Why do you say that?
First of all, your trouble is actually the ability that others dream of-insight. How many people wish they had it! ! !
Besides, you have better abilities, so why worry about this? Are you an idiot or something? What is this ability? That is-understanding. Understanding is so rare! ! ! ! It's really hard to get.
Say something Shinto: people are born different, and the abilities God has given you are different. You are the one God loves! ! ! Like me (I don't know who is tall or who is low), I am born with a special understanding ability and a keen sense of life and humanity. We are very much alike. Why do you say that? Because, we all have a strong sensibility and keen perception of the surrounding environment. Because of sensibility, it is easy to be hurt, and it is always because of external information feedback. I am also kind-hearted and emotional, so I always complain, why are people so evil? Through these things, I realized a different philosophy of life from others and had a more intuitive understanding of human nature.
We have different views. Maybe I am more experienced than you, or something. I think my ability is very strong, which provides me with strong self-confidence. Knowing the thoughts behind other people's words and deeds, combined with my own understanding of human nature and life, I usually don't like to get along with others with my brain, and I want to find those simple, single and simple people to be friends! Yes, I like them, and I am willing to protect them. This is my pride as a man. What's more, even if I don't use my brain, I can easily understand what others say and do. However, I'm too lazy to argue with them. Since it's 80 cents (Tianjin dialect means 1 or 80 cents for Xiao Pi), why waste my precious brain cells? Therefore, when we have abilities that others don't have, we should learn to be tolerant. After all, others (especially those little people) always like to play tricks to show off or prove themselves. After we understand it, it is not a bad thing to help others when the loss is relatively small. According to larded school, I ate a little loss, but what I left you was a big loss! Hate a person, hate a person, praise him to heaven, at that time, falling is doomed to death. Ha ha. As for my good friend, I always say bad things instead of good things. This is our gift. When we look at things pessimistically, we can thoroughly analyze the bad side of things. So in front of my good friends, I always play the role of hitting people, always saying that he is neither good nor bad. And these people who are willing to make friends with you, basically, they know that your behavior is good for them, so they cherish you, and you should continue to cherish them like this, because this is what we are good at! ! !
Also, as far as I am concerned, I have read many books on psychology and subconsciousness and have a deeper understanding of this aspect, so I use this knowledge to help others, such as what I am doing to you now! Use them in good places, they will be the pride of your life, understand?
The contradiction in your heart is not the same thing! ! ! How can you say that?
I'll tell you a truth, so simple that you ignore it. When you see others looking better than you, do you wish you were as good-looking as yourself? There are many such human desires, but their existence is the root of your contradiction. You know that you are complex and profound, you know that you are pessimistic, and you know that you are plain and introverted, so when you see someone who laughs like a flower, you will be eager for it. When you explore why this person is so sunny and cheerful, you will find that he is not as good as you, many of them don't understand, and even a little white. He is simple and always looks at things beautifully. You wish you were. How relaxed and happy will it be? However, you don't know when this happy and simple person will encounter cunning, then become depressed or simply commit suicide. Because he doesn't have the ability you have, he needs the protection of others, and you are strong, you can understand what others really think. The simplicity you admire may not bring happiness, but the depth you don't like can make you admire the simplicity of others at a certain height. Because, pure people are isolated from success unless they are very lucky! Because they don't have those brain cells! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! You got it?
Explain the word optimism to you again! ! ! This word is not a word that fools can understand! ! ! Of course, you are a fool now. Why? Optimism is generally considered to be always optimistic, always positive and always smiling at bad things. In fact, this is only superficial cognition! ! ! !
If you want to face life optimistically, you must understand life and know life, then you can choose to face it optimistically. There are also those born heartless optimists, optimists who know nothing, but they simply don't know the darkness of the world and the darkness of human nature. Simply put, they don't know anything and just look at the world stupidly. So, do you understand?
Optimism is the optimism of achievers and ignorance, but people rarely reach achievers, so I take optimism as my initial explanation! ! ! !
The so-called optimist is to see the darkness of things, solve things with wisdom, show the positive side of things and people, and lead people and things to the right path.
Now I'll teach you how to be optimistic. First of all, you need to open your heart and tolerate the darkness you see in this world (of course, the heinous ones are not included), and then guide them to the right path with some spirit and wisdom of sacrifice. (Of course, when you are willing to do this, it is understandable if you prefer to be alone. It's important to open your heart. If you want to accept the world, an open heart is the most important thing. Secondly, no matter what you see or experience, you should turn it into your food, enrich your knowledge, cultivate your sentiment, turn it into your experience, and then treat it correctly and use it. Finally, learn to manage your feelings and understand the world with feelings, but don't deal with things in the world with feelings! ! ! This is also very important! ! ! ! Learn to understand life and humanity with emotion, and deal with things in life and humanity with reason! ! !
Your rebellion, your problems are actually caused by physical and psychological age, everyone has it, but you are special. In particular, you have different abilities from others, which makes you stronger. You'll be fine when you grow up. Don't worry! ! ! !
Your yearning, optimism, liveliness, simplicity, simplicity. You don't need to change yourself to do it, but you need to know yourself. Through the above, you should know yourself better. Then, give full play to your strengths and make yourself more optimistic, instead of envious of those silly optimists. Simple is actually very simple. As long as you learn from me, you can't pretend to understand if you understand it. If you think too much, let yourself think deeply and understand it, and then directly express your views when treating others. Of course, those fools will think you are complicated, but it's easy for you, because they can't compare with you! ! You need to remember that. Do your own simplicity and make others complicated! ! ! ! ! Lively means learning from humorous and cheerful people, so I am more lively. Get in touch with the outside world, and you will learn this. It's not difficult at all. The easiest way is to get in touch with the people you want to be, learn from them, then learn your own behavior, and finally become your own unique way.
All right, sister, if you go to see a psychiatrist, I'll be blind for nothing. Brother, I also study medicine. The hospital was in complete darkness. A moth like you can kill 100 1, so please add me QQ: 9470899 if you have any questions. Of course, as a friend, it is good to talk about everything.
Well, I wish you success in your studies and then in your career. If you can help my brother make a fortune, that would be great! ! ! (unfortunately, there is no expression to send! ! ! )