1, restricted by the other party.
A healthy relationship and the right love mean that two people can be themselves easily. Moreover, in this relationship, both people will be surrounded by single-minded love. An unhealthy marriage relationship will always make people feel "restricted". People who keep saying that they love you are actually binding you with "double standards"! For example, you can't comment in his own circle, but no matter who you associate with, he always preaches to you. A restricted relationship will never be a healthy relationship. Just a person who is jealous of selfishness and ego, that kind of "control" over you. Makes you feel less relaxed and happy.
2. Being isolated and feeling lonely.
In a healthy relationship, your partner will respect your family. Even if your relationship with your family is not good enough, he (she) will play the role of mediator when necessary, and he will always show his attention to you in front of his family. In this way, tell his family that you must not be bullied. On the contrary, an unhealthy relationship will isolate you. They are worried about your family. They will indoctrinate you with what they think is "unfavorable", separate you from their family with all kinds of words and actions, and regard him as the only pillar in their lives.
I can't see that you are better than him in all aspects.
A healthy marriage relationship must be mutual support, mutual achievement and mutual growth. Unhealthy relationships are just the opposite. In an unhealthy relationship, your partner always wants to climb on your shoulder and highlight his omnipotent light with your black tone. When a person does this, he is not only inferior and narrow-minded, but also a person who knows nothing about love.