Is the confidant between men and women love?

There are various relationships between men and women, and confidant relationship is one of them. It is also strange that confidants between men and women can have love. Next, Bian Xiao will show you whether confidants between men and women are related to love. Is the confidant between men and women love? No, actually, many people say that there is no pure friendship between men and women. Actually, not necessarily. The affection between people is a wonderful thing, which can not only produce love, but also have affection and friendship. In the friendship of bosom friends, relatively speaking, it is more intimate and like-minded, so that you can talk with confidence and become bosom friends. But if you say love, there will be. How to treat the so-called male and female bosom friends? It is a hidden, sensitive, understanding, trusting, congenial and sympathetic heterosexual friend relationship. This relationship is the marginal relationship between lovers and friends. Lovers don't necessarily get married! Like a lover without marriage. Like lovers, there is no ambiguity and sexual contact between lovers. Like friends, the relationship is deeper and closer than ordinary friends! Therefore, this special, intimate and distant friendship of the opposite sex (so-called confidante, confidante) is very relaxed and casual, and will not bear great pressure. In interactive communication, there is a lot of room for chatting. There are no restrictions. On the surface, social etiquette is just an external decoration. As long as it is from the heart, you can open your heart and speak freely. Personally, men and women are highly complementary. Both men and women, when eager to talk, will first choose an understanding friend of the opposite sex. Not gay friends. For example, men like to communicate with smart, gentle and understanding women. Women like to associate with a mature, steady, wise, experienced, connotative and knowledgeable man. If there are many intersections, identification points and languages. You will hit it off as soon as you meet your bosom friend, and there will be endless topics when you meet your bosom friend. You will talk to each other, treat each other sincerely and trust each other. Is there anything you can't say? When men and women make friends, sex is always a sensitive topic that cannot be avoided or avoided. There are always some concerned eyes staring. Like a thorn in the back, there is nowhere to escape. After all, they are not lovers or partners. They used to be very close. How can they be unrelated? Besides, between men and women who are soul mates. It's only a matter of minutes to slip into the relationship of lovers and break through the last line of defense! Sex is only one step away. Can you control yourself? Who can make it clear? Do you understand Tao? Color eater, sex is also! Among adult men and women, sex is so attractive that how many can survive and resist the temptation? Therefore, between confidants and friends of the opposite sex, we should maintain a pure and pure relationship. It's really hard! Is there a real relationship between men and women? Life is hard to find a bosom friend. As the ancients said, one of the four great pleasures in life is to meet an old friend in another country. Knowing yourself and yourself is the sublimation of friendship, and knowing yourself and yourself is hard to meet. Once you know yourself in life, you should cherish it. No matter how far the distance between friends is, it will not change the distance between hearts, so it is enough to know each other in life. Nowadays, there are fewer and fewer intimate friends in life, and bosom friends are even more valuable. Although the intimate relationship between ourselves and ourselves is not as close as that of love, it surpasses the most precious love in the world. There is no bondage and bondage between the enemy and yourself, and there is no jealousy and entanglement. A bosom friend is the meeting of two hearts. There is no obstacle to heart-to-heart communication between confidants. The communication between bosom friends is relaxed and pleasant. You will find your true self in front of your friends, and you must appreciate each other. This feeling is precious. So is there a real relationship between men and women? Of course, I'm not saying that ambiguous beauty knows herself, and blue knows herself. What we are talking about here is the relationship between men and women, not love. Whether it's a beauty or a blue face, even emotional infidelity in a relationship between men and women is cheating when both sides have lovers or spouses. If the two sides can't maintain simple friendship, it is an unhealthy relationship between men and women. Besides, pure friendship between men and women. Many people say that there is no real friendship between men and women. In fact, true friendship certainly exists, depending on how you view the relationship between men and women. If it is a relationship between men and women, keep a proper distance and be bound by etiquette. As long as the two sides are honest with each other, it is no problem to be friends. Of course, if you want to go beyond the limit, and you are both single, of course everyone is happy, otherwise you should say goodbye to this relationship. Therefore, if both male and female friends have spouses, they can grasp the boundaries for a long time. Of course, we can't see a couple of men and women and conclude that it is a relationship between men and women. That's ridiculous. After all, it is not a feudal society. It is important that people's ideology needs to be corrected. In addition to the relationship between men and women, there should be many relationships between men and women, such as colleague relationship, customer relationship, classmate relationship, teacher-student relationship and friend relationship. Just because we are a man and a woman, we can't directly think about the relationship between men and women. It's unnecessary. In addition to love, there will be various social roles between men and women. Don't blindly locate the relationship between men and women. Since there can be many kinds of relationships between men and women, the intimate relationship between men and women is normal and there is no need to make it too complicated. It is not a bad thing for men and women to have a few friends of the opposite sex around. Friends of the opposite sex will have advantages over friends of the same sex. When encountering problems, friends of the opposite sex will help you to look at the problems rationally from the two sides of male and female opposition, and friends of the opposite sex will let you know a lot about the psychological characteristics of the opposite sex. For example, if you don't know how to argue with your husband, you will get some emotional opinions if you ask your same-sex friends for help. When you go to find a friend of the opposite sex, you will be given a rational analysis, and it is easy to find the answer. But as a husband, you will be proud in front of you and will never give you this answer and tell you what he really thinks. When encountering family conflicts, as a man, sometimes he can't understand the thoughts of his wife or lover, and your female friend will help you. Women will help you analyze it from a woman's point of view. The unique psychological characteristics of women can tell you what you don't understand, why your wife is so angry, and let you know the thinking habits and behavior characteristics of women. Such a direct and incisive analysis can only be done by friends of the opposite sex. However, this intimate relationship between the opposite sex should be based on the premise of not affecting marriage or love, and the most important thing is that both spouses know it, which is completely transparent. If there is anything to hide, such a friend of the opposite sex can easily cause misunderstanding. Although it is important to know friends, it is still important to focus on the harmony of family relations without affecting normal family life. Simple intimate friends between men and women are rare, but don't force them. It's best to let nature take its course. How to locate a confidante is that we are good brothers or sisters. It's easy to say, but it's actually a slap in the face-deceiving others. You never know what kind of existence you are in the other person's eyes and how attractive your personal charm is to him. Many people are afraid of failure, but they put their friends of the opposite sex in the "pursuit area", but they are afraid to start because they have no friends to do after they break the window paper. Should our "blue confidante" or "red confidante" get the moon first, or insist that rabbits don't eat grass beside their nests? There is no pure relationship between men and women. When a man is caught making out with another woman and talking to each other, he always likes to say: She is my beauty, and all men need beauty. No matter how bright and calm his eyes are. No woman should believe this stupid trick. There is no free lunch and no aimless love. Let him have a rest with beautiful women today. Tomorrow and the day after tomorrow, there will be more and more beautiful women around him! Above friendship, the so-called confidante, confidante, is the secret that men use to pursue inferior women and the spare tire that women use to deceive themselves. A bosom friend is an embarrassing situation in which friendship is above and love is not full. Usually I always ignore the ambiguous atmosphere between two people intentionally or unintentionally, and always feel that getting to know each other really makes people feel no other feelings. Because the other person is like another self, TA knows you, what you want and what you don't like. Warm reminder: the relationship between men and women still depends on their own definition, and we must make clear the positioning of bosom friends. There is no pure friendship between men and women.