Every time I hear this song, I can't help thinking of Luo Jiaying and Wang Mingquan. I fell in love for 2 1 year, but I was disturbed by illness again and again. It was not until I was 62 years old that I had the courage to step into the marriage hall. Luo Jiaying's 19 proposal, Wang Mingquan's insistence, they wrote the true definition of love all their lives.
Before this "arrogant" woman knew Wang Mingquan, Luo Jiaying was a nobody. Born into a family of Cantonese opera, I studied Cantonese opera with famous teachers since childhood, but Cantonese opera has declined, making it very difficult for Luo Jiaying to maintain daily life. He was 4 1 year-old. He experienced a failed marriage and worked hard alone outside.
By then, Wang Mingquan had achieved great success. Her career has blossomed everywhere in film and television dramas, dramas, hosts, concerts and Spring Festival Evening. His representative works "The Dragon Slayer by Eternal Adversity" and "Wan Shui Qian Shan is always in love" are all classics that can't be surpassed so far. Similarly, she has just come out of a failed marriage.
1987, the director of the Cantonese opera "Mu vs. Hongzhou" invited him to be the hero and heroine to complete this masterpiece together. It is also because of this opportunity that two people who have been injured in love meet for the first time. But Luo Jiaying never thought that he would be entangled with this boy for life.
At that time, Wang Mingquan's temper was not small at all, even a little "overbearing". Because of the poor foundation of Cantonese opera, she put forward an "unreasonable" request, "You are not allowed to take over next year, so you should concentrate on practicing with me." How hard it was for Luo Jiaying to have no income for a year, but he agreed.
For a year, the two were together every day and gradually became attached. A year later, they went all over the theater to perform, and this work also achieved very good results. After the last performance, Wang Mingquan kissed Luo Jiaying excitedly. It is also because of this kiss that the relationship between the two broke the ambiguous paper and formally fell in love.
At that time, they were both old, and Luo Jiaying always wanted to have a real home with her. 1994, Luo Jiaying Stephen Chow's film "Home-made Lingling Painting" and "Moonlight Box of Journey to the West" was released. He became famous with the roles of "Wen Da Xi" and "Tang Priest". So after becoming famous, Luo Jiaying immediately planned to propose to Wang Mingquan.
After a long period of careful preparation, Luo Jiaying proposed to Wang Mingquan with confidence, but the result was unexpected. Wang Mingquan said that she had experienced two failed marriages before, but both ended in failure, so she was not optimistic about marriage. Besides, isn't it good to keep the status quo? What are the benefits of getting married and having children and becoming a yellow-faced woman?
Two people, both suffering from cancer, have no family drag and concentrate on their careers. Although Luo Jiaying became popular because of Stephen Chow's films, he never lost his main business. While filming TV dramas, he is also busy with Cantonese opera performances. Wang Mingquan, on the other hand, returned to show business after ending her career of Cantonese Opera for 16 years. Although they seldom meet each other during the year, their relationship never stopped, and Luo Jiaying's proposal never stopped.
In the first half of 2002, Wang Mingquan went to the hospital for examination due to physical discomfort, and found a tumor in her breast. Knowing the bad news, Wang Mingquan called Luo Jiaying at a loss. Luo Jiaying, who was still filming in other places at that time, quickly handled his own affairs and rushed back to Hong Kong to accompany Wang Mingquan.
Wang Mingquan remembered seeing her boyfriend countless times. Maybe she pushed the door open in a hurry to ask about her illness, then comforted herself not to be afraid, or looked at her thin self and cried. In short, it will be warm. Unexpectedly, Luo Jiaying saw him for the first time and directly said "I want to marry you".
Although Wang Mingquan was very moved, he refused the man. "I didn't agree when I was healthy, let alone now?" Accustomed to being rejected, Luo Jiaying stayed with Wang Mingquan for a long time, completely ignoring one work phone call after another.
Fortunately, due to early detection and proper treatment, cancer cells did not spread, and Wang Mingquan's condition gradually recovered. Back and forth, Luo Jiaying asked for 19 marriages, but the result was the same every time. Even after the successful operation, Wang Mingquan didn't let go.
It was an accident, and the sudden trouble made Luo Jiaying never mention marriage again. In 2004, Luo Jiaying was diagnosed with liver cancer. Luo Jiaying and Wang Mingquan said with a wry smile, "Sister, I'm afraid I have no luck to marry you in this life." . After a short silence, Luo Jiaying heard what he wanted to hear most in his life, "Let's get married".
Luo Jiaying once thought it was her illusion, but it was not until Wang Mingquan looked at herself and said it again that Luo Jiaying realized that she had proposed to her. Clearly want to marry Wang Mingquan all the time, but after hearing this answer, Luo Jiaying actually wanted to cry. Things have changed. This time, it was Luo Jiaying's turn to refuse.
Rainbow Quanming Luo Jiaying's liver cancer was discovered very early, and the cancer cells did not spread. After long-term treatment in the hospital, Luo Jiaying's condition has improved a lot. In February 2005, Luo Jiaying was discharged from hospital and went home to recuperate. Meanwhile, Wang Mingquan stopped all his work and went home to take care of him.
All sufferings are rewarded.
After two cancers, both sides experienced the pain of losing each other, so after all the dust settled, they finally got up the courage to take that step. On May 2, 2009, 62-year-old Luo Jiaying and 665,438+0-year-old Wang Mingquan got married in Las Vegas, USA. After 2 1 year long-distance running, I finally found a rest station.
After the news of their marriage came back to China, the entertainment circle was a sensation. In the past, not only the parties knew, but as their friends, the audience outside the bureau watched them step by step through life difficulties. It is the greatest blessing in life to wait for such an ending.
I thought that two people who have experienced many times can finally enjoy their old age. Unexpectedly, 20 14, Luo Jiaying's liver disease worsened. According to Luo Jiaying himself, "At the end of 20 13, a 2 cm tumor grew in the left liver, which has now been removed. Now, as before 2004, everything has to start from scratch. "
From then on, Wang Mingquan retired slowly and concentrated on aftercare with her husband. On the other hand, Luo Jiaying revealed in an interview that he is in good health and occasionally plays one or two small roles, but his focus is not in the entertainment circle at all. On 20 17, Luo Jiaying and his wife stood hand in hand on the reader's stage. He said, "I met you a little late. If I have the rest of my life, I really want to find you and stay with you as soon as possible. Will you? "
On August 28th, 2020, Wang Mingquan posted some birthday photos on his personal social platform. This year, she was 73 years old and her wife Luo Jiaying was 74 years old. From love and marriage to now, they have spent 32 years together. The so-called "grow old together" is probably the same.
At the tucao conference, Luo Jiaying once spoke, saying that "it is more difficult to marry a daughter-in-law than to learn western classics". But for Luo Jiaying, he wrote the best answer in his love letter to his wife, "We fell in love for 2 1 year, and we got married at the age of 63. It doesn't matter to me at all, as long as there is a happy ending. You still have half a life, I still have half a life, and we synthesize one life. "
Conclusion When they met, they were both people who had been hurt in love. After proposing marriage 19 times in Luo Jiaying and waiting in front of and behind the hospital bed, Wang Mingquan's anxiety about marriage gradually subsided. Luo Jiaying, who finally looked at the man about to go to the operating table, finally obeyed his real intention and said, "Let's get married.". They will stay together for the rest of their lives, even if the disease strikes.