be a civilized and sensible boy.
It's easier said than done, but it's harder said than done. Students should keep their word and work hard. I am a pupil in zhang wan Center, and I abide by good moral habits.
Smile politely, be honest and trustworthy, be grateful, study hard, make progress, be a good student since childhood, and make contributions to the country when you grow up. Ballad 7: Civilized image etiquette New nursery rhymes salute when raising the national flag and stand up when singing the national anthem.
When meeting foreign guests, be enthusiastic, behave in a civilized manner and dress appropriately. After-school life is fun and I won't go to bad places.
Shopping by car stresses order, and civilized terms are in mind. Speak softly in public places and be a civilized pupil.
Friendly, tolerant, sensible, frank, and establish a new style. Be filial to parents, respect teachers, help others and tell the truth.
Save water and electricity, save resources and care for public facilities. Don't litter, create a good environment.
Follow the rules when driving, and stop at the red light. Be civilized, observe etiquette, and everyone strives to be a good child.
Good conduct, once cultivated, will benefit for life and be popular. Civilized etiquette song Eight Young Pioneers should be civilized and polite.
Sing nursery rhymes to school and say hello to the teacher first. It is most important for students to say early when they meet.
To enter the school, you should take the sidewalk, playground and runway. Don't go up and down the stairs, obey the rules and lean to the right.
When you see scraps of paper bending over, don't forget to protect the environment. Listen to the teacher in class, stay on topic, speak actively and think seriously.
Don't chase or fight after class, just play in a civilized way. Students should not bully the weak, but should have a good school spirit of unity and friendship.
Good school spirit! Courtesy and etiquette songs line up * * * and be calm and energetic to do exercises. Stand at attention, raise the national flag and sing the national anthem together.
Be fully prepared during the break, concentrate on the lecture and use your head more. Read more books to increase your knowledge and hand in your homework on time.
Remember reading and writing posture and do eye exercises. Activities between classes should be civilized, happy and fatigue-free.
Don't run up and down the stairs, speak softly and don't shout. Civilized dining increases nutrition and cherishes food without dumping.
Wash your hands before and after meals and do good personal hygiene. Bend over when you see garbage, and don't let scraps of paper fly about.
Keep your word, tell the truth, be honest, modest and not proud. Traffic safety is the most important, always remember.
Do your own thing, honor your elders and be pragmatic. It is good to be polite when meeting foreign guests.
Remember to be polite when riding, and don't forget to be polite. Zhang Xiaoying is ambitious and will take off tomorrow to see the present.
Ballad 10: clap your hands. You shoot one, I shoot one. Campus civilization understands etiquette. You shoot two, I shoot two, and the students help each other.
You shoot three, I shoot three, and do your own thing. You shoot four, I shoot four, you can't do things alone.
You clap five and I rank five, polite, honest and easy to get along with. You shoot six, I shoot six, and the code of conduct should be observed.
You clap seven, I clap seven, and remember mutual help and friendship. You clap eight, I clap eight, and everyone respects the teacher.
You shoot nine, I'm afraid of nine, and civilized language never leaves my mouth. You shoot ten, I shoot ten. Be polite.
The Song of Civilization and Etiquette 11. Understand civilization and attach importance to etiquette. The teachers and students of the whole school set out together. Salute when raising the national flag and stand up when singing the national anthem.
Hospitality should be warm, civilized and well dressed. Friendly, tolerant, sensible, frank, and establish a new style.
Save resources, save water and electricity, and take good care of public property. I'm interested in learning and won't go to bad places.
In life, you know the rules, have a kind attitude and get together. Cultivate school spirit, strengthen school discipline, and keep elegance and civilization in mind.
Look at each other, smile and talk politely. Filial piety to parents.
3. Common sense of daily etiquette
Contemporary etiquette code 1. Now the general address etiquette is roughly as follows: a man is called "sir"; If a woman is married, she is called "madam" or "lady"; Unmarried, called "Miss"; Those who are not sure about their marriage are called "ladies".
2. Shake hands with your right hand, don't wear gloves and sunglasses to shake hands with others, and don't put your other hand in your pocket when shaking hands. 3. The handshake sequence should follow the principle of reaching out first, that is, the elder shakes hands with the younger generation, and the elder reaches out first; Men shake hands with women, and women reach out first.
However, when the guest shakes hands with the host, although the guest is distinguished, when the guest arrives, in order to welcome him, the host should first extend his hand; When you leave, in order to express your gratitude, the guest should reach out first. 4. When introducing others, the order of introduction should follow the principle of respecting the prophet.
For example, when the middleman introduces A and B (A is the elder and B is the younger generation), first introduce B (the younger generation) to A (the elder), so that the elder can predict the information of the younger generation. For example, Xiao Wang is an employee of a company. In a meeting between the boss and the customer, Wang Yaoxian Jr. introduced the boss of the company to the customer (because the customer is a respected person and has the priority to know).
5. When handing a business card to others, you'd better get up and stand up, step forward, and hand it to the other party with your hands or right hand (don't turn the back of the business card to the other party or face down). When handing someone a business card, you should show it orally.
You can say: "Please give me more advice", "Take care of me", "Keep in touch in the future", "Let's get to know each other", or introduce yourself first. 6. When accepting another person's business card, you should immediately stop everything you do, get up and stand, and look at the other person with a smile.
Hold it with both hands or right hand. "When you take a business card, you must read it first." This is very important. It takes about half a minute to read the business card carefully and silently from beginning to end after receiving it.
7. If there is nothing urgent, don't call anyone before 7 am and after 10 in the evening. It is best to control the call time within three minutes.
Talk about important topics first when talking. Honorable people hang up the phone first.
8. Seven principles of answering the phone: identify yourself, indicate your purpose, address your name, listen carefully, take notes, repeat, thank you/say goodbye. All incoming calls must be answered within three rings.
If you answer the phone more than three times for special reasons, you should apologize immediately: "I'm sorry for keeping you waiting!" " "9. The mobile phone should be put in the briefcase (the most formal statement) or in the coat pocket. 10. When filling the letter, be sure to push it to the top of the envelope and keep a distance of about 1 cm from the envelope seal to prevent damage when opening the letter.
1 1. Sitting posture: When sitting, you only sit half or two thirds of the chair. When a man is sitting, if necessary, he can cross his legs, usually with his right leg on his left leg, but never shake his toes.
When a woman sits, her knees must be close together and her heels must be close together. Sit from the left side of the chair when sitting.
12. Try to stay to the right and don't walk in the middle; Nod and salute when meeting customers and superiors; When walking to the door with customers and superiors, you should take the initiative to open the door and let them go first. 13. Staff, customers and elders should take the elevator first; When getting off the elevator, the staff should get off the elevator.
14. When going upstairs, the elders are in front and the younger generation is behind; Ladies in front, men in the back; The guests are in the front and the staff are in the back. When going downstairs, the man is in front and the woman is behind; The younger generation is in front, and the elders are behind; The staff is in front and the guests are in the back.
15. In China's government etiquette, leftists are respected; In business etiquette, propriety is the most important. 16. Three-color principle of men's dress etiquette: It is best for men to wear clothes with more than three colors in formal business occasions.
Trinity law: shoes, belts and briefcases should be kept in one color (mostly black). Wear a short shirt, not a tie.
The lower end of the tie should be at the upper end of the belt buckle. Don't hang anything on a man's belt.
17. Ladies should wear standard leather shoes when wearing suits and skirts (standard leather shoes: men refer to black leather shoes with laces, and women refer to boat-shaped leather shoes with black half-high heels). No exposure in formal occasions: no breasts, no shoulders (sleeveless clothes), no waist, no back, no toes and no heels.
18. Generally, hold chopsticks with your right hand, and hold about one third of the upper part (thick head) of chopsticks with your thumb, forefinger and middle finger. 19. Don't pick up a bowl to eat, especially don't pick up a bowl to eat with both hands.
When eating the food in the bowl, you should use chopsticks and spoons as an aid. Don't pour it directly into your mouth, and don't suck it with any tableware. 20. Western dinner order: appetizer, soup, side dishes (white meat with white wine), main course (red meat with red wine), dessert, fruit and hot drinks.
22. There are generally two ways to use knives and forks for reference: English and American. English: When eating, you always hold a knife in your right hand and a fork in your left hand, and eat with a fork while cutting.
American: first cut all the food in the plate with the right knife and the left fork, then put the right knife in front of the plate obliquely, and change the left fork into the right one before eating. 23. If the diner is talking to others, he should put down his knife and fork for a while.
Put the knife and fork on the plate in a figure of eight, with the knife edge inward and the fork teeth downward. This dish has not been used up.
But be careful not to put it in a cross. If you finish eating, or don't want to eat any more, you can put the knife edge inward, the fork teeth upward, and the right fork of the knife is vertical side by side.
24. Western food often has multiple pairs of knives and forks. When using, the knife and fork should be taken from outside to inside in turn. 25. The purpose of napkin ① is to wash clothes.
2 used to wipe your mouth. Wipe your mouth gently with a napkin before talking to people while eating.
Before a lady eats, she can also gently print her mouth with a napkin to remove lipstick. When wiping your mouth with a napkin, its position should generally be fixed, and it is best to use only its inside.
Usually don't wipe your face with a napkin, and try to avoid wiping your hands. Pay special attention not to wipe the dishes with napkins.
(3) used to cover your mouth and shame. (4) used for tips.
The most common hints are divided into three types: one is the hint at the beginning of a meal. When the hostess spreads out the napkin, it is equivalent to announcing that the meal can begin.
Second, it implies that the meal is finished. When the host, especially the hostess, puts the napkin on the table, it is intended to announce the end of the meal. Please forgive me.
4. Basic knowledge of civilized etiquette
Etiquette is the minimum moral standard that human beings require people to abide by in order to maintain the normal life of society. It is gradually formed in people's long-term life and communication and is fixed by customs and traditions.
For a person, etiquette is the external expression of a person's ideological and moral level, cultural literacy and communicative competence. For a society, etiquette is a reflection of a country's social civilization, moral fashion and living habits. Paying attention to and developing etiquette education has become an important content of moral practice.
? The content of etiquette education covers all aspects of social life. From the content point of view, there are appearance, behavior, expression, clothing, speech, treating people and so on; From the object, there are personal etiquette, public etiquette, hospitality etiquette, table etiquette, gift etiquette, civilized communication and so on.
The code of conduct in the process of interpersonal communication is called etiquette, and the performance of etiquette in speech action is called politeness. To strengthen moral practice, we should pay attention to etiquette, so that people can communicate with each other on the principle of "respecting others, self-discipline, moderation and sincerity" and bid farewell to uncivilized words and deeds.
? Etiquette, etiquette and politeness are rich and varied, but each has its own regularity. Its basic etiquette principles are: first, the principle of respecting people; Second, the principle of self-discipline, that is, self-denial, prudence, initiative, voluntariness, courtesy, self-comparison, self-reflection, self-demand, self-discipline, self-control, arrogance, duplicity; The third is the principle of moderation, moderation and control; Fourth, the principle of sincerity, treat people sincerely, treat people sincerely, don't take part in accidental amusement, and behave differently. ? First, personal etiquette? (1) instrument? Instrument refers to a person's appearance, which is the external expression of a person's mental outlook.
A person's hygiene habits and clothes are closely related to the formation and maintenance of a dignified and generous appearance? 1. Hygiene: Cleanliness is the key to beautiful appearance and the basic requirement of etiquette. No matter how beautiful clothes and luxurious clothes are, if the whole body is covered with dirt and smell, it will inevitably destroy a person's aesthetic feeling.
Therefore, everyone should develop good hygiene habits, wash their faces and feet after going to bed and getting up, brush their teeth in the morning and evening and after meals, wash their hair and bathe frequently, pay attention to neatness and change clothes frequently. Don't "clean personal hygiene" in front of people.
For example, picking teeth, picking nostrils, digging ear wax, manicure, rubbing dirt and so on. These behaviors should be avoided, otherwise, it is not only unsightly, but also disrespectful to others. When talking with people, keep a certain distance, don't speak too loudly, and don't splash on the population.
? 2. Clothing: Clothing reflects a person's cultural quality and aesthetic taste. Specifically, it is necessary to be natural, decent, harmonious and generous, and to abide by some established norms or principles.
Clothing should not only adapt to its own specific conditions, but also always pay attention to the dress requirements of objective environment and occasions, that is, dress should give priority to time, place and purpose, and strive to keep in harmony with time, place and purpose in all aspects of dress. ? (2) Can you talk? As an art, speech is also an important part of personal etiquette.
? 1, courtesy: be sincere and kind; The sound size should be appropriate, and the tone should be peaceful and calm; Respect others. ? 2. Terminology: honorifics, words expressing respect and courtesy.
Such as "please", "thank you" and "sorry" in daily use, and the word "you" in the second person's address. The first meeting was "long heard"; Long time no see; Please criticize it as "teaching"; Trouble others call it "disturbing"; Seeking convenience is "borrowing light"; Ask people to do things, such as "please".
Efforts should be made to form the habit of using honorifics. At present, the polite expressions advocated in China are ten words: "hello", "please", "thank you", "sorry" and "goodbye".
These ten words embody the basic language form of speaking civilization. ? (3) etiquette? 1, Conversation posture: Conversation posture often reflects a person's character, cultivation and civilized quality.
Therefore, when talking, both sides should face each other squarely and listen to each other first. They should not look around, read books and newspapers, look tired and yawn. Otherwise, it will give people the impression of being absent-minded and arrogant.
? 2, standing posture: standing posture is the most basic posture of people, is a static beauty. When standing, the body should be perpendicular to the ground, the center of gravity should be placed on the palms of the two front feet, and the shoulders should be relaxed.
Arms naturally droop or cross in front of the body, eyes straight and smiling. Don't bend your neck, waist and legs when standing. In some formal occasions, it is not advisable to put your hands in your trouser pockets or cross your chest, let alone make some small moves unconsciously. This will not only appear stiff, give people a feeling of lack of self-confidence, but also lose the dignity of etiquette.
? 3, sitting posture: sitting is also a static shape. A dignified and elegant sitting posture will give people an elegant, steady and natural aesthetic feeling.
The correct sitting posture should be: straight back and relaxed shoulders. Women should put their knees together; Male knees can be separated, but not too big, generally not more than shoulder width.
Put your hands naturally on your knees or on the armrests of your chair. On formal occasions, you should be gentle when you sit down, dignified and steady when you get up, and you can't rattle tables and chairs and create an embarrassing atmosphere.
No matter what sitting posture, the upper body should be kept straight, as the ancients said, "sitting like a clock." If you insist on this, no matter how you change your posture, it will be beautiful and natural.
? 4. Walking posture: Walking is the main action in people's life, and walking posture is a dynamic beauty. "Walking like the wind" means using popular water to describe a brisk and natural gait.
The correct walking posture is: light and steady, chest raised, shoulders relaxed, eyes looking straight, smiling, swinging arms naturally. ? Second, meet etiquette? 1, shake hands: shaking hands is an important way to communicate ideas, exchange feelings and enhance friendship.
When shaking hands with others, look at them with a smile, don't be absent-minded, look around, and don't shake hands with others with a hat and gloves. Under normal circumstances, the handshake time should not exceed 3 seconds, and you must stand and shake hands to show respect and courtesy to others.
? Shaking hands also pays attention to a certain order: generally speaking, it pays attention to "honour person's decision", that is, after ladies, elders, married people and people with high status reach out, men, juniors, unmarried people and people with low status can reach out and respond. If a person wants to shake hands with many people, it is polite.
5. tips on civilization
Pure humanistic feelings set off a new campus (library)
For your good image, please line up in turn. (canteen)
"I wish I were white, but Zhidao doesn't want me to be' beautiful'" (about the wall)
"Cleaner, quieter, more polite and happier" (in the classroom)
"I help you protect your eyes and you help me protect my body" (about lighting)
"If you want me to be beautiful, please don't send me" delicious "(about the land)
If you want to study hard, give me a bath (about the blackboard)
Don't let my body be black and blue. (reading room)
Health means everything. (Gymnasium) The grass is green and the first step is compassion.
The grass smiles slightly, please walk around.
Yin Yin Cao Fang, how can you stand it?
The grass is growing, please don't disturb it.
Cherish the green grass and cherish the grass, and don't treat it lightly.
It's a pity to step on the green carpet. Why not take a few more steps?
The lawn clearly says: I am your classmate, please take care of me.
I am also a life, please be merciful.
Please take good care of this green land under the blue sky.
Protect the environment with both hands and clean the campus with your heart.
Spiritual civilization cannot be trampled on.
Greening the campus and educating people.
People protect green, and green protects people.
Have pity on the flowers at hand and the grass at your feet. (lawn)
Please use your hand to soothe my sad eyes (hot water room).
"I have been to the seaside and walked through the stream. I am afraid of everyone and don't cherish me" (about the faucet)