Generally speaking, the frequency of sexual life is not only related to physical condition, but also related to age and regional differences.
Some newlyweds have sexual intercourse almost every day during their honeymoon, including 4-5 consecutive sexual intercourse on their wedding night, and even close the door during the day, but they should be properly restrained and should not be excessive. The investigation in the laboratory found that the frequency of male sexual life generally decreases with the increase of age, and it is three times a week during the period of 22-25 years old; 32 to 35 years old, twice a week; 4 1-45 years old, it drops to 1 time per week.
Of course, this is only an average. There are great differences among different age groups, some people as many as several times a day, and some people as little as once a month.
Under normal circumstances, both sides can live as long as they are not uncomfortable and have no similar heart disease, and they don't have to be too sensitive to the frequency of * * * *. The so-called reluctance, among women, refers to giving in to the man's sexual requirements; Among men, they don't want to have sex so much, but "motivate" themselves by watching pornographic books or videos and even force them to have sex.
This is quite harmful, because every time * * *, men will stop having sex for a short or long time. It is a natural protection for men.
What is the normal frequency of sexual life? It depends on whether you are energetic and happy the next morning. If the following circumstances occur in the second day or a few days after * * *, and no other reasons are found, it can be considered excessive and should be restrained.
(1) listless, tired and sleepy about life. (2) Weak waist, general weakness, dizziness and stars.
(3) It is easy to sweat, insomnia and dreaminess, and it is not easy to fall asleep. (4) No appetite, poor appetite and mild nausea.
2. What is the common sense of sexual physiology?
Now some girls are pregnant, but accidental injuries are inevitable, and some are mistakes caused by their own carelessness and ignorance.
At this time, reprimanding is not the best way to repair the injured youth. How to correctly handle the termination of pregnancy and minimize the damage is the most important thing. Signs of pregnancy. Menstruation stops.
Girls who have just come to menarche may have irregular menstruation, but if their menstruation is normal, but they don't come on the coming day and have sexual contact with the opposite sex, * * * or the other person * * * (* * can survive for 2 to 3 hours in vitro), they should be vigilant. Secondly, * * * will become larger in a short time, and there will be frequent urination and elevated body temperature in the later period.
Symptoms such as nausea, vomiting and greasy may not appear until three to five months after pregnancy. Don't be afraid if you have any questions about the inspection method. You can test it yourself first.
Use early pregnancy test paper and buy it in a regular pharmacy, which is urine sample testing. Don't worry. The accuracy of test paper is relatively high, but it is not foolproof, and it needs to be further tested in the hospital.
Going to the hospital for examination is also a urine sample test and B-ultrasound examination. Don't worry, it won't hurt. Get ready to relax, and then relax.
Don't panic and don't be afraid. This is not a disease. Pregnancy is actually a physiological phenomenon, but it happens at an inappropriate time.
So the medical term you want to choose is called termination of pregnancy. In our words, this is called abortion.
First of all, be calm. Don't hide, be sad alone.
Ask for help from the person you trust most. Suggest looking for mom. Although it will make her sad, mom is the most reliable friend. First of all, she loves you the most. Secondly, as an adult, she knows how to handle it correctly and minimize the harm.
If it is really difficult, find your best friend and let her go to her mother or elder to help you indirectly. Second, be brave.
Anyway, it has already happened. If it comes from an accidental injury, it is only a small setback in your life. You should be brave and positive. There is still a long way to go, and there are many beautiful things waiting for you, aren't there? If it is your own fault, it is everyone's ability to bear the mistakes. Besides, if you know your mistakes, you are still a good girl. Moreover, only by choosing abortion can the harm caused by sex be minimized.
Abortion preparation If you have not had a B-ultrasound examination before, then the examination is necessary. Mainly to determine whether it is a normal pregnancy, that is, intrauterine pregnancy.
If it is an ectopic pregnancy, you can't use the usual abortion method and need hospitalization. Although the probability of ectopic pregnancy is very small.
At present, there are two kinds of abortion methods used in domestic hospitals, drug abortion and induced abortion. Drug abortion should be carried out within 7 weeks of pregnancy, and induced abortion should be carried out within 10 weeks.
If it is confirmed that it is a normal pregnancy, it is necessary to start preparing for abortion. First, relax.
Because at this time, mental health and physical health are equally important. Also pay attention to keep warm, don't catch a cold, if you have cold symptoms, you should seek medical advice in time, and don't have an abortion during a cold.
The day before going to the hospital, take a hot bath and prepare clean substitutes, sanitary napkins, etc. What kind of abortion method should be consulted, because everyone's physical condition is different.
Both will bring some harm to the body, but there is no wound. As long as you do a good job of post-maintenance, you will soon recover. Drug abortion must be carried out under the guidance of a doctor.
Don't eat in the morning for induced abortion. Remember, you must choose regular hospitals and professional doctors.
Stay in bed for about a week after abortion. Within a month, avoid eating cold and spicy food and cold water. It is best to wash your hair less or not. Immediately after washing, dry your hair with the hot air of a hair dryer. Can't take a shower.
Eat more nutritious food. It is very important to keep in touch with the doctor, and report to the doctor immediately if there is any abnormality.
Keep a peaceful mind. Taking emergency contraceptives within 72 hours after sexual intercourse can also avoid pregnancy.
But birth control pills can also bring some harm to the body, such as endocrine disorders, bad mood and so on. However, the above are all hindsight, which is a way to reduce the harm after pregnancy.
How to protect your body is the best policy. There are two main situations of middle school students' pregnancy, one is external injury and the other is their own fault.
In order to avoid trauma, we should be careful not to walk alone at night. If you go home by car, you'd better ask your family to pick you up where you got off or downstairs. If you find someone suspicious following you, go to a crowded place for help.
Don't be alone with strangers of the opposite sex.
3. What common sense should people know?
Cleanliness-indoor floors should be cleaned frequently, desks and cabinets should be cleaned frequently, and doors and windows should be cleaned frequently.
Neat-it doesn't matter how many items there are, as long as they are placed neatly, they look more comfortable.
Unity-indoor items should be placed in a unified and organized manner, and mosquito nets should be hung up and put away.
Ventilation-often open the window to prevent indoor odor. Fresh air is also good for your health.
Appropriate decoration-some flowers can be placed in the bedroom to look warm, and some paintings and calligraphy can look tasteful.
Fire prevention, theft prevention, health knowledge, food hygiene, clothing preservation.
In short, there are many, you can buy a book on common sense of life and come back and have a look!
4. What physiological knowledge should women have?
Female urethra is short and straight in physiology and anatomy, and the distance between urethra and * * * * is very close, so bacteria can easily invade. Therefore, as women, we should pay special attention to the physiological health of the urinary system and reproductive system.
In infancy, parents should change diapers frequently and open their crotch pants as much as possible to avoid feces and external bacteria polluting the urethra; After defecation, toilet paper should be wiped from the front to the back of the body. During marriage, we should pay attention to physical hygiene during sexual life, and both sides should clean the perineum before each sexual life to avoid excessive fatigue.
In menopausal women, due to the decrease of estrogen secretion, glands atrophy, and women's "self-purification" ability is weakened, and bacteria can easily take advantage of it. At this time, you can take some estrogen under the guidance of a doctor and cooperate with antibacterial treatment. In addition, once the symptoms of frequent micturition, urgency and dysuria appear, it means that the urethra has been infected, and regular treatment must be carried out at this time, otherwise bacteria will quickly rise to the kidney along the urethra, bladder and ureter, causing inflammation of the kidney.