As for the knowledge of children's mental health, children's growth is greatly influenced by the environment. In the face of difficult problems, parents should face them together. The development of children's personality has a lot to do with their parents. Cultivating children's practical ability is conducive to their future development. Let me share with you the knowledge about children's mental health.
Children's mental health knowledge 1 What are the main factors that affect children's mental health?
You know, childhood is actually an important period of life development. A person's personality and many psychological qualities are formed in childhood, so psychologists define childhood as a critical period of life development.
However, according to the survey results of some experts on kindergarten children, many children will show selfishness, conceit, willfulness or bad temper, and some children's bad personality characteristics such as emotional fragility, independence and poor social skills are very common. According to expert analysis, these characteristics of children may become hidden dangers of their psychological problems. Family is the root of children and the most important and basic environment for their psychological development. Therefore, the influence of family on children's mental health is not only manifested in biological genetic influence, but also in parents' emotional attitude, personality, value orientation and psychological morality.
Family factors are the main factors affecting children's mental health.
1, improper parenting style in family education
Most parents will think that their children live a healthy life without diseases, and they don't need any education at all during this period, just let their children eat and play well, but parents often ignore their mental health. In modern families, most people attach importance to inculcating health knowledge and neglect the cultivation of children's behavior habits; Pay special attention to the intake of dietary nutrition, but ignore it emotionally. It pays attention to the arranged substitution of adults, but ignores the cultivation of children's independence. Because most families nowadays are children. The phenomenon of only child, so it is very popular to spoil children. If children are at home, they may talk to their parents about things between partners. At this time, parents get bored and ignore them. Children will naturally be cold for a long time if they don't feel emotional happiness and satisfaction.
2. The role of parents as role models is particularly important in family education.
Every parent wants his children to get rid of some bad habits. Once they find their children's problems, they will inevitably be scolded or scolded. However, parents and friends don't realize that their words and deeds have exerted a subtle influence on your baby. For example, if parents are more casual and don't mind what happens, it will be difficult for them to be strict with their children at this time. In addition, the psychological impact of divorced families on children is also very great. When your children see the war between their parents who are going to divorce, they will feel very scared and become very timid. Another phenomenon is that children take the initiative to avoid being bullied and beat and scold their classmates. Therefore, if parents and friends find that your child has psychological problems, please analyze your own reasons first and see if Kana's behavior is appropriate.
3. Parents have different views on education.
Many parents report that their children lie in psychological counseling. Examples of lying to children are common in real life. In fact, children lie for many reasons. For example, preschool children in this period can't distinguish between reality and imagination. Sometimes parents may mistake their children's imagination for lying. In fact, this is not a child's intention to lie. This is actually the instinct of children to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages, but there are also places where parents need to review. For example, it is very common that children have problems in kindergarten and kindergarten teachers ask their parents. If their father comes home and criticizes them, they can correct them next time. If you ask the mother, the child may inevitably have the pain of flesh and blood after returning home, so the child will conclude that he can benefit from his father. Therefore, if this goes on, children will say different things in front of their parents, thus forming the habit of lying.
Knowledge of children's mental health II. How to promote children's mental health
1, good family education can promote children's mental health.
When a baby is born, the closest people are his parents. Parents are the children's first teachers, and his words and deeds will affect the baby's outlook on life and world, so it is very important to create a good family education environment. A happy family with harmonious husband and wife, warm and happy everywhere, coupled with scientific parenting methods, understanding the psychological characteristics of young children, praising more and criticizing less, and not beating and cursing, it is easy to cultivate a gentle and helpful baby. And parents who are unhappy in family life and bicker all day will mostly bring out irritable and withdrawn babies. Therefore, good family education is the first step for you to establish a good attitude for your baby.
2, into the school, into the "new home"
Many babies leave their parents for the first time and walk into the campus, feeling fresh and strange to everything in their eyes. New environments, new faces and new concepts will come into their lives in a period of time, which makes many babies unable to adapt. At this time, a valuable friendship between teachers and students is particularly important. An excellent teacher, who treats every child fairly with sincere love, teaches students in accordance with their aptitude with love and moral edification, and is not partial or discriminatory, will create a kind of family warmth for the baby on campus. Teachers have a detailed understanding of each child's life, habits and abilities. Master valuable first-hand information. In the baby's psychological growth, it laid the foundation for healthy development. Teachers' encouragement is often easier to stimulate children's learning motivation. Therefore, finding a good teacher is very important for children's mental health.
3. Bloom the flower of friendship
A kind smile, an approving look and a gentle touch will bring your first friend. Teaching your baby to make friends and let him grow up without loneliness is what every parent wants. Respect, sincerity, tolerance, mutual benefit, humility, understanding and credibility are the seven principles that you should cultivate your baby first. Establish a good peer relationship, keep the baby away from the arrogance of the only child, get rid of the self-centered mentality, enter the collective, guide them to learn to care and help each other, and cultivate their spirit of good communication and cooperation. Rich game activities are of great benefit to the healthy development of children. I can compete on an equal footing since I was a child, face up to the reality, and believe that interpersonal relationships will be very harmonious when I grow up.
4, pressure is a paper tiger, life color map is drawn early.
When many people grow up, they feel great pressure, unable to face the cruelty of society, and are too extreme to treat themselves and the people around them. Let children contact the society from an early age, not to participate in the labor of adults, but to promote children's physical and mental health and personality development through some games. Teaching games enable children to study and live in a relaxed and pleasant atmosphere, get their own satisfactory results through cooperation, independent choice, bold imagination and courage to create, develop their bodies, learn knowledge, acquire interpersonal skills, cultivate lively personality, try to paint a colorful picture of the future from an early age, and let the baby grow up effortlessly.
The above is the knowledge of children's mental health that we provide for you. We will help you explore and analyze the problems behind your baby from a professional perspective, so that your baby can understand himself and solve his own confusion. After all, physical and mental harmony is the foundation of healthy growth. I hope that all parents who read the article will pass on the power of growth to their babies and help them grow together.