A person often quarrels with you. Anyway, he noticed you! Either he likes you, or she is jealous of you, or he is a person who likes to wrangle.
I once met a boy who often liked to argue with only one girl in the department. Boys always deny what girls say to their faces and giggle. Girls are often angry. The people next to him saw that the boy liked girls and advised him not to live. He said he just liked Doby to attract her attention for fun. Later, the girl made up with a peaceful and considerate boy.
So, if you really like others, don't always argue with her. You only care about your own thoughts and don't understand other people's feelings. I don't really like it.
Some people will be jealous of you for a while, while others will be jealous for a long time. At work, you should pay attention. Some people like to beat you for a long time, argue with you, and then speak ill of you on others. This kind of person is jealous. There are few such people with her. You will be hurt by her as a punching bag one day.
And those who always argue with others, regardless of occasions and people, are ignorant, irritable, comfortable, and sometimes hurt people unconsciously. This kind of person doesn't keep his word. Sometimes, if you convince him, he will understand.
When you meet these people who like to wrangle, sometimes you should not be too weak. When appropriate, you should dare to express your views, show your position and have your own opinions, so that others will not easily argue with you.
Why do people always like to go behind my back?
Hello, I'm glad to discuss this topic with you. I want to talk about my personal views from the following aspects.
1, you are a favorite person. Get to know each other. As long as you are around, friends and colleagues love to make fun of you and run around behind your back. For example, something is considered square, but you think it is a garden. Actually, everything is fine, and the stool is round. This wrangling is unintentional.
2. You are a humorous person. Life is full of fun, seemingly painful and troublesome things. You handle troubles and shields in a wrangling way, which makes people feel happy and harmonious. I also think it is a condiment of life, a lubricant of interpersonal relationship, and beneficial to personal physical and mental health. Everything has two sides, and there is no dispute over who is right and who is wrong.
You are a stubborn person. In dealing with people, you have a great personality, and you don't listen at all if it's appropriate. People say you talk about the east and the west, but everyone always comes in the opposite direction. Over time, people have an aversion to you and can only argue with you.
In fact, there are also people around us who love to fight. This is not surprising. As long as it is not to find fault, it is also a happy thing to raise the bar in good faith, because people can always remember that there is another person who loves to lift the bar to death.
May my answer bring you happiness. Let's cheer for Wuhan and ourselves!
Flattery means that no matter what you say, no matter right or wrong, you will stand on the opposite side of you, and you will be found fault or provoked. This kind of thing is rare in normal life unless you really have something to do with it.
When you say that others always argue with you, you mean that anyone can give you a hard time and find fault with you. This should be your personal feeling. Everyone is an independent individual, who has his own cognition and views on things, and can freely express his own views. We can stick to our own views and argue, but we don't need to change others' views. There are many things, everyone sees and thinks differently, so when someone has different opinions from you, as long as you think you are right, you ignore others, and they just stick to their own opinions instead of arguing with you.
It is common to be scolded by others. If you want to change, you must convince people slowly, be reliable, sincere and steady.
Being dragged down by others is not always a bad thing. There are several possibilities.
First, you have personality. When you meet people with the same personality, it is inevitable to wrangle. Because there are different views on a work problem, as long as it can be solved in the end, what's wrong?
Second, we usually have a good relationship and talk about everything, and our status is similar. People often have different issues to discuss, and they can't all agree. I have a good relationship with you, and I'm not afraid to offend you by raising the bar. This shows that you have a good popularity, and you dare not avoid those who have a bad popularity. Do you still argue with him?
Third, tell the judge about it. I just love to tease you and even enjoy it. He will only be happy when he makes you angry and is poor in words. But sometimes it is really possible to fight, and we must grasp the discretion.
Fourth, there is a kind of person who is jealous and doesn't think others are better than him. He always likes to catch what others say and attack others, which shows his erudition?
There is also a natural stubborn donkey who will argue with everyone except himself, even if he is clearly wrong.
What kind do you belong to?