I have read The Three of Us written by Mr. Jiang Yang. White-haired people send dark-haired people, and Jiang Yang sends away her only daughter Qian Yuan and her husband Qian Zhongshu. We broke up. Where is my home?
Every time I read this paragraph, my tears will unconsciously flow down. Life is not perfect, the full moon is a loss, and the flowers will fall at the peak. This is the law of nature.
God is fair. If there is a shortage of this item, that item will also supply you, depending on whether you value your short board or long board.
It's important to keep an optimistic attitude. Think more about what you have, and you will be happier.
Yesterday, because of a micro-headline, the powder went up 150, which was a very happy thing for me.
Yesterday, some minor accidents happened. My husband scolded me for losing a duck my sister gave me.
However, I have a good attitude, just like: "A blessing in disguise is a blessing in disguise." I hope ducks yearn for nature and live a free life, and have not become someone else's dish.
When I saw Mr. Jiang Yang's words, I remembered an uncle who worked in Ningbo. I heard that he earned five or six million dollars in the most profitable year. Later, he changed his car to Land Rover, built a villa in his hometown, spent 1 10,000, rented four floors, and opened a hotel and a roast mutton restaurant.
When my uncle's daughter got married, he married a Mercedes. On my daughter's wedding day, my uncle lost more than 300,000 bride price money without blinking. Just be happy.
This uncle has a good face all his life. He is the protagonist everywhere. He is very ostentatious and generous in everything he does, and it costs tens of thousands of dollars to set off fireworks in the New Year.
But God didn't treat him well. At the age of 54, he got cancer and left.
I was at my uncle's funeral scene, and my uncle had a good face all his life. As another uncle Tang said, he liked to be lively all his life. As a result, he was cold and cheerless after he left. Half of his relatives and friends were not present, and the old mother and son didn't even know that even fireworks could not be set off.
I was thinking again, what's the use of being busy when everyone is gone? No matter how busy, he can't see.
I watched the priest wrap my uncle layer by layer with several colorful quilts, and then lifted his head and feet to move my uncle from the ice coffin to the coffin. I think I will never forget that scene.
What can my uncle take with him when he dies?
The only thing buried with him was the clothes he wore before his death, all of which were burned, and nothing else could be taken away.
Does this mean that life is incomplete? If you subtract half of his life wealth, can you get my uncle's life?
I don't know if my uncle wants it, but God will say no.
Therefore, contentment is always happy, and living is the greatest comfort. Life is alive, of course, we must struggle, but when we are tired, we must stop and reflect in time. What can this life take away?
Think more, maybe a lot of things that can't be broken can be put aside.
God will not give you everything, nor will he deprive you of everything. Giving you wealth may not necessarily give you a long life, but it may also be accompanied by hardships, so you can only accept it calmly.
At my uncle's funeral, I heard my aunt say, "One month before his death, your uncle suddenly didn't want to take medicine, and it was useless for his family to persuade him."
I wonder if my uncle is satisfied. Although his life is short, he has enjoyed everything he should enjoy, everything he should have worked hard for and everything he wanted.
As Mr. Jiang Yang said:
Keeping a contented heart is the best way to temper and purify the soul. All happy enjoyment belongs to the spirit, and this kind of happiness turns patience into enjoyment, which is the victory of the spirit over the material. This is the philosophy of life.
Be happy even if you have three meals a day. Even if a person sings without applause, you will enjoy it. It may be difficult to change the material, but changing the spirit is only between changes.