Generally speaking, you will be happy if you get it, and you will be sad if you lose it-this is also human nature. However, the law of interdependence between happiness and misfortune is always at work: happiness lies in misfortune and misfortune depends on it. What you get here is a blessing, but what you lose is a curse. The best story to explain this truth is "A blessing in disguise is a blessing in disguise".
Always be optimistic, work hard, and strive to turn the bad side into a good one. Be modest and detached when you get it, and be tolerant and indifferent when you lose it.
The story of every cloud has a silver lining;
Once upon a time, there lived an old man in the border area adjacent to the Hu people. People respectfully called him "Sai Weng". One day, Sai Weng lost his horse. When the neighbors learned about it, they came to comfort them. But Sai Weng comforted everyone instead: "It is certainly a bad thing to lose the horse, but who knows if it will bring good results?" ?
Sure enough, a few months later, the horse ran back and brought back a good horse. So the neighbors got together again to congratulate Sai Weng. At this time, however, Sai Weng was worried and said, "Alas, who knows if this incident will bring me disaster?" Sure enough, his son fell off the new horse, hurt his leg and became disabled.
Neighbors came to offer their condolences after hearing the news, but Sai Weng still said, "Who knows if this will bring good results?" Later, the Hu people invaded the Central Plains on a large scale, and all the able-bodied men were recruited as soldiers, and nine times out of ten they died in battle. Sai Weng's son survived because he was disabled and didn't do military service.