What is a mother's greatest wish? That should be that the baby can grow up healthily and happily. The greatest love in the world is "maternal love" and the deepest kindness is "parents' kindness". And some children are born with golden keys, luxurious and rich. But some children have to face hardships, even physical defects.
There is a child whose name is Lingchi. She was born without limbs. Before Ling Chi was born, the doctor told her mother that the child might be "seriously deformed". If she was born, she might have no limbs. The doctor advised her mother to abort the baby.
This news is undoubtedly a blow to parents. Lingchi's father hesitated and decided to give up, because even if the child was born without limbs and could not live like a normal child, it would be a kind of pain for the child. In addition, the family is not rich, and children's life and medical care are more difficult for them.
But Lingchi's mother insisted on giving birth to the baby. After quarreling with her husband countless times, the child was born without the support of his family. As a result, as the doctor said before, Lingchi was born without limbs.
Time passed bit by bit, Lingchi grew up and learned to speak. She asked her mother countless times: Why can't I run and jump like other children? Where are my hands and feet? Mother always tells her with tears in her eyes: when you are older, it will grow.
Later, Lingchi stopped asking questions because she knew that her hands and feet would never grow again, and she accepted the fact of disability rationally. Instead of being sad, she became more optimistic. Her optimism touched her father and a local hospital, who installed artificial limbs for Lingchi for free. Now Ling Chi can write and live like a normal person.
My mother never regretted the birth of Lingchi. Perhaps this is her mother's most instinctive choice. Lingchi, an angel with broken wings, hopes that God will take care of her more and make her life happier in the future.
1. Within 4 weeks of pregnancy
If pregnant mothers find that menstruation cannot be postponed, they can go to the hospital for a diagnosis of pregnancy after two weeks' delay. Ultrasound examination can be done 35 days after menopause to determine the embryo position, intrauterine pregnancy and ectopic pregnancy.
2. Within 8 weeks of pregnancy
I'm doing an ultrasound test for about 8 weeks. At this time, I can detect the baby's fetal heart and see the development of the fetus. If you can see the fetal heart, it means that the child is developing normally.
3. Pregnancy 12 weeks
12 weeks, pregnant mothers also need to do an nt test to see the thickness of the zona pellucida behind the fetal neck. This is the earliest test for Down's screening, and it is very important for pregnant mothers to do it.
4. After pregnancy 14- 19 weeks.
After pregnancy 14- 19 weeks, you can also screen "Down syndrome" by drawing blood, and you can have regular checkups around 20 weeks. At this time, the fetus has been basically stable, Ma Bao can also put the heart down.
Parenting information:
It is very important for pregnant mothers to check before pregnancy, which is related to whether you can give birth to a healthy baby. How many babies are determined by checking for defects, and healthy childbirth depends on science.
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