What if a 3-year-old child has a big temper? Children are naive and lively, and can't control their behaviors and emotions. Some children are born docile, while others are born strong and stubborn. It is difficult to control their temper. What if a 3-year-old child has a big temper?
What if a 3-year-old child has a big temper? 1 1. Discipline is not punishment.
Children are always making mistakes, being naughty and having a big temper. Parents of children should know what causes their children to make mistakes, or they may be grumpy and disobedient because of their children's grease or jealousy. Parents should spend more time with their children, read books and play together, and establish a good parent relationship, so as to further educate their children. Children who are disobedient and grumpy can prescribe the right medicine, know what their children want and make a good plan, which can prevent them from being disobedient and grumpy.
2. Cold treatment is very important.
The child is very clever. When he lost his temper, he was also observing his parents' emotions. If you are spoiled, then children will continue to lose their temper without restraint. Therefore, parents also need appropriate cold treatment to solve it. You can't spoil your children blindly, but you will lose more than you gain. If the child doesn't listen to your advice, you can calm him down. When the child is sensible, he will not lose his temper, and then he will reason with the child afterwards to further improve the child's temper problem.
3. Food regulates personality
A child's temper is related to his diet. If children lack some nutrients, they are prone to mental stress and irritability. For example, magnesium deficiency is easy to be nervous, and parents can let their children eat more foods containing magnesium in their daily lives. Dark foods such as milk, bean products and bananas can prevent bad temper.
What if a 3-year-old child has a big temper? 2 1. Don't blame the child, comfort him. At this time, children can't control their emotions and behaviors, and they will lose their temper when they do something wrong or meet their partner's rivalry. At this time, as an adult, don't blame the children too much. Even if the child does something wrong, comfort him first and point out the mistake.
2. Communicate and talk with children slowly. When the child has excessive behavior, hold it and have heart-to-heart talk with the child. After the child recovers his emotions, he can be accompanied by toys or food, and the child will easily forget his troubles.
How to cultivate a good-natured baby?
1, which can divert the baby's attention. Children are more likely to lose their temper and cry. Children can use toys or food to attract attention when they are unhappy.
2. Don't indulge the baby's temper. Don't pamper the baby when he loses his temper. Seek comfort and know the situation in time, so that the baby will say it when he is unhappy in the future.
3, analyze the baby's personality and temper, don't blame too much, the baby's personality and temper parents know, so don't blame too much when the baby is about to lose his temper, and talk to the baby with gentle words after understanding the situation.
It is a child's nature to be unable to control his temper. Children will be in a bad mood because of a little thing. When a baby with a big temper is in a bad mood, parents should not over-criticize, let alone take a beating to make the child yield. They can comfort their children and ask about the situation, which will also help them form a good habit of talking to their parents.
What if a 3-year-old child has a big temper? Understand the reason why he lost his temper.
Some children had a bad temper and a gentle personality, but then they suddenly became angry, so we should find out the reason. Some are because of changes in family relationships, such as the absence or change of people who have been accompanying children, which leads to children's bad mood. Or parents keep their children at home all day, which makes them feel depressed. Part of it is because children are not feeling well and parents ignore them, so children tend to lose their temper. Part of it is because children's relatives spoil them too much, and so on. In short, we should find the reasons first, and then start education.
People with children should pay attention to their emotional control.
The so-called lead by example is the truth. The person who takes care of the child is the person who can influence the child's character most. You say that you can't control your emotions and get angry easily, or that couples often quarrel in front of children, then children will definitely learn to get angry easily and vent their dissatisfaction once and for all. In the final analysis, it's not the child's fault, it's all your own words and deeds. Then you must pay attention to control your emotions and don't let the children follow you.
Let the children say it when they are emotional.
Some children have a big temper and are completely "forced" out by their parents. Children, no matter how young, will also have their own thinking ability, and should also have their own views and ideas. However, on weekdays, parents take care of their children too much, and it is difficult for them to meet any requirements. They must be forced to accept according to the wishes of adults. In this way, after a long time, can children not be "depressed"? Can you have no opinion? Then it is understandable that you have a big temper and show great performance. Therefore, when the child has a big temper, you should reflect on yourself, and don't let the child say it easily when the child is emotional.
Actively guide children to talk to you.
This is a good way to solve the child's big temper and love to lose his temper, and it is also a necessary communication between parents and children. Speaking of which, I have to be fair to some children. Many parents don't know their children at all. Although they are parents who take care of their children's food, clothing, housing and transportation every day, they seem to have a lot on their minds, but they really don't understand their true inner personality and thoughts. Because time is used to make money, to think and to pay for family and children. In fact, think about it, what's the use of more money? If the child has an unhealthy heart and a bad personality, how much money can he save? Parents regularly guide their children to talk to themselves and express their thoughts, even if they have any opinions about their parents, so that children will not pay attention to losing their temper.
Spend more time with your children and don't ignore them.
Not long ago, I visited the student apartment in the baby school for a few days, and I was deeply impressed by a child. Children's family is very good, food and clothing are famous brands, and they can spend as much as they want every day. However, the children have been skipping classes and playing with a group of friends in the internet cafe until midnight at night. Every time I get a phone call from my parents, I don't say a word of dirty words. I just lost my temper with my parents and then slammed the phone. And that child and I are chatting every day, talking about our own worries. Later, I learned that the children's parents are desperately making money every day. Grandparents took care of the children when they were young, and the children were angry, so their temper became bigger and bigger. Reality tells us that what children lack most is not money. Children from poor families can still be healthy and happy. What children want most is the company of their parents.
Don't let children challenge your "bottom line"
Children also have their own ideas. The first person they worship is their parents. In the eyes of children, parents are omnipotent. However, with the growth of age, children begin to have their own thinking ability, and they will feel that their parents' image has changed and they are no longer omnipotent giants, so children will challenge their parents' bottom line in various ways. For example, the temper is getting bigger and bigger and willful. At this time, parents should distinguish clearly. If the child intentionally loses his temper willfully, he must stop it in time and explain it to the child, so that the child can know that growth is not a way to lose his temper, but a way to restrain his behavior.
When a child loses his temper, give him time to calm down.
Parents are usually surprised when their children lose their temper. They think that smart children have changed, or their authority as parents has been challenged, so they will immediately spoil their children and lose their temper, teach them a lesson or scold them loudly, and some may even beat them. The appearance of your behavior will greatly shorten the time for the child to lose his temper next time, and it will also lead to the child's temper getting bigger and bigger. When the child suddenly loses his temper or is angry, you should leave the child alone. One is to calm the child down, and the other is to be a small warning to the child. You can also choose to hug your child and let him feel your love for him, then he will definitely reflect on his behavior.
If the child's personality changes greatly, we should pay attention to the child's physical and mental health problems.
If a child has a good personality and is sensible, he usually doesn't lose his temper, but suddenly his personality changes, he becomes willful and stubborn, and he has a big temper. Then the parents of the child must pay attention to it, and observe whether the child has experienced anything from the child's physical and mental observation, which has led to great changes in his personality. Or there is something wrong with the child's body, which makes the child fidgety. You can never earn money. You may only spend a few years with your children. If you miss it, you'll never get it back.