A 70-year-old woman ran five miles, didn't she? Five fears? , each one? Afraid? Dare not toss, will be moved to tears.
1, I'm afraid the men around me will suddenly change their minds and lose their youth. Getting married is difficult.
After 70, women are old and long for a comfortable home. Don't toss about love, and don't suddenly have a mistress or a junior four. This change is a fatal blow to women. Although you can find another one, you won't get what you want, because your choice is very small, so you may live alone for a lifetime.
As the saying goes, rhapsody in July is a flower, and a woman is forty tofu dregs? The man around me has changed his mind. Maybe he can find a beautiful young woman, but it is unrealistic for a woman to find a young man after forty. If she is older than herself and doesn't want to, will she really appear? Is it high or low? I don't want to make do myself. I'm really afraid of messing with my marriage.
I am afraid that I will not teach my children well. In the future, my children will be defeated if they fail to live up to expectations.
When a woman marries and has children, she undertakes the task of caring for her husband and educating her children. Whether children get along well or not and how their personalities are related to women's education. For example, children wear dirty clothes, and people say that women in this family don't like cleanliness when they go out; Children swear when they export, and others will say that the children in this family are uneducated; When children grow up, they have no ambition. Others say it is the result of his mother's doting.
You can ignore what others say, but children don't live up to expectations, and they can't make money and study well in the future, which is a great trouble for a family and a sign of family decline. Some children, if they are old-fashioned, are still causing trouble everywhere, and a family will soon collapse. It is meaningless for parents to work hard all their lives. For the post-70s women, most of her children are just the right age for youth. It is difficult to learn well, but easy to learn badly. Therefore, she was very afraid of her child's failure, and felt that she had neglected her duties, fell into deep remorse, and was uneasy all her life.
I am afraid of my parents getting old, but there is nothing I can do about it. I can't be filial.
When a woman marries a man's house, she leaves her parents who gave birth to her own, so it is difficult to repay the kindness that brought her up. In her husband's family, she is also in a dilemma. Do you know that?/You know what? The matter of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has never been clear. When parents-in-law are not doing well, many people will directly blame their daughter-in-law for being bad to their parents and their parents' family education is insufficient.
The most bitter thing is that those women who are married far away often contact their parents and go back to their parents' homes several times a year, but it is difficult to really be filial, even if their parents are sick, they can't take care of them for a long time. If the husband's family has no money, it will be even more bitter. Seeing his parents sick and miserable, he could do nothing. Only by marrying a woman far away can we truly understand the guilt in his heart.
You know, women born after 70, their parents are old, and some parents are gone, leaving endless regrets. Therefore, she was afraid that her parents were getting older, but she didn't do her duty.
I'm afraid there is no deposit at home. Will it happen in the future? No Country for Old Men? .
Having a deposit is your confidence in being a man. A wealthy family, with savings, women can speak louder and have higher status wherever they go, and others will give face. Poor women dare not speak loudly, and others look down on the party.
The woman born after 70 will soon be 50 years old, and the men at home are not young men, so the energy to make money is not as good as before. If at this time, you are still poor, or a man fails to start a business, which leads to economic problems at home, it will be really terrible, and it will be difficult to turn over again.
Although women will try their best to help men, their strength will not be too strong, and there will always be weaknesses. Those women actually had to do it. If the family conditions are better, women always want to be? Weak? Some, return to a soft state.
Therefore, women are afraid that there is no money at home. When they are in their fifties, they will be sixty in a blink of an eye. It is really miserable, and it is impossible to really get it by children. Always keep some money for yourself to avoid No Country for Old Men.
I am afraid that my family will get sick and drag down the whole family.
Good health is over wealth. If someone in the family is sick, they may take out all their savings, which is not enough. ? Illness comes like a mountain, and illness goes like reeling? With money? Spinning? Just took it away.
Many middle-aged women go to fitness, encourage men to go to fitness, or insist on finding some time to run every day, just to keep the whole family healthy and away from illness. ? There is nothing wrong with you. There is nothing wrong with you? It is the best way of life for middle-aged people. Families without diseases and disasters are poorer and laugh more.
Women born after 70 should also pay attention to health problems, especially after giving birth to children, with bucket waist, their faces are no longer good-looking, and their families are surrounded by white hair. Her husband, perhaps with a beer belly, often goes to social parties and is really worried that one day he will get drunk and hurt his health; Her parents, both old people, have any illness, which may be a disaster. So she is worried about the health of the whole family and who is sick. If she heard that her family was ill, she might? Scared? .
In this life, how many things can withstand tossing? The 70-year-old woman who is running for five always wants everything to go well at home. Up here? Five fears? She often worries, but she doesn't say it every day, but hides it in her heart and always prays that nothing will happen.