Dear parents:
Hello everyone! First of all, please allow us, on behalf of the school and all the sixth grade teachers, to thank you for your strong support for our graduating class. You can take time out of your busy schedule to attend the parent-teacher meeting of our graduating class today, which shows that everyone cares about their children. Yes, which parent doesn't want his son to become a dragon? Which parent doesn't want a girl to become a phoenix? Which teacher doesn't want his students to succeed? Since parents, teachers and schools all have a common desire to educate them well, let's join hands and work together to educate your children and our students well.
Education for students includes family education, school education and social education. But to tell the truth, our social education situation is worrying at present. An expert once wrote: "Five plus two equals zero." What do you mean? That is to say, the school family spent five days in positive education, and in one weekend, the students returned to society and learned everything. Yes, take our Artux for example: how many video game halls, how many Internet cafes, how many billiards rooms, how many mahjong halls, and many negative things. As parents, schools can't eliminate these things that are not conducive to educating children. When we have no other choice, only schools and families work together to create a good educational environment. Below, I will talk with you about the problems that parents are concerned about and confused about, hoping to help you.
First, the school attaches great importance to the work of the sixth-grade graduating class.
At present, there are 3 1 class in our school, with nearly 1.80 students and 77 in-service teachers. There are about 60 students in each class. As we all know, in last semester's pop-up exam, our school's performance has made obvious progress, with a difference of 2 points between Chinese and state, and only 0.5 points in mathematics. This fully shows that under the leadership of President Xu, the teaching quality of our school has been obviously improved.
There are five classes and 242 students in grade six in our school. In the case of very busy school work, the school has held many school committees to study the work of graduating classes; President Xu clearly stated: "Quality is life." We must confidently grasp the slogan of education quality, and the school has painstakingly arranged teachers for the graduating class, including the headmaster Huang, the director of the teaching department Chen Yanmei and. Among the 10 math and Chinese teachers in five classes in the whole grade, there are 6 senior teachers, 2 first-class teachers, 9 college graduates and 3 undergraduate students. I can say responsibly that it is the strongest lineup in our school. All of the above is enough to show that our school attaches great importance to this graduating class. Teachers are experienced, positive and have good morals. Please rest assured.
Second, the basic situation of recent graduates
This year, there are 10 students in the sixth grade graduating class in our city, including 5 students from Zhouyi Primary School and 5 students from our school. There are nearly 500 graduates in the city. In the last final exam, the average score of Chinese was 76.3, among which 187 students with a score above 85 accounted for 4 1%, 280 students with a score between 60 and 84 accounted for 48%, and 38 students failed for 9%. The average math score is 93. Compared with our class, we are just below average. This year, our state will implement unified proposition, unified examination, single desk, two invigilators and unified marking. These new requirements are undoubtedly a very severe challenge for teachers, students and parents.
Third, in the face of challenges, our countermeasures
A few years ago, a few words were popular: "Sell salt, sell tea, sell eggs to build atomic bombs, and take razors and scalpels. Primary school students are looking for big money, while college students are looking for small money. " This inversion of mental labor and manual labor is extremely abnormal. Now the knowledge economy is booming, and Bill Gates, the richest man in the world, has become the richest man in the world through the Internet. A few days ago, there was a news in Education Information that Shanghai universities will take the lead in implementing the annual salary system, with teachers' salaries ranging from 300,000 to 300,000. This number is beyond our imagination in the past. A classmate of mine applied for a job in a joint venture after graduation, with an annual salary of nearly100000, not including dividends. Parents: This is knowledge, knowledge is power, knowledge is wealth, and knowledge can lead us to get rid of poverty and become rich and run towards a well-off society. Let's look at those people around us who get rich first. They are nothing more than management, or information spirit, management and information spirit. This is all knowledge. Education is an intellectual investment, which will bring rich returns to investors. My younger brother is also a senior three student in a key middle school in Urumqi. I wrote down all his expenses for a semester, more than 5400 yuan. It is an idiotic dream to think that there will be a return if you don't invest. If your child is admitted to a good university, he will become a manager and manage others. If your child is only a junior high school student, secondary school students and vocational high school students can only be managed. In another ten or twenty years, it's no use being an ignorant farmer. Our school is anxious for parents. For parents, we began to make up lessons for our children last semester, including morning exercises, self-study in the afternoon, and Chinese and math tutoring in the third class in the afternoon. It's April 26th, and the exam for the graduating class is estimated to be around June 20th, less than two months. Except weekends and May Day holidays, children actually spend less than 40 days at school, so we may take some new lessons and make up some extra lessons during the make-up period. After the holiday, we may take advantage of Saturday's tutoring. Teachers use the rest time and Saturday morning to have free activities. Primary school is the period when children lay the foundation. There is an old saying in China that "high buildings rise from the ground". Poor foundation will make children regret for a lifetime.
Fourth, where should parents start to improve their children's academic performance?
Some parents are anxious when they see their children slackening their studies after entering school. Some parents often complain, scold or even punish their children. This is very wrong. As we all know, there is a process to develop study habits. Pavlov, an outstanding physiologist in the Soviet Union, believes that establishing a habit is to establish a new "dynamic stereotype". The establishment of this "stereotype" is often based on the premise of destroying the previous "stereotype", and this process can not be completed in a short time. What's more, this is especially true for primary school students. It is understandable to be "eager for success" and "hate iron and not produce steel", but it is actually impossible. Therefore, it is necessary to "refine successfully" or "make iron into steel" to have an effect.
So, where should parents start to improve their children's academic performance?
First, catch your homework. It should be stipulated that children must finish their homework and check it after school. Don't rush your oral homework and review your homework.
Second, grasp the attitude. We need to concentrate, study hard and have the courage to overcome the difficulties in learning. Writing should be neat, clean and accurate, not "anticlimactic" or "dancing with the wind".
Third, grasp skills. Ask questions, do homework, be accurate, be quick, and seek quality quickly; Language expression should be clear, vivid and manual, and oral recitation should be skilled.
Fourth, grasping ability, mainly observation, attention, memory, imagination and thinking ability. We should pay attention to cultivating these abilities in all after-school studies.
Children are still young, and the beginning of training should be mandatory, that is, specific requirements, specific supervision and specific inspection. Some parents ask a lot, but they don't carefully check and implement them. After a long time, children know their parents' temper thoroughly, and then they get rid of their parents' emptiness. Only when they have specific requirements for their children can they feel the seriousness of their parents' requirements and then restrain themselves from turning them into actions. Practice has proved that they can persist in learning children correctly.
Five, the enlightenment of successful tutoring and failed tutoring.
In the communication with teachers, many parents will almost say that our children listen to teachers most. In fact, have parents thought deeply about it? Why do children listen to teachers instead of parents? Because our teacher has mastered the methods of children's psychology and educating students, I want to discuss with parents some problems about how to educate children:
1. Parents are children's closest teachers, and their every move affects their children's growth. Makarenko, a famous educator in the former Soviet Union, said: A child's first teacher is his parents. Every word and deed, every move, a look and even an invisible spiritual world will exert a subtle influence on the child. If our parents are kind, caring and helpful to their elders, their children will unite their classmates, help others enthusiastically, respect teachers and have harmonious interpersonal relationships. On the contrary, some of our parents play cards all day and have the habit of taking advantage of small things. Their children will also play and touch small things. Therefore, I hope that our parents must set an example and always set an example for their children.
Mr Tao Xingzhi, a famous educator, once said, "Learn from thousands of miles and be a real person." Life education is the core of family education. If a child wants to become a talent, he must first teach him to be a man. Our parents want their children to be "useful" people, and they have taken pains in knowledge and skills, neglecting the cultivation of their children's quality and character, resulting in lifelong regret. Therefore, I hope that parents should use their own personality to influence their children, to guide every bit of their lives, and to really set an example. Only people with excellent quality and sound personality can be useful to the country, society and family.
3. Pay attention to all-round quality training, so that children can develop physically and mentally healthily.
Children, like small trees, need water, soil, sunshine and nourishment in their growth. Facing the challenge of knowledge economy, knowledge and skills are important, but a healthy mind and a strong body are also important. I have a classmate in primary school who is the monitor. He is a good student from primary school to high school. She's really good. However, during the college entrance examination, he suddenly fell ill. As a result, she was the only one in her class who didn't go to college. She is worried like a fool. She is unmarried and has to be taken care of by her parents. She did this because everything was so smooth that she couldn't bear the sudden blow. Therefore, our parents should create some conditions for their children so that they can bear setbacks and develop physically and mentally.
Rough teaching is the easiest way to destroy children's minds.
Our parents all believe in the backward concept of "Huang Jing sticks out a good man". The mistake to children is not persuasion, but treating each other with fists and feet. This will have two consequences, one is to make children form a cowardly psychology, and the other is to sow the seeds of cruelty in their hearts. No pains, no gains. This kind of seed erupts under certain circumstances, and the consequences are devastating and disastrous. In the summer of 2002, a pair of twin sisters in Anshun, Guizhou poisoned their parents. My father is a manager of a company, and my mother is a cadre of Anshun Education Committee. They have a pair of lovely twin daughters. However, the two sisters were punished by their parents because they failed in the senior high school entrance examination. The two sisters poisoned their parents with tetramine, which led to the destruction of their families and shocked the whole country. Therefore, our parents must be rational, emotional and persistent with their children, and will certainly receive good results.
Love without education will eventually hurt children.
Parents, you can't plant crops without watering. If you water them too much, you will drown. Educating children can't be without love, but we must love moderately and rationally. Spoiling is a very stupid love, which often destroys children in sweetness. As the saying goes, "spoil like killing a child." Nowadays, many parents treat their children as little emperors, and many children suffer from "April 21" syndrome. Grandmother, grandfather, grandfather, grandmother, father and mother all revolve around the child, which is very unfavorable to the growth of the child. There are countless tragedies caused by doting. Our parents often say that "no matter how hard you suffer, you can't suffer your children", but people who are getting richer should also think deeply, "No matter how rich you are, you can't spoil your children." This sentence deserves our parents' deep thought.
6. Pay attention to adolescent education and navigate instantly when navigating.
Many students in our sixth grade have gradually entered adolescence, which poets call a beautiful flower season, while physiologists call it a period of "psychological turmoil" or "psychological storm". Children's physical development is rapid, and their sexual physiology is gradually mature, but they are in the "weaning period" psychologically, and their mentality will be more sensitive and unstable than before, and parents are in urgent need of careful guidance. Our school will also carry out some sex education and mental health education for children. I hope our parents will pay attention to children's physical and psychological changes and do psychological counseling, because you are closer to children and have more advantages than school teachers.
Six, some situations in the classroom:
Most students study hard, the class construction is solid, and progress is one after another. It can be said that my two years of ups and downs on behalf of a class have sharpened the students' strong will and forged a profound friendship between our teachers and students. At the same time, our class has made a lot of achievements. Last semester, three students were rated as "three good students" and two students were also rated as "excellent students". Several students ranked in the top ten in the school writing competition. The most gratifying thing is that our class An Lei won the first place in the Quanzhou Composition Competition last semester. This is inseparable from the efforts of every student in Class 6 (3) and the support of every parent present. Please allow me to express my gratitude to the parents who support the work of our school again. I am also sincerely proud of every progress made by my classmates and their excellent achievements. Of course, while making achievements, I am also soberly aware that there are some problems. Some students have poor academic performance and do not have a good understanding of the importance of learning. Parents also let it develop and care about their children's learning. The reason is that we are too busy to take care of him. Some parents never take the initiative to ask the teacher about their children's study and school performance.
Parents are requested to pay attention to cultivating children's abilities and good moral character in all aspects.
In order to make every child an adult, he can become a talent. Let every child develop lively, lively and healthy in the class. I will try to establish a democratic, equal and harmonious teacher-student relationship with my children. In class, the teacher talks about leading children to study, explore, question and ask difficult questions together, so that every child's wisdom spark can shine in every class. I hope the parents and teachers present here will work together to realize this beautiful ideal.
1, support the school, support the work of all teachers, and put forward valuable opinions and suggestions.
2. Create a good family education environment. Spend as much time as possible with children, communicate with them frequently, learn to treat the problems encountered in their growth equally with children, encourage them more, give them confidence, cultivate their positive and optimistic attitude towards life, be good at discovering their advantages, patiently guide them to treat their shortcomings correctly, and make plans to help them correct their shortcomings. )
3. Always bring children into contact with society, study various social phenomena and create a better life. Make good friends, participate in beneficial club activities, take part in physical exercise, do small experiments, make small inventions, compile handwritten newspapers, compile composition collections, etc. Let the children develop in an all-round way. )
4. Read more healthy extracurricular books. Healthy reading is an important part of growth. )
5. Treat children's scores correctly. Don't think that grades are everything, and your exam scores are high. Guide children not to be complacent; The exam results are not ideal, so we should study the problem with teachers and children. )
The above are my opinions exchanged with parents on students' ideology and morality, learning and education methods, and physical and mental health counseling. For your reference. If you have any questions, please criticize and correct me. I will thank you very much, because it is your wish to educate your children well, and it is also the wish of our school and teachers. Thank you all.