How to correctly guide children's comparison psychology?

Children are easily influenced by peers, adults, social environment and other multiple factors in the process of growing up, thus producing the psychology of keeping up with the joneses. This is a common and universal psychological problem. Parents can guide their children's comparison psychology through the following aspects:

1. Establish a correct outlook on life and values. Parents should start from an early age, pay attention to cultivating their children's pursuit and ideals in life, help them establish a correct outlook on life and values, and let them understand that life is not only utilitarian and beneficial.

2. Encourage children to try new things. Children are easier to compare with others, because they lack self-confidence and opportunities to try. Parents need to encourage their children to dare to try new things, improve their self-confidence and let them know that everyone has their own advantages and specialties.

3. Establish a good family environment. Parents should create a harmonious, equal, free and respectful atmosphere in the family environment. At the same time, parents should set an example and let their children understand that having material things does not mean having happiness.

4. Guide children's attention and energy to positive aspects. Parents can help their children solve the comparison psychology by encouraging them to participate in some competitions or activities, and at the same time encourage them to learn different skills and knowledge, cultivate their various hobbies and improve their sense of self-worth.

In short, parents need to pay attention to their children's mental health, help them establish self-confidence and correct life values through correct guidance, and let them understand from the heart that material is not the only criterion for measuring happiness in life.