Problem description:
Pain and happiness for nothing.
Analysis:
Easy reading has become a luxury.
Everyone has a different understanding of happiness, and I have asked a lot in successive interviews.
People's understanding of happiness has also heard different people describe the so-called happiness to me.
After a long time, it is inevitable to ask yourself, before answering, there is a picture in front of you.
I just finished an important job, probably the first day, and the effect is not bad, but
In the short term, there will be no work that needs your own participation, and there is a feeling of "stealing half a day"
I feel it's best to be in early autumn. It's always sunny, but there is still some wind, which is the best.
Cold, then open the doors and windows at home, let the background music ring when there is no sound, and the hand is over.
Pick up a book that I've always wanted to read but have no time to read. Sometimes page by page, sometimes page by page.
If it is windy, watch for a while, dive in, watch for a while, take a walk, and take a nap when you are sleepy.
Wake up and remember: where did I see it?
This is what I think of happiness. In fact, it is not difficult to achieve, but unfortunately: even if
It is not difficult and rare to realize.
When people are over 30, when it comes to reading, they have already passed the utilitarian stage, and turning pages is no longer for
Have a conversation material, or fill a blank in your mind and get rid of reading material at work.
Reading in life has become a pure pleasure. Therefore, we need a kind heart.
Love, also need to have a period of time to relax yourself, but the pain is: just these two points.
I seldom have.
Easy reading has become a luxury. For modern people, it should be regarded as a game.
tragedy
A few years ago, I read an essay written by Fang Fang, a female writer in Wuhan. Because of her job.
I am too busy to listen to a lot of music I want to listen to and have no time to read a lot of books I want to read.
Until one day, she was admitted to the hospital. Who would have thought that the music was heard and the book was processed, so,
I began to like hospital life. After reading this article, I have a chilling feeling, doctor.
If the hospital has become the spiritual refuge and nourishing place of modern people, then our daily life is real.
There is something to reflect on.
But it must be admitted that Fang Fang's exclamation is shared by many of us. By my side,
There is a real detail. Wang Lifen of News Investigation is recognized as dedicated to his career.
Busy is the characteristic of her life, but one day, she walked into the elevator and was suddenly
The music played in the elevator is deeply moving. The lady with high musical literacy sadly found that:
I haven't heard music for a long time.
Reading in the hospital, listening to music in the elevator, then feeling, and then continuing the original appearance.
Footsteps. I believe that Fangfang will continue to be busy after leaving the hospital, and there will be many Wang Lifen who take the elevator.
When you don't listen to music. The word "modern" has made our steps no longer under our control.
Which book will I take when I walk into this island?
A few years ago, Mr. Huang Jiwei once hosted a talk show on the radio with many guests.
Most of them are intellectuals, and the content of the interview is very interesting. Mr. Huang Jiwei will first tell the guests:
You will walk into an isolated island, and you will have no worries about food and clothing, but you are only allowed to bring a book and a record.
Which book and record do you want to take most? Then the interview begins.
I made a choice for myself on this issue: I will take a thick book by Mr. Lu Xun.
Of course, the complete works are not the kind of dozens of books. I brought a combination like Cihai.
The reduced font version is particularly large, and it is ok to be sleepy in the afternoon on a beautiful island.
As a pillow. It is my long-cherished wish to read Lu Xun carefully, though intermittently.
I have read a lot, but I have never read a word systematically. This has always been a place in my heart.
It hurts.
For intellectuals in China, Lu Xun is an insurmountable name, though it is not.
At the same time, the name Lu Xun was marked with different colors, but only when I calmed down and walked in.
In Lu Xun's words, you will soon know that Lu Xun will always belong to China.
Like Lu Xun, an intellectual who is "ashamed to talk, bow his head and be a willing ox" has
Not much later, I often feel that my spine is getting weaker and weaker in the rush. At this time, it is always
I will think of Lu Xun, because he is the most backbone intellectual in China. more
What's more, Lu Xun's incisive analysis of national character is still not outdated and still has warnings.
The function of words.
But unfortunately, people who were born in China and claimed to be intellectuals never read Lu Xun through.
This has made me uneasy for a long time. Fortunately, the island is just around the corner, and I finally have a unique one with Mr. Lu Xun.
I know that this Harle Lu Xun, this month's mood will not be relaxed, but relaxed mood.
Can you solve all the problems? What's more, the world outside the island makes us feel eternal.
Is it much simpler?
Reading Lu Xun is a spiritual calcium supplement, isolated for a month, and believe in your own bones.
It will become more difficult, which is a sign of health.
The problem of books has been solved. What about the music? Just bring Bach's average law! It's called
The piano plays biblical music. There is only one piano from beginning to end. At first, it sounded like a melody.
It's also very simple, but the more complicated it is, the better it sounds. Looks like you'll have to watch it.
Seemingly simple things have real connotations, and music is no exception.
Live a layman's life, get married and have children
For a time, in my living environment, it was normal not to have children, and it was normal to have children.
A little different. Everyone around you is a husband, whether in his 40 s or 30 s.
The two women had a good time. When they talked about children, they seemed a little disdainful, and then they advised me, "Since.
It's not easy enough to live, and you have to have a baby. Stop joking! "
I am skeptical, but I believe in the creed of "I am advised to eat enough". In the years after marriage,
I have lived happily for two years, and the idea of having children has been idle intentionally or unintentionally.
Let's go
But after a few years of this life, I suddenly found that this avant-garde life is not very suitable.
For me, just as I don't like lobster, I prefer potato vermicelli. I am vulgar.
A man, but so is his wife. Since laity is a couple, we should marry laity and have children.
Days, no matter how "childless" the brothers and sisters around us are, they live a fairy-like happy life.
Modern life, I want to quit it, even if I am accused of desertion.
It seems that the distant child has been waiting for his parents to call him on the earth for a long time, so when we
Soon after the couple thought of having children, he came to his mother's stomach as promised.
When I first heard the news, I was surprised, overwhelmed and looking for someone.
The impulse to blend in with the crowd and shout "I'm going to be a father"
The new life began to really get involved.
Like all parents, I am both happy and worried. Will the children be healthy in the future?
Do you have good facial features? Will the weather be fine on the road in October? We will be a qualified father.
Mom? This series of questions hovers in our husband and wife's mind every night and during the day.
It is mutual encouragement. I am confident when you are worried, and I am worried when you are confident. That's it.
Support and encourage progress. At this point, I realized that it is not just children who are pregnant in October.
It takes time to grow up in the mother's body, and it is also the time for young couples to enter before becoming future parents.
The preparation time is too short, too sudden and too painful.
My wife is no longer a young woman, but she has some glory as a mother and myself.
As a father a few months later, it seems that a layer of youth has faded.
Some things are hard to explain. My wife is a native of Jiangnan, but
After a few months of pregnancy, she often asked for mutton and milk tea, which she seldom touched in the past.
Our food became delicious. This reminds me of my hometown, grassland and mutton.
Is it really so wonderful to inherit the days related to milk tea?
It's less than two months before the due date, because I'm going to attend the Three Gorges section of the Yangtze River.
Live streaming, so my wife was sent back to her hometown to work. Day of departure, day
Busy with the live broadcast, thinking about the mother and son in the distance at night actually played down the busyness and fatigue during the day.
The live broadcast ended smoothly and I returned to Beijing to be busy with the daily program. People in the Jianghu can't help themselves.
I want to go back early to take care of my mother and my son, but I can't leave.
But my son can't wait, there are nearly 10 days. One night, I suddenly received it.
On my brother-in-law's phone, my wife has entered the delivery room. "You may become a father tonight." let me check.
Confused, I hurried to look at the plane schedule, but it was too late and there was no plane to Jiangsu, so I stayed.
I only have a flight tomorrow morning and an uneasy wait.
Fortunately, my mother-in-law is an excellent local expert in obstetrics and gynecology, but I still have no reason to be nervous and overreached.
Responsibility, phone call after phone call, but it's obviously busier there. I'm like a headless fly.
Running back and forth in the small room at home, sweat keeps flowing in the early winter weather; Not teaching.
Acts, also began to pray, the white walls around the home let me have a feeling of joy and fear intertwined.
Go to sleep, there is no claim.
An hour after midnight, my wife and brother called: "I gave birth, son, weighing 7 kg and 8 Liang."
Mother and child are safe. Come here quickly tomorrow. "
I finally put down my heart, but after a few minutes, I got up again, excited and eager to talk to my wife.
Children hug each other more strongly, and naturally there will be a sleepless night.
I don't remember how I boarded the plane in the morning, but the picture I can remember has reached the doctor.
The gate of the yard. When I walked into the maternal and infant room, my wife was lying tired and happy, and used her eyes first when she saw me.
God guided me to pay attention to the children around her. I know, in my life, I saw that child.
During the journey, a new life began to really intervene, both for him and my husband and wife.
Life is a new beginning.
For a long time, I was fearless, but with children, all this was nothing.
Similarly, sometimes when I walk to the window with my child in my arms, I will subconsciously step back, as if afraid to open it.
The window is very attractive. If the wife takes the children out to play, she will stay at home for no reason.
I'm worried about the endless traffic on the street ... this fear is beginning to increase, and I gradually understand it.
Think of others.
I don't want to be a foreign language illiterate.
There is such a joke, which is related to foreign language ability. Three little mice, a day of mice.
Under the leadership of my mother, I went out for a walk, singing birds and flowers, in a good mood, laughing and laughing all the way, which was very dangerous.
The danger suddenly came, and a cat appeared in front. The three little mice panicked at once, but the mice
Mother kept calm and said to the mouse, "Don't be afraid, look at me." Say that finish, mother mouse.
Shout loudly: "Wang Wang". When the cat heard the dog barking, it turned and ran away. Mother mouse said proudly.
Say to the mouse, "What's the matter? Mastering a foreign language is very important! "
After the joke was finished, the listener laughed. It's a little sad after being ridiculous. This kind of joke is average.
The people who are most willing to speak are people whose foreign languages are not good, which means a little ah q, indicating that there is a kind of eating.
The grapes are sour. In fact, foreign languages are really important.
How many times to go abroad, this is a good opportunity to learn from peers, but turn on the TV, in addition to learning one.
Guess the age of the host off the set, what to say, just confused! In the interview, foreigners
I'm around, I want to communicate, but what can I say except roll my eyes? So,
We can only understand how our western counterparts do TV through hearsay.
I don't want to be a foreign language illiterate. If I can't master a foreign language, I really can't.
Knowing the world, whether it is an individual or a country, maybe when I finish this manuscript, I will
Go and sign up for a foreign language class. It's not too late to start studying in your thirties. I really don't want this.
One leg enters the new century and the other stays in the past. If it is closed, it will naturally be eliminated. who
I don't want to give up halfway. I really hope to meet you one day, and we will talk in a foreign language for a long time.
Later, as proud as mother mouse, she said, "What's the matter? It is still important to master a foreign language.
Yes! "
Learning to cooperate is the primary task faced by TV people.
Cooperation is not only my weakness, but also our weakness I used to do newspaper broadcasting, but
The particularity of TV is very different, and the most important thing is that people need to cooperate with each other.
When I was a newspaper reporter, I took a notebook, at most a tape recorder and left. After the interview,
I think hard, and I am very happy and fulfilled after writing the article, and so is the radio station.
One night's program, pushing a car full of music CDs into the live room, after hosting, thinking
Of course, the communication on the radio just now was also enjoyable.
But it is more difficult to enjoy life on TV. No camera, no recording, no host, no director.
You can't do this job, even the most frugal, you still have to be a cameraman and a reporter, and you have to run together.
Don't drop it If you cooperate well, the program will get extra points, but if the lens is reduced by 10, the director and
The host also lowered the score, and it is a question whether the final program can pass.
However, cooperation is not simply understood as good interpersonal relationship, but how to cooperate.
Having a good relationship and stimulating their potential, especially the latter, is almost the weakness of all of us.
I once interviewed a Chinese-American scientist who worked with thousands of scientists.
I asked him a question: in the new century, people
What is the most important quality of talents? He replied: the spirit of cooperation. Hearing this answer, I was silent
For a long time, it was another proposition about the new century, but I believe what he said is right.
China is not a country with a tradition of cooperative spirit. For example, in the field of music, I
Children are used to using an erhu or an guqin to tell their feelings, while western musicians are good at playing different ones.
Musical instruments are combined together, moving us with the harmonious music brought by cooperation. Of course, speaking of cooperation.
Work, we also have a feature, that is, we can get into trouble, but we can't enjoy ourselves. How many people?
In difficult times, we are close friends, but when things get better, intrigue comes. For example, we
Everyone can lift a lot.
Therefore, when someone asks me what kind of talent I should be in the new century, I often answer like this.
Answer: "No matter what occupation you are engaged in, you should strive to be a player of a 1 1 football team."
Replaceable parts. "
I will continue to learn cooperation, and many of us will learn how to cooperate, even can.
A little higher: Whether China can really be strong in the new century depends on us first.
Whether to learn to cooperate.
For tomorrow, please agree with me.