How to understand the world?

The way of the world is the method, truth and experience of dealing with people, which comes from the preface to sending a monk. "There are two kinds of soul withering in life, one is that you have never seen the essence of your heart, and the other is that you have died in this world."

Life is the world.

The general worldly wisdom is human feelings: it refers to the temperament between people. The word "human feelings" means feelings that people get along well with each other. Sophisticated: These things in the world. Understanding people and things is called the world. Or the way of the world refers to the method and wisdom of dealing with people. Let's take a look at a few "worldly wisdom" that are easily overlooked:

1. Even if we are not big shots, we can always talk to them with a consulting attitude and tone, because a person does not judge a book by its cover, and many practical tutors often come from humble life and work.

2. People who take the initiative to order food at dinner are not suitable for asking the host and guests to order food, because that is not what distinguished people usually do, but please pay attention to asking their preferences instead of just ordering what they like to eat. But this requires studying the menu at ordinary times and accumulating ordering experience.

3. Always look for friends, partners and colleagues (even children) who deserve recognition. Pay attention, even the boss needs your recognition, but try to praise ordinary friends in private.

When you are praised by others for your looks, things and personality, don't take it for granted and don't pretend to deny it. The appropriate way is to express gratitude, especially to thank your friends for their affirmation and support.

5. Learn to use bills, including IOUs, receipts, leave slips and application letters. If you take the initiative to use these notes, others will think that you are very standardized. If you know how to ask others to do so, you and the future will be better handled with evidence. Writing a note will impress others.

6. Even if you are not a service person, taking the initiative to pour water when friends or colleagues have guests will make friends and colleagues have great face and make guests feel that your friends and colleagues have great prestige. This will make your friends and colleagues especially grateful for your gesture.

The worldly wisdom is not only the place where the rough jade of the heart is lost, but also the source of life interest. The world is like this, and the heart is sincere, and the world can be established. No, there are cages everywhere.