1. Self-expansion ability, that is, a wide range of activities, many friends and hobbies, and active participation in various social activities;
2. The ability to communicate with others enthusiastically, be compassionate without possessiveness and jealousy, and tolerate the differences in values between others and themselves;
3. Emotional security and self-identity, can tolerate conflicts and setbacks, stand up to misfortune, and maintain a good image and optimistic attitude towards themselves;
4. Seeking truth from facts and looking at things realistically is "understanding people" rather than "confusing people";
5. Have self-objectivity, know what you have and what you lack, understand the gap between your real self and your ideal self, and know how others view yourself;
6. Have a consistent philosophy of life, live for a certain purpose, have a great desire, and be able to generate creative impetus for their actions.