How to create a healthy family environment for children?

The growth of crops is inseparable from high-quality soil, and the growth of children is inseparable from the' soil' of the family environment. A family atmosphere full of love and laughter can make children grow up optimistically and comfortably, while a family atmosphere full of noise and war can only make children feel bored and nervous, which will cause endless harm to their growth. Parents should work with their children to create a relaxed and harmonious family atmosphere and cultivate children who are physically and mentally healthy and cheerful.

First, create a positive family environment for children.

Children who grow up with accusations tend to feel sorry for themselves; Children who grow up in fear are easy to look ahead and look back; Children who grow up laughing are easy to be timid; Children who grow up with encouragement are easy to be full of confidence; Children who grow up in praise are easy to move forward; Children who grow up in sharing are easy and generous; Children who grow up in knowledge are easy to say and understand things. Creating a good family environment for children and making them grow up healthily and happily is far more important than giving them superior material conditions! Writer Lao She's mother loves cleaning all her life. Under the influence of his mother, Lao She often cleans the house, and the house is in good order inside and outside. A good family environment is fertile ground for children's healthy growth.

Second, moisten things and cultivate children's words and deeds silently.

Many mothers are' mother-in-law' and nag endlessly for hundreds of times. The children are disgusted and don't listen. Moistening things silently allows children to influence their thinking and ideas by observing their parents' words and deeds and every move, thus affecting their personality characteristics. Parents need to convey clear meaning to their children in concise language in order to educate their children well. When children go to the park and see red, green and green colors, they are very curious. If they ask their parents, why are some flowers red? Some flowers are blue? Parents need to tell their children that the glucose in cell fluid becomes anthocyanin, and the acidity is red and the alkalinity is blue. Anthocyanins are expressed in different acid-base reactions. Educating children quietly is much more effective than being serious and reasonable.

Third, do not arrange, let the children complete their duties alone.

Now most children are only children, enjoying the family running around him every day. This effortless' happiness' makes children accustomed to the happiness brought about by sitting back and enjoying their achievements, while the meticulous care and care of the family makes children unconsciously develop the bad habit of' reaching for food with clothes'. I don't know if you have found out that the more parents deal with their children, the worse their abilities are, and the more they complain and resent them. Why? Because of the excessive care of parents, the spirit of children's independent growth is stifled, and children are not allowed to develop healthy personality, let alone the ability to solve problems and meet challenges. In recent years, the number of college graduates has increased. Why? As long as you get good grades in school, you need good ability, good interpersonal skills and good eloquence to enter the society. Many children who are spoiled by their parents have no survival ability and can only enjoy the care of their parents as in school. Let children develop the habit of washing and cooking from an early age, and develop the habit of doing their own things independently. Entering the society is generally not bad! Parents who usually do everything can't raise children with super powers.

May every child thrive in a high-quality family' soil', and may every child develop independent habits under the care of his parents.