The main family events that affect pupils' mental health include: disharmony between parents, excessive parental control, parents' neglect of children, school bullying, academic pressure and parents' high expectations.
1, parents are at odds. The relationship between parents is an important part of children's growing environment. If parents are nervous and often quarrel, children may feel fear and anxiety, which will affect their mental health.
2. Parents care too much. Overcontrolling children may make them feel suffocated and helpless. When children's life and study are strictly monitored, they may not be able to explore and grow freely, resulting in negative emotions for their families.
Parents neglect their children. Neglect is a kind of mental abuse to children. When children are neglected, they may feel that they are not worthy of attention and love, and thus have doubts about their self-worth.
4. school bullying. School bullying is an act that seriously damages children's mental health. Victims may have negative emotions such as inferiority, fear and depression, and may even lead to psychological trauma.
5. Academic pressure. With the increasingly fierce academic competition, children are under great academic pressure. When children can't meet the expectations of parents and teachers, they may feel depressed and affect their self-esteem.
6. Parents have high expectations. Parents' high expectations may put a lot of pressure on their children. When children can't meet these expectations, they may have a negative evaluation of themselves, thus damaging their self-esteem.
Ways to prevent childhood shadows:
1, creating a harmonious family atmosphere. Parents should strive to create a harmonious family atmosphere and try to avoid quarreling in front of their children. In addition, parents should also pay attention to their children's feelings, respect their needs and give them care and support.
2. Arrange children's life and study reasonably. Parents should arrange their children's life and study reasonably according to their age and interests. Avoid excessive control, give children some autonomy and give them the opportunity to make decisions according to their own interests and needs.
3. Pay attention to children's mental health. Parents and educators should pay attention to children's mental health and find and solve psychological problems in time. When children encounter difficulties, they should be given care and support to help them tide over the difficulties.
4. Prevent school bullying. Schools should strengthen the prevention and management of school bullying. Teachers should pay attention to students' behavior and find and deal with bullying in time. At the same time, schools should also carry out relevant educational activities to improve students' awareness and awareness of bullying.
5. Reduce academic pressure. Parents and teachers should pay attention to children's academic pressure and try to reduce their burden. Arrange children's study time and extracurricular activities reasonably, so that children have the opportunity to relax and develop their hobbies.