First of all, if you think this "good" means the high salary of senior officials, or the high salary of executives, or the bright future of becoming famous and married, please stay in the big city.
If you want your child to embark on a career, or have a well-paid job, or let your child become famous and have a family, or let your child start his own business and achieve something, you can consider staying in a big city.
Because after all, big cities have advantages in all aspects of resources, which can better help children get ahead or excel in the future. Studying in a big city has better educational resources and greater opportunities for job development.
Secondly, if you think this "good" means being close to nature and developing nature, please go back to your hometown in the countryside.
Because in rural hometown, you can look at the mountains and water facing the loess. This is the place closest to nature, where you can eat the healthiest food, drink the healthiest water and breathe the freshest air. This is also the rural life that many modern urbanites yearn for. Without the constraints and repression of the reinforced concrete jungle in big cities and the high pressure and anxiety of urbanites, we can live a relatively relaxed and happy life.
Of course, whether you stay in a big city or go back to your hometown in the countryside, no matter which one you think is good for your children, it is your own idea after all. When a child grows up, he may not think that the lifestyle you choose for him is good, or he may not think that the path you choose for him is correct.
Therefore, whether you go or stay, what needs to be respected is your inner voice and what kind of life you want, not what you think is good for your children. Only by living the life of our own generation can we be better responsible for the future of our children. It doesn't matter where you live, what matters is your attitude towards life.
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