1, in the face of cruel reality, although there is only one child, both boys and girls, if it is successful. Generally speaking, girls and boys have stable incomes and warm families. After 60, the happiness index of parents is still relatively high. If children fail to live up to expectations, they will not study and have no skills. Parents after 60 are worried that they will be unwilling when they close their eyes!
After 2.60, most people don't want to be a burden to their children, so they can only support themselves. If they have a full and stable pension and a decent life, they can also help their children by saving money. If laid off, ordinary farmers in rural areas are expected to have a much more difficult life. I hope my children can take care of them and help my parents spend their happy old age, so don't expect too much.
Most of the only children born after 3.60 are born after 1980s and 1990s. Their survival pressure is enormous, with high prices, high housing prices, high medical expenses and high tuition fees. If they actively respond to the second child policy, it is difficult for them to deal with the young couple alone. Plus there are four old people on it. I fully expect them to take good care of the elderly, but my heart is willing, but I can't!
I believe that the four old people are unwilling to add more trouble to their children. They can take care of themselves and will never disturb their children.
I am also a post-60s who retired after working for six years. I've also thought about providing for the aged. I don't want to be a burden to the children. I will try to take care of myself in the future and pay attention to healthy savings at ordinary times. If you can't afford domestic workers in the future, you will take the initiative to go to the nursing home. If you live in a hospital for a long time and live on oxygen, it will not only consume your savings, but also drag down your children's families and make them fall into poverty. This is even less worthwhile. You can't destroy young people's families for your own self-interest. Such thoughts are not negative or depressed. So when you can take care of yourself, try to be happy every day.
I was ready for this. I don't expect children, nor can I expect them. He has to support his family, and now he is under great pressure at work. You can't do both. At that time, the state promised that the parents of the only child would be supported by the state. If the state left it alone, it would prepare a hundred tablets of diazepam and quietly take away a cloud.
By this time, there is no idea. Expect euthanasia to be legalized, and you can die with dignity when you don't want to live or suffer.
It's a long story How did you get old in a flash? Time flies too fast. /kloc-born in 0/963, we are 57 years old, and I have retired for two years. As for how to provide for the elderly, I really don't know, because traditionally, it is to raise children to prevent old age, but it is unrealistic to face reality. After all, a family has only one child, whether it is a son or a daughter, it is the pride of parents. When I get used to the care of my parents when I grow up, I will inevitably think more about myself and it is difficult to take care of my parents' feelings. Moreover, with the intensification of social competition, their survival pressure is also great. In addition, the state allows them to have two children, and their own affairs are too busy. How can they take care of at least four old people? Fortunately, a child's parents basically have pensions, so they don't have to worry about financial problems. Most of them can help them financially and materially. I want to help my children as much as possible, adjust my mentality and exercise myself. It is the best ending not to drag them down when I am old. As for whether I was in the hospital, in a nursing home or at home alone for a while before my death, I can only resign myself to fate. It is best to run out of oil and die, not to get sick and not to disturb others, and to stick to the last breath and naturally go west.
The post-60s and post-70s are the last generation to honor their parents and the first generation to be abandoned by their children. They can't control the only child if they want to.
As a farmer, you don't have to prepare. Farmer, born in Gengzi, animal year, only child.
There is no need to prepare for the problem of old-age care, and it can't be prepared.
Nobody wants to work at the age of 60.
3.5 mu of responsibility farmland in the home, machine ploughing, machine planting, machine harvesting, drug weeding, less labor input.
If the weather is fine, we are responsible for the income in the field, earning one season in two seasons, with an annual income of about 3000.
There is also a monthly pension for the elderly over 60 years old in rural areas 100 yuan, and a monthly bonus for family planning in rural areas, 80 yuan.
In order to improve living standards and increase income, 0.2 mu of land was specially set aside from the responsible field as a vegetable garden to plant various vegetables. In addition to their own consumption, the surplus is brought to town to buy. If the situation is better, the income from selling vegetables will go to 20 yuan one day 10.
There are more than a dozen old hens and two milk goats at home, and there are plenty of milk eggs all the year round.
Wheat and corn have been planted in more than 3 acres of responsible fields. There is enough food to eat after selling the surplus grain.
Have food in your hand, but don't panic in your heart.
Children go to work in other places and come back to 500 yuan every Dragon Boat Festival and Mid-Autumn Festival; Come back to visit relatives during the Chinese New Year and give home 2000 yuan during the Chinese New Year.
When life enters a well-off society, more money is spent and less is spent.
The old couple have the new rural cooperative medical system, and medical care is guaranteed.
Try to keep yourself healthy and reduce the burden on children and their families.
Farmers have no retirement age and continue to move forward according to their current working and living standards.
"Granary knows etiquette, food and clothing know honor and disgrace", rural elderly people live in a new era and feel very happy.
/kloc-after 0/960, I was born in a difficult era, studying, becoming an adult, getting married and having children ... along the way, I was full of hardships and struggles! First of all, I was born in the countryside in the 1960s. I have three children, two women and a man. In order to raise children and change poor and abandoned families, my wife and I get up early and get greedy, scrimp and save, plant crops well and go to the city to earn money desperately. Now the child has grown up and got married, and has a good job. Heaven rewards diligence, which is what I want most, and I feel honored!
You may delay, but time will not. In the face of entering old age, I really didn't think much about providing for the elderly. As long as I do it myself, I'd better go back to the countryside!
Grow some food and vegetables in the countryside, try to be self-reliant and give children less trouble.
Don't think so much, everything will work out in the end. When we reach the mountain, we will talk about it. As for us, we really can't take care of ourselves, and our children will take care of us. Is it useful to think so much now?
I now say hello to my friends of the same generation after 60! I wish you good health, peace and happiness! As long as the mentality is good, everything goes with fate!
Welcome friends to comment and make suggestions.
1960 years later, we will soon enter the ranks of the elderly population, and the problem of providing for the aged is an urgent problem to be considered.
The post-60s are an embarrassing generation. With the change of the national system, the old-age security basically depends on oneself, and the old-age mechanism is not perfect, so people begin to try various things, such as entering a nursing home, holding a group to support the elderly and so on.
So, how to care for the elderly as yourself?
First, try to live with your children. I can look after the children and cook for them. I'm not alone.
Second, keep one of your hobbies. Try to make yourself happy and dependent.
Third, do a good job in your own living security and medical security. Make good use of your pension and plan your life reasonably. Medical security is to make full use of the national medical insurance policy.
I feel that having one or two children has nothing to do with being an only child. Our generation of parents still enjoy our care. Children will think for their parents whenever anything happens. We can't think about the next generation. We can't wait to absorb your pension, and our family ties have gone bad. Even if we are lucky, we still expect them to be filial. We will live a good life, throw out all our money and houses and leave this heartless society.
I was born after 60 and gave birth to a boy in response to the "call of the party"; Now my son graduated from college, worked for many years, got married and had his own children. What's wrong with a family with four generations living under one roof, happiness and stability?
Why should we shift the responsibility of providing for the aged to society and families? Didn't they all work (or farm, work and do business) when they were young? A young man can earn tens of thousands a year! Why not plan your old age when you have cable? At the beginning, the payment base of social security was not high, even if it was short of money, it could squeeze out hundreds or thousands of yuan to participate in a social security payment (including urban and rural residents' endowment insurance). When you are sitting in a mahjong room and lose hundreds of thousands in one night, why don't you shout no money? How can you go out to eat out with that evil friend, squander hundreds of thousands of meals and have no money? Even though I courted Liu, I didn't expect you to have a home.
This is human greed!
If you plan your future pension when you are young, as long as you participate in social insurance payment when you are young, no matter how much you get after retirement; It can also reduce the burden on families; Both your son and daughter are your children, as long as you are conscientious in raising him, educating him and taking care of him; And love the family, I firmly believe that these children will respect and filial their parents; If you spend all your time drinking and drinking, being extravagant and extravagant when you are young, beating and cursing your wife and children from time to time, and not raising your children when you are old, you deserve it!
It's hard for us laid-off workers in the city after 60 s and 70 s Most of these people are only-child families. After they are laid off, they are faced with life and death. More than 95% people don't bear the burden of humiliation. For the family, for the children, for myself, I am tired of running around and desperately saving money from my teeth to pay "flexible employment social security". Now, it's time for them to retire; Because of the social security paid when I was young, I can still receive a pension of several thousand yuan every month after retirement. Do you still have money to support your old age?
Parents of rural "one-child families" are better. After their parents reach the age of 60, the government will reward each person 1080 yuan every year, plus they still have some land. As long as you are healthy, you don't need to spend money to eat and drink. Plus, if you have been in 200 yuan for more than one year, you can still get a pension of one or two hundred yuan in January, and your children can be taken care of, so your old age is basically no problem.
And the "one-child" families in cities and towns, if they don't pay social security, can't retire, can't get a pension, and have to buy oil, salt and vinegar rice, but what should they do if they have no money? Rely on government assistance? I saw that you were in pain, and it was not so easy for low-income households to apply for approval. Even if you approve it, you can only survive. !