Time flies, unconsciously, people have been addicted to the spoil of their grandparents when they were young in middle age. I, who was madly in love with my parents, went through the process of getting married, having children, taking care of my husband and educating my children like my peers. Now my children have grown up, and I am 40 years old, and a little white hair is frequently added to my black hair. Although my life is calm and rich, the balance of responsibility seems to suddenly tilt from the side of raising children overnight when people reach middle age. I know that no one can escape from diseases and disasters, and some are only a matter of time, but what I never expected was that the diseases were so cruel and crazy! !
My mother has Parkinson's disease. Many years ago, we had never heard the name of this disease. After consulting and verifying in many hospitals, we know that my mother has a chronic disease as intractable as hypertension and must always rely on drugs. At first, with the maintenance of drugs, the mother could take care of herself. In the early days, like normal people, she could help her father do some farm work in the fields. When the disease came, my mother's hands and feet trembled slightly, and she obviously walked awkwardly. But as soon as she took the medicine, her mother immediately became a different person and walked normally. Although not as fast as normal people, my mother is obviously much more comfortable and doesn't feel pain. It has been like this for many years. Until last year, my sister bought a new house and moved to a new home. I visited my sister's house and took some photos of my mother. Suddenly found that my mother lost a lot of weight. I blame myself for caring too little about my mother during that time! ! Before that, I just often heard my father say on the phone that my mother often fainted for no reason, playing cards well and suddenly fainted at the poker table! Mom has always had the problem of fainting, and we didn't take it to heart. We only come back to see mom once in a while. So until the end of 20 17, my parents went to my sister's house for the Spring Festival, and on the first day of the New Year, my mother's birthday, our family went to my sister's house to visit. Dad liked the excitement and agreed to take them to the big supermarket nearby. However, when I got the car keys from my sister's new home upstairs, I went downstairs. That day, my mother fainted twice. Later, I went to a restaurant for dinner and invited friends. A table is full of people. But suddenly, my mother sitting next to me looked like a fool, her eyes did not move. She had an unpleasant dinner that night, and my father was very sad. I'm sorry, too. Before that, my sister and brother-in-law took her mother to a big hospital for an examination. The doctor said there was nothing to do. We can only let the disease get worse. Later, we just collapsed in bed and couldn't take care of ourselves. In this way, we watched mother's illness get worse and worse. My mom started talking nonsense and calling my dad names. My mother will follow me as soon as my father goes out. At midnight, my father will come out to have a look. Later, my mother started running around and losing her mind. She hides everywhere and doesn't listen to her family. Dad often looks everywhere, but there is nothing he can do. Dad asked my sister and I to take turns to pick up my mother for a while and try to change the environment. Eleven years ago, my mother went to my sister's. It was a little better at first, but after a few days, my mother said she was homesick, so she secretly ran out to find a car and got lost. She also met her brother-in-law's friend and sent her back. 1 October1day After her mother came back, she still felt bad. Afraid of strangers, I said that seeing strangers would hurt her, and my father asked me to stay for a few days. However, when my mother came here, I was exhausted and stayed with her all day and all night. During the day, she accidentally stepped onto the highway. At night, my mother tied the door where I slept with her with a rope. At night, I was surprised. As soon as I heard the horn of the car on the highway, I said I had come to catch her. Then I took time to go in and wash my face. When I came out, I found that my mother had climbed the big electric door outside my house. I'm scared silly, but I can't suddenly scare my mother. I can only stand and watch my mother climb through the electric door. Then with the last kick, I saw my mother lost her footing and fell down. I quickly opened the door and ran out to help my mother. Fortunately, my mother is fine. When I was in a hurry, I sent a video to my sister. My sister was also anxious and said, Mom might as well lie in bed with her leg broken! I really have no choice. I sent my mother home and asked my father to lock all the doors at home. When my mother saw that my father had locked the door, she gave a "roar" like crazy and pulled the door hard. My father said it was not good. I still have to go to the hospital to see if there is any medicine, so I agreed. Then the next day, my dad and I lied to my mom about taking her out. Then I took my mother to the mental hospital in the county and saw a doctor, who prescribed medicine. We were full of hope that the medicine would make my mother better, but the next day I heard my father say that my mother fell out of bed at night and couldn't get up the next day and didn't get up the third day. My father said that my mother had no strength to get up after taking medicine. In those days, I contacted the doctor who saw my mother. The doctor said that there was a process to adapt to the medicine slowly. Mom didn't get up. In all kinds of despair, Baidu searched for information. Through Baidu, I was lucky enough to add family members of Parkinson's patients from all over the country who were in the same condition as my mother on QQ. Here, I met a kind friend, and the patient's family told me that olanzapine prescribed by a mental hospital could not be eaten. Eating it will only aggravate Parkinson's disease and lead to paralysis. After getting the news, I immediately asked my father to stop using the medicine prescribed by the mental hospital. I changed the medicine recommended by experts in Shanghai Huashan Hospital. Later, during the drug withdrawal and dressing change, my mother was always weak and sleepy. In this way, my sister and I were worried for a long time. Gradually, my mother began to wake up, and her brain was the same as that of a normal person, except that my mother could not take care of herself and could not get out of bed! ! ! Life needs family care!
? During this period, my mother didn't defecate for several days. In desperation, my father and I took my mother to the hospital for intestinal lavage. That day, the nurse inserted a soft tube into my mother's anus for infusion, and the doctor asked me to press the muscles of my mother's anus hard. To tell the truth, it's so painful to see intestinal lavage for the first time. During transfusion, the input water flowed out from the gap in the anus, which was very unpleasant, and finally the liquid was lost. The doctor asked my father to buy a toilet. Let my mom sit on it and shit. I was so sad when I saw my mother sitting on it and couldn't get out. After about fifteen minutes, my mother finally took a shit. I'm so happy! ! Now my mother still doesn't defecate for several days, and she can only defecate by drugs. Alas, life, what can be simpler than defecation? For people with my mother's condition, it is the best thing in life to urinate and swallow normally! ! So for healthy people like us, should we feel healthier and happier? !
I once read an article. The author describes his father, an old man who needs to rely on a ventilator to breathe. The old man had difficulty breathing because of the sudden power failure. The old man's son drove dozens of miles to the drugstore to buy a ventilator without electricity. However, after buying it back, the old man could not breathe because he could not breathe. It is very thrilling that when the old man was about to hold on, the electricity suddenly came, and the family quickly connected the electricity to the old man. I use a ventilator for the elderly. This story has haunted my mind for many years, reminding me all the time that it is a wonderful thing to live and live well! !
? I am an extremely sensitive woman. I can't stand a little injustice. A heavier husband always makes me want to die. I used to be depressed, self-abased and a little unhappy. I want to end my life. I don't want to live any more. I always feel how painful it is to live. However, after reading the above article, I experienced my mother's illness. I'm not so depressed anymore. ! !
In fact, I just wrote the story I experienced and saw, and it is also my idea and life sentiment! ! I hope it can help you a little, especially friends in trouble. In fact, living well is a happy thing, isn't it? I can breathe freely, I can walk freely, I can enjoy food to my heart's content and live a healthy life. What a wonderful thing! ! !